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Creampie dilemma - 10/22/2015 7:15:53 PM   
CREAMPIEincome


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Status: offline 		If a slave performs clean up duties after his Goddess had a wild night of sex with her Bull, does that make the slave bi sexual, even though he does not like doing it, but only does it to please his Goddess?
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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 11:47:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		If you clean another man's cum with your mouth it makes you gay, period.

Doesnt matter what you say or think, any argument is invalid.

Put it this way. If you told that to your straight male friends they will all call you a fag or at least secretly and quietly think so.

Not that there is anything wrong with being one. But that is what you'd be

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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 11:50:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		If you have no sexual contact with another man, I can't see how that would make you bi. In fact, you would be having sexual contact only with a woman which would make you very hetero.



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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 11:58:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		what if a woman was to suck her man's dick after he'd just had sex with another woman - would that make her bi?

You are not having sexual contact with a man, you are giving oral to a woman. So no, I wouldn't describe you as gay or bi by that act alone.

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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 12:09:24 PM   
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If you clean another man's cum with your mouth it makes you gay, period.
No, it doesn't. He's not having sexual contact the man. There are all sorts of things we do in our life that have nothing to do how we define ourselves. I clean my house - it doesn't make me a maid or a housewife.

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Doesnt matter what you say or think, any argument is invalid.
No, in the end it doesn't matter what you say or think. We each get to figure out who we are, you don't get to make that decision for him.

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Put it this way. If you told that to your straight male friends they will all call you a fag or at least secretly and quietly think so.
That bolded section says SO much about you.

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Not that there is anything wrong with being one.
The fact that you feel compelled to say this means that you do think there is something wrong with it and feel the need to pre-defend yourself. Just like people who start off with "No offense" which means they're about to say something offensive or when they say "I'm Sorry, but" which means they're not sorry.

Your bias is clear and you want to use your bias to define someone else.


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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 12:18:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		After having a look at his profile and what he is looking for, I think he would prefer if it was.

Seriously Creampie, your name is a bit of a giveaway and the fact that you are explicitly looking for a couple where you do those activities kind of makes the "I don't like it, I really do it just for her" a bit invalid. Look, there is nothing wrong with whatever floats your boat, but why pretend that the woman would force you and you don't like it, if you are offering such services to a couple? Makes no sense

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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 12:55:15 PM   
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Now, can we please...

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GET RID OF THE DAMN SOCK PUPPETS?


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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 1:19:38 PM   
S1CK


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Status: offline 		Nah you are very wrong. I dont need to pre-defend myself and I was referring to how the average male would respond if they heard another man say he just ate cum.

The fact that you are not a male makes it very hard for you to understand what would happen in that situation.

We do get to figure out who we are and I haven't disputed that. His question was to society and what society thinks judging him from said actions.

If you think that a man can walk to a group of straight guys and say that he just ate cum and not be thought of as a fag, gay, be called names etc. then you are living in an illusion and not in touch with every day life

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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 1:34:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: S1CK


If you think that a man can walk to a group of straight guys and say that he just ate cum and not be thought of as a fag, gay, be called names etc. then you are living in an illusion and not in touch with every day life


If you think it's remotely acceptable to walk into a bunch of people and tell them in detail about your sex life, then you are living in a universe where manners apparently don't exist and aren't very much in touch with what is socially acceptable. There is such a thing as TMI

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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 1:40:41 PM   
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If you think that a man can walk to a group of straight guys and say that he just ate cum and not be thought of as a fag, gay, be called names etc. then you are living in an illusion and not in touch with every day life


Nah....I'm just surrounded by more enlightened people.

Even my ex-linebacker husband would look at the whole situation before forming an opinion and even then wouldn't use the word "fag".


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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 1:48:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CREAMPIEincome

If a slave performs clean up duties after his Goddess had a wild night of sex with her Bull, does that make the slave bi sexual, even though he does not like doing it, but only does it to please his Goddess?

I can't tell how, or on which principle slaves initially base their established relationship with their owners, but there "should" be though "very unlikely " some sort of agreement before all. Slaves are not like subs. Slaves are not entitled to nigociation at the time of making the agreement and are limited to either accept or refuse. They are not privileged like subs to discuss their limits and to draw the line. If slaves agree, then they are agreeing to slavery all inclusive. And they do not contribute to neither the success nor the failure of the ... _can I use the word "relationship" here_.... slaves makes A one time commitment and a "NO" from a slave is a deal breaker. While subs can renew their submission any time they want.
So in your case , if you agreed to "slavery" then slaves do whatever they are told to do, it does not matter where that would put you because you can't say "no" without breaking the whole deal. slaves are very unreliable and their morals is a joke. This is why I don't like slaves ewwwwww.

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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 1:59:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: S1CK

If you clean another man's cum with your mouth it makes you gay, period.

Actually, no. Being sexually or romantically attracted to a member of your gender makes you gay.

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Doesnt matter what you say or think, any argument is invalid.

Bless your heart.



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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 2:00:58 PM   
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Nah you are very wrong. I dont need to pre-defend myself and I was referring to how the average male would respond if they heard another man say he just ate cum.

The fact that you are not a male makes it very hard for you to understand what would happen in that situation.

We do get to figure out who we are and I haven't disputed that. His question was to society and what society thinks judging him from said actions.

If you think that a man can walk to a group of straight guys and say that he just ate cum and not be thought of as a fag, gay, be called names etc. then you are living in an illusion and not in touch with every day life

Maybe your everyday life is significantly different to mine but myself and my friends and just about everyone I know would NOT be thinking "fag".

Maybe your bubble needs expanding a bit to encompass some reality.

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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 2:39:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		Being a sub male can be enough to get you called a fag in many circles, since it's a sign of being insufficiently manly.

This is why it's best to look at orientations as literally as possible. When you think there's some extra value attached, you confuse yourself trying to justify having the "right" tastes, which may or may not align with what you actually like.

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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 2:51:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ReMakeYou

Being a sub male can be enough to get you called a fag in many circles, since it's a sign of being insufficiently manly.

This is why it's best to look at orientations as literally as possible. When you think there's some extra value attached, you confuse yourself trying to justify having the "right" tastes, which may or may not align with what you actually like.



OK, maybe I am living in a bubble, but I wouldn't ever dream of bringing it up in the pub or with colleagues what we do in the privacy of our own 4 walls. Just like I wouldn't like my neighbour giving me a detailed description of how she fucks her boyfriend. It's nobody's business.

If you're a submissive guy, you don't need to broadcast it to the whole world, it's your sexual preference and concerns nobody apart from your partner or perspective partner. Discussing it on a kink site is fine because our tastes are all a bit out of the ordinary, but why would you want to assault vanilla people with a detailed description of what you like?

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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 3:25:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		OH CRAP!!!

This means I am gay for me!!!!

Cuz when I put in the creamy filling, the next morning I'm eating that pussy and not giving a second thought to that cream pie.

Yep, I have issues... a pussy eating addiction is just one of them.

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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 3:33:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I don't know. If I have a swizzle stick up my hooch, does that make the guy who gets it out a bartender?

Now, can we please...

Please...

Please...

GET RID OF THE DAMN SOCK PUPPETS?



You win the Internet for the day! Best laugh of my workday.

And by the way, no, they won't get rid of the socks. But the mod did drive BitaTruble into closing her account. See Fet.


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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 3:33:50 PM   
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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 4:29:36 PM   
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If I have a swizzle stick up my hooch, does that make the guy who gets it out a bartender?

How far up are we talking? An ER doc might be a better choice.

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RE: Creampie dilemma - 10/30/2015 4:38:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: S1CK
then you are living in an illusion and not in touch with every day life


And in fact, I just asked my ex-linebacker, motorcycle riding Master/husband.

He says, "No, that doesn't make you a fag. It makes you a cuckold."


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