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dcnovice -> RE: New for me (10/22/2015 8:26:01 PM)
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I hope your time here at Collarchat will bring joy and insight.
I'm a gay male sub, so I don't have much hands-on counsel for you. But here are a tidbits gleaned from reading way too many posts.
-- Put your marriage first. Go slow and listen, listen, listen--especially for what she doesn't say.
-- One of your best sources of counsel is likely to another dom who's been in your situation. So you may want to research BDSM/kink
events in your area. If playing in public is a downer, you can always go as a voyeur. There might also be "munches"--shared meals in regular clothe. Munches, I'm told, can provide a more comfortable path into our quirky community.
-- I've heard great things about "The Loving Dominant" by John Warren.
Hope this helps!
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