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butterflytatts -> being married (7/17/2006 9:15:38 PM)
Are there many subs out there who are married to a vanilla and are owned by a Dominant? If so, two questions.....one, do you think about falling in love with you Master, and two, does your spouse know of your "other" committment?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: being married (7/17/2006 10:39:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: butterflytatts If so, two questions.....one, do you think about falling in love with you Master, Most people think about falling in love with people that they have formed intense commitments with. http://www.collarchat.com/tm.asp?m=477568&mpage=3&key=love&#484997 How common is it to fall in love with a submissive or dominant? http://www.collarchat.com/tm.asp?m=423736&mpage=1&key=love&#423879 Love and Ms http://www.collarchat.com/m_282567/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#282615 submissive/slave romantic love http://www.collarchat.com/m_269031/mpage_1/key_love%252Csubmission/tm.htm#269120 Falling in love with Mistress http://www.collarchat.com/m_248492/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#248492 true love in a relationship http://www.collarchat.com/m_236486/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#236486 balancing commitment and love http://www.collarchat.com/m_199915/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#199915 love in bdsm http://www.collarchat.com/m_166085/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#166085 love and D/s http://www.collarchat.com/m_65043/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#65043 love and bdsm (the unfettered heart) http://www.collarchat.com/m_150281/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#150281 Is it normal to fall in love with your dom during training? http://www.collarchat.com/m_125880/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#125880 not allowed to love him, what do I do? http://www.collarchat.com/m_119832/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#119832 being owned or being loved http://www.collarchat.com/m_97124/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#97124 subs/masochists and love http://www.collarchat.com/m_31285/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#31285 can love get in the way? http://www.collarchat.com/m_14998/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#14998 love in d/s http://www.collarchat.com/m_2491/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#2491 is love important in a relationship? quote: and two, does your spouse know of your "other" committment? I've never seen it work out long term in an affair. Either the truth comes out and/or one or all relationships end. http://www.collarchat.com/tm.asp?m=353083&mpage=1&key=married&#353108 married partners http://www.collarchat.com/m_298084/mpage_1/key_married/tm.htm#298084 collared when married to others http://www.collarchat.com/m_194066/mpage_1/key_married/tm.htm#194066 poly and the secrets from extended family

bandit25 -> RE: being married (7/18/2006 3:48:35 AM)
What she said

proudsub -> RE: being married (7/18/2006 2:16:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: butterflytatts Are there many subs out there who are married to a vanilla and are owned by a Dominant? If so, two questions.....one, do you think about falling in love with you Master, and two, does your spouse know of your "other" committment? I was in this situation several years ago. I didn't fall in love with my dom but he fell in love with me and it caused a lot of problems when i ended it. It went on for 6 months before Hubby found out about it and He is now my Dom. My only regret was not discussing it with Hubby to begin with. If you haven't done this i strongly suggest you do, you may be surprised by his reaction, he may not be as vanilla as you think. Good luck with it.

Emperor1956 -> RE: being married (7/18/2006 9:44:43 PM)
LA, I don't understand what you meant by this (and I don't understand what bandit is seconding, either): quote: quote: and two, does your spouse know of your "other" committment? I've never seen it work out long term in an affair. Either the truth comes out and/or one or all relationships end. When you say "in an affair" do you mean a relationship that is kept secret from the relevant spouse(s)? Please clarify? E.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: being married (7/18/2006 10:02:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Emperor1956 When you say "in an affair" do you mean a relationship that is kept secret from the relevant spouse(s)? Please clarify? E. Yes.

Emperor1956 -> RE: being married (7/18/2006 11:00:53 PM)
Thank you for the clarification. Then I agree with you, entirely. I have seen long term polyamorous relationships work just fine. But when there is concealment, cheating, I think that there is not a good likelihood of the relationship lasting. Although I'm sure there are 20 year affairs that work just fine, so long as no one is bothered by the deception issues. E.

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