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My advice would be to everyone, whatever gender you identify with, is to be yourself, don't pretend to be something you're not and don't settle for less than you are worth.

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Miss "Bossy Pants":This woman usually can't help herself; she has bossy in her DNA. When a man first meets her, he might think this character trait is cute, for awhile. However, once he starts to feel like he is in grammar school being told what to do by his second grade teacher, that will give him a raging stiffy.

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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Miss "Bossy Pants":This woman usually can't help herself; she has bossy in her DNA. When a man first meets her, he might think this character trait is cute, for awhile. However, once he starts to feel like he is in grammar school being told what to do by his second grade teacher, that will give him a raging stiffy.

Corrected that for you. :-)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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Miss "Bossy Pants":This woman usually can't help herself; she has bossy in her DNA. When a man first meets her, he might think this character trait is cute, for awhile. However, once he starts to feel like he is in grammar school being told what to do by his second grade teacher, that will give him a raging stiffy.

Corrected that for you. :-)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Yep, that's me! :-)

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ORIGINAL: MariaB
And here's one for the girls. Not written by me but by the same Samantha Daniels-Huffington Post. Always credit the person you borrow from:)

Mr. "Still Hung Up On His Ex": We have all been out with this guy. He says he is over his ex, yet at every turn, he talks about her and compares you to her. Please. He is not over her and until he is over her, he is not marrying you.

Mr. "I Am Not Ready For A Serious Relationship Right Now": This is the guy who dates a lot and then when he gets too close or decides he isn't interested in you, he uses the excuse that he's not ready. The question about this guy is this: Is he really not ready, or is that just a convenient excuse to dump you and avoid the commitment?

Mr. "Bigger Better Deal": You know this guy. He is the one who likes you a lot but is always wondering if there is a better version of you out there, somewhere in the universe. Honestly, do you need to be with the guy who is never going to think that you are good enough to marry?

Mr. "I Hang Out With Guys 15 Years My Junior": This is the guy who is 47 and a CEO of a company or a big-time executive and all of his contemporaries are married, so his BFFs are 25-year-olds and clubbing it. He is out until 3:00 a.m. several nights a week, looking to pick up and then he kids himself into thinking that when a 25-year-old girl says yes to a date with him, it's because he is such a good guy, not because she is dreaming of flying private.

Mr. "Still Trying To Figure Out His Career": If he is 40-plus and having a midlife work crisis, believe me, he is not going to marry you. Men need to be settled in their careers or at least know which direction they are headed on the career front before they can settle down.

Mr. "50-Something And Never Been Married": This guy is lurking everywhere. He is 50-plus and never married, yet he will swear to you that he is ready. When you ask him why he is still single, he will tell you it's because he hasn't met the right one. Then the question becomes that if he hasn't found her in the hundreds of women he has dated before you, what is going to make you so special that you are going to be his one? Probably nothing.

Mr. "Doesn't Believe In Monogamy": This guy thinks he is very avant-garde progressive, but most people will say he is just looking for an excuse to cheat. Do you really want to be with a guy who tells you upfront that he won't be faithful?

Mr. "All About Me": This guy is all about himself, 24/7, 365 days a year. Sharing your life with someone is hard enough, so do you really want to sign up to be with someone who is so into himself that they will never even notice you, your wants and your desires?

Mr. "My Kids Are The Only Thing I Care About": This guy is a tricky one. When you first meet him, he is endearing because you admire how dedicated he is to his children. You think to yourself that you would like to be with a man who is that responsible. However, then you start to see that he doesn't have any room for you at all because he is only about the kids. If you are going to be with a man with kids, he needs to want to find a place for you, front and center, in his life at least some of the time.

Mr. "Dates Other Women Who Mean Nothing To Him": This guy is really a commitment-phobe in disguise. Why does he need to date women who mean nothing to him if he is dating you and you supposedly mean something to him? You do the math.

What other types of men would you add to this list?

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ORIGINAL: Bunnicula
I can add a few more:

Mr "Bossy Pants": This guy is so insecure in his life that he feels the only way he can cope is to take charge of everything and everyone. Not to be confused with a dominant man, this guy demands everyone plays by his rules and anyone who doesn’t is some kind of evil monster. He will also use words like ‘fake’ and ‘wannabe’ and actually believe the crap he spouts, unlike everyone else. In the entire world.

Mr "Playing Games With Her Heart": This guy thinks that ‘treat them mean, keep them keen’ is actually a mature, acceptable way to run a relationship. He will give and withhold affection on a whim, leaving his partner totally confused, frustrated and usually looking for the nearest exit.

Mr "I Want To Change You": This guy loves everything about you, except the way you look, think, feel and act. He finds it so difficult to find ANY woman who is willing to spend time with him that he will take anything that is offered and will expend all his energy into changing you into his ideal woman. Unfortunately his ideal woman is usually made of latex and can often feel suspiciously like his own right hand in a crusty sock.

Mr "Suspiciously Jealous": This guy realises he is a dick and should be grateful for any woman paying him attention. However he has just enough self-awareness to realise that his shitty personality and inability to ‘rock her world’ with his abnormally tiny, mostly non-functioning penis will ensure she will leave him, sooner rather than later.

Mr "I Live For You And I Have Nothing Else Going On": This guy is so desperate for someone to spend time with him that he will usually declare undying love within the first three dates and will book the wedding venue for the following month. He will usually stink of desperation, which smells a lot like wee.

Mr "I Have Mommy Issues": This guy is usually so spoiled by his adoring mommy that he is unable to function in adult society. He believes that the laundry fairy takes his dirty clothing and returns it at the end of the day, pressed and hung up in the wardrobe. He won’t bathe until mommy tells him to and will sulk if the correct breakfast cereal is not available every day. This guy is usually a whiny pussy.

Mr "I Speak To My Mother Five Times A Day About Everything": This guy won’t take a shit without asking mother if it’s ok. He will check with her before doing anything, including having sex. Which, to be honest, rarely happens. Well, not with a real woman anyway.

Mr "Shhh, I Shouldn't Really Be Saying This, But...": This guy brags about his amazing life whenever possible. Modesty is not a word that he understands. He believes he is a fantastic lover with unsurpassed oral skills. She believes friction burns on her clit and an ass full of drool do not make for good sex. He claims to be rich and generous which, to be honest, is the only reason he gets a chance to have sex at all.

Mr "Keeping Up With The Joneses": This guy is so paranoid about his own deficiencies that he just about faints with horror if he doesn’t have the latest phone, computer, suit, trainers, or other over-priced consumer tat. He compensates for his teeny peeny and shitty social skills by boasting loudly about his possessions, most of which are made from the same kind of plastic as his inflatable girlfriend.

Mr "I Can Eat Anything And Still Look Fantastic": He can’t – he’s a fat fuck who stinks of garlic and regularly follows through when he farts.

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ORIGINAL: VoiceAloud

I am here to contribute what I hope will be mature,sensible, intelligent posts. I have been advised that the moderators and most contributors are engaged in causing havoc and exchanging insults. I hope that is not true but time will tell. I will not respond to anything not related to my forum posts.

I will try to moderate my own posts by starting each with a polite reminder about conduct.

I. Please contribute to this thread with civility and respect each others opinions.

2. If the thread topic is not to you're liking then cease to read it and make no comment about it.

3. Think for yourself and do not permit others to influence you in anyway about Any contributor

4. Do not label Amy contributor under any given title to give excuse to legitimately insult them.

5. Remember every one has the right to free speech even if they write obvious nonsense. Respect that fact and do not challenge them for to do so only escalates the potential for prolonged animosity and contributes to a deteriorating forum. Be a party to the solution not party to the problem.

I expect my that the 5 points I have made concerning the contributions to my topics will be ignored by those seeking to disrupt. In doing so they expose themselves for what they are and the moderator can more easily identify them and remove them from the forum if the moderator is engaged in doing what they are employed to do with impartiality.

This is a rather interesting perspective written by a person other than myself so I do not take credit for the writings. (Despite my sexual orientation I do have brothers and care about their happiness.)

TEN TYPES OF WOMEN THAT MEN DO NOT WANT TO MARRY:

Miss "Bossy Pants":This woman usually can't help herself; she has bossy in her DNA. When a man first meets her, he might think this character trait is cute, for awhile. However, once he starts to feel like he is in grammar school being told what to do by his second grade teacher, he will give this woman her walking papers.

Miss "Playing Games With His Heart": This woman thinks that being a game player will help her land a man. However, even though a man might be intrigued by a hard to get lady in the beginning, as soon as he decides that he is interested in her, all he wants is an honest straightshooter. If this woman doesn't remove Battleship from her repertoire quite quickly, she will be shown the door before she can even sink his vessel.

Miss "I Want To Change You": This woman is lurking everywhere. She is the type of woman many men are the most leery of. (Of course, there are some men who love this woman because of their own insecurities.) She claims that she loves her guy just the way he is, but little by little, she chips away at just about everything about him. First, it's his wardrobe, then it's his taste in music. However, when she gets to his friends and his hobbies, she is usually kicked to the curb.

Miss "Suspiciously Jealous": This woman is on edge all the time because she is very distrusting. Many times, she has been burnt in the past, so she is on guard for anything that looks or feels wrong. When a man first meets this woman, he sees her as a damsel in distress and wants to reassure her that he is nothing like that guy in her past. However, once she accuses him one too many times, he will have no choice to leave her because he can't go through his life being prosecuted for somebody else's crimes.

Miss "I Live For You And I Have Nothing Else Going On": This woman is very difficult for a man to date, let alone marry. At first, he is flattered that she is so into him, but very quickly, he feels overwhelmed and suffocated by her. As a woman, you must have something going on in your own life so that you are not just waiting by the door for him to come home.

Miss "I Have Daddy Issues": This woman usually dates older men and deep down is looking for a father figure, not a boyfriend or husband. Initially, her guy might like how she looks to him for approval and the answer to all of her questions, but soon, he realizes that he wants to have sex with a real woman, not someone who is stuck in her teen years trying to get Daddy to notice her.

Miss "I Speak To My Mother Five Times A Day About Everything": This woman has her mother on speed dial and can't seem to make a decision or do anything without getting her opinion. When a guy first meets her, he thinks it's nice that she is so close to her family, but soon, he finds it to be way too much. A man just doesn't want to have to ask her mother's permission about things in his life.

Miss "Shhh, I Shouldn't Really Be Saying This, But...": This woman is like a human Page Six. She loves to gossip and talk about other people and she loves to hear things about other people as well. Initially when a guy meets her, he might be entertained by her anecdotes but eventually, he begins to wonder what she is saying behind his back.

Miss "Keeping Up With The Joneses": This woman needs to be at least as good as everyone else she knows. She is constantly talking about what the other people do and what the other people have. This places a lot of undue pressure on her guy and eventually, he justs gets fed up that she can't appreciate what they have instead of wishing she was someone else.

Miss "I Don't Eat": This woman picks at her food, is on a never-ending diet or doesn't eat pretty much everything that most people eat. When a man first meets her, he thinks to himself, at least she will never become overweight, but eventually he realizes that it's no fun to eat alone. The fact is men like to eat; they like steak, they like trying different foods, they like dessert and women should be eating too, at least sometimes.

Keep in mind that most men just want a happy and easy going woman who has good values, so just focus on putting the best YOU out there.

Can you think of any other types of women that are unattractive to men?

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Snorting wildly at the ladies.

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You dont know the difference between a snort n a grunt.....good to know.

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ORIGINAL: VoiceAloud

I will try to moderate my own posts by starting each with a polite reminder about conduct.

I. Please contribute to this thread with civility and respect each others opinions.

2. If the thread topic is not to you're liking then cease to read it and make no comment about it.

3. Think for yourself and do not permit others to influence you in anyway about Any contributor

4. Do not label Amy contributor under any given title to give excuse to legitimately insult them.

5. Remember every one has the right to free speech even if they write obvious nonsense. Respect that fact and do not challenge them for to do so only escalates the potential for prolonged animosity and contributes to a deteriorating forum. Be a party to the solution not party to the problem.