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when your sub has to take care of you - 7/18/2006 8:14:39 AM   
LadyAlexa


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Status: offline 		Greetings everyone.

It has been some time since I've posted on any of the forums.  Had an emergency visit with a surgeon a couple weeks ago but am not on the road to recovery.  This week I'm feeling like myself again so I'll be enjoying reading posts ...and maybe will respond here and there.

My sub took the responsibility of getting me to the hospital, calling the relatives, checking on matters that needed attending, and making sure things were done.  On the home front, she cleaned and scrubbed  making sure that friends were kept abreast as to my condition.  Since I've been home she has helped tremedously so that I dont' overtax myself. 

There hasn;'t been one time through all this that I thought...hey I'm the Dom I'm suppose to take care of you.  Instead I thought how wonderful a sub I do have that can continue to do what I desire eventhough we might not be communicating.  Especially since we haven't done any bdsm fun stuff for a month.   Having a D/s household with a touch of bdsm is very nice.       Course since I'm female, my sub trans m-f and we've been together for three years might make a difference.  I'm use to be waited on, but taken care of to this extent, well it's been rewarding.   I have a deeper appreciation, respect, and love for my amber.

ok sappiness is off...just wanted to say a general hello to everyone.

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Submission is key not gender.

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RE: when your sub has to take care of you - 7/18/2006 8:33:20 AM   
Catlynn


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Status: offline 		Very heart warming story Lady Alexa. Thank you for sharing it with us. May you have a speedy recovery.

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RE: when your sub has to take care of you - 7/18/2006 12:53:18 PM   
LotusSong


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Joined: 7/2/2006
From: Domme Emeritus
Status: offline 		When one can be in charge without lifting a finger or uttering a sound, then you have "arrived".   :)

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I'm not inflatable.


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RE: when your sub has to take care of you - 7/18/2006 3:07:54 PM   
docileservent


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Status: offline 		welcome back Lady Alexa. am very happy to see you posting again. this one prey's that you continue to improve daily and make a complete recovery. this community has missed your wise thoughful post.... be well, and a nod to amber for her dedication, docileservent

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RE: when your sub has to take care of you - 7/18/2006 4:13:49 PM   
popeye1250


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Joined: 1/27/2006
From: New Hampshire
Status: offline 		Ditto on what Lotus said.

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RE: when your sub has to take care of you - 7/18/2006 4:19:40 PM   
wild1cfl


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Joined: 4/19/2004
Status: offline 		Glad that you are recovering well. We had a similiar situation with my wife and our slave. My wife had to go to the emergency room the other night. Our slave found out and although she was not feeling well herself went to the ER to sit with my wife.  she was there sitting at the emergency room until I was able to get there which was over 2 hours. Then she made sure that we had what we needed to drink or eat before she asked if she could leave to go home and get some sleep. Sometimes we take our slaves loyalty for granted, but in times like this we know that it is there.

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My Falcon now is sharp, and passing empty; And, till she stoop, she shall not be full gorg'd, For then she never looks upon her lure. Another way i have to man my haggard, to make her come and know her keeper's call. Wm. Shakespeare

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RE: when your sub has to take care of you - 7/19/2006 8:03:25 AM   
sub4hire


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Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline 		Sounds as though you merely found a submissive.  Not just a play partner.  That is the difference in my opinion..the fine line so to speak.
A sub genuinely cares about his or her dominant.  Will move the earth if they must to make them happy.

I wish you a speedy recovery but you are in good hands so you'll be back up in no time.

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RE: when your sub has to take care of you - 7/20/2006 12:07:43 PM   
LadyAlexa


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Status: offline 		Thanks for all the well wishes!   Yes I do have a submissive....not a play partner.  Makes my life easier that is for sure   

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Lady Alexa
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Submission is key not gender.

GLBT approved.

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RE: when your sub has to take care of you - 7/21/2006 3:45:03 AM   
Rayne58


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Joined: 2/22/2005
From: Sydney Australia
Status: offline 		I take care of my Master who has end stage renal failure and is on dialysis 3 mornings a week at the hospital. He also has diabetes as well as other health issues. He doesn't have time or the inclination to micro manage me and there are times when I have to take the initiative e.g. I've called an ambulance about half a dozen times since we've been together (2 1/2 years). I keep His health records, list of current meds (there are quite a few) and go to doctors appointments and clinics with Him - I know about as much as He does about His health

Life can be quite hectic at times and we take everything day to day. Over our time together I've found out just how strong I really am and can be. My ex husband used to belittle me, Master builds me up. Despite everything I am loved and appreciated and we're very happy together

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RE: when your sub has to take care of you - 7/21/2006 1:36:49 PM   
MMMMudd


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Status: offline 		   Congratulations Lady Alexa You've got a good one! and so does your master Rayne.
Times when a person is sick or incapacitated are really the test of a relationship, Anyone can be a loyal, good person when things are going well. It's when life gets crazy, as it often does, that are the real tests of character.
Mudd

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