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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 2:39:32 PM   
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A lot of doms and subs consider socializing together or being together to be part of the subs service- so in that case being together simply wouldn't be possible.



can you explain it for me?


Well, on the one level, it can be considered a reward and opportunity to serve ANY time the slave/sub is given time to simply sit and talk and spend relax time with the dom.  If the people in the relationship consider time together to be time to serve, then they simply cannot be together withOUT service taking place.

On another level, service is simply considered to be an omnipresent part of the relationship- such as with Raven's description.  It would likely make things quite awkward to enter a room and be told that you aren't allowed or supposed to do the things that you've been trained to do or have come to expect as part of what you do.


I missed the part about no serving.  I serve him in all I do, so I agree it would be impossible.  But sill I would rather sit in a room full of HIM, even if just to sit and be quiet and do nothing (which is a way of serving in and of itself) than be elsewhere.  Can I see him?  Hear him?  Smell him?  Then I'm happy.

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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 3:12:03 PM   
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Hmmm, depends who'd be less predictable.  I think I'm fairly interesting, but would I be able to tell what I was thinking next? 

I might be a little interested in how the various me's would be different by the end of the night. 

But if we were all the same, and I could be reasonably sure what I would say next, then I'd take the room full of subs. 

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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 4:10:33 PM   
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A whole room full of me's..hmm.. that could be really really interesting. Living alone I often end up talking to myself half the time anyways. I wonder how much therapy it would take if another me starts to answer. There could be some real fireworks of conversations started. I could also see just what it is about that sometimes gets on my own nerve. This could prove to be alot of fun..maybe?..

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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 4:20:49 PM   
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This is a very tough one.  I think I am absolutely hysterical so being with a roomful of mes would be quite entertaining.  However, I get on my nerves BIG TIME so I don't know how much I would be talking with myselves.

However, being in a roomful of Hims and not being able to do anything would be so frustrating.  Maybe I'd just stay home that night.

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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 4:27:38 PM   
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I would, like Raven, get sick of the intense conversations of a room full of mes.
I would choose a room full of Lokis, but I'd be scared shitless to walk in there.  It would be akin to being a ribeye in a room full of hungry coyotes!



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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 5:06:56 PM   
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     Me, in a room full of 30-40 switches I'm fluid bonded with???   Yeah right, there ain't gonna be sex.

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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 5:12:42 PM   
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Ja, I am going to hang out with a room full of me........

ONE CAVEAT..........

they don't have to talk, they don't have to be seen, they don't have to be molested in anyway.........

But one other in the space-time dimension for a couple minutes to give me some ereathral head.

Said my piece.


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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 6:04:43 PM   
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pssst they cant pring you stuff or pamper you either....but i get your point about already knowing yourself, how you are ect, but do we really know ourselves, do we really know what we look like and how we are?...i think there would be some big surprises...


That's a good question in and of itself. If I could get myself to open up to myself...which I think I do a pretty good job of anyway but still...I might get some deeper answers to things I wonder about myself. Especially if the me that would answer me could be the me that is a fairly critical thinker, non-jefgmental about my own actions, and more willing to open up. Then, if I could talk to the really funny me after that to lighten things up a bit. And then...there is the fact that I could talk to the sexy side of me and get some idea of why I seem sexy to certain others. (anybody confused yet?)

Yeah...O.K....talking to a room full of MEs could be interesting.



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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 7:08:30 PM   
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I can't imagine what would be fun about a room full of mes.  They already know all my good stories, and I know all of theirs.  Nobody has any new information or viewpoints to bring to the table.  Conversation is pointless.  We'd just look at each other, nod, and go back to reading our books.

Actually, now that I think of it, that doesn't sound bad at all.

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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 7:19:00 PM   
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I think it would be interesting to be in a room full of me.  I'd get to observe me and see me as other people see me.

Kinda scary, really.

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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 7:21:40 PM   
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edited to erase double post

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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 7:25:11 PM   
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I think a room full of me would be interesting.  I'd get to observe me, see how others see me.

Kinda scary, really.


Oh the irony of your post coming up twice!  (or did you do that on purpose, lol).  We ARE in a room full of you!  And personally, I think that would be a really cool place to be :)

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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 7:37:02 PM   
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Hello A/all,

I would not hang out in a room full of myself for two reasons.

a)  I know what I am going to say next.

b)  I tend to be bored by the things I say because I already thought
    I knew the information before I said it.

Im not sure I have the energy to have 30 or 40 submissives.  One is fine.  I would like to be in a room with my submisssive, but I imagine a room of 30 of them would seem so Zombie Sex Slaves In Silver Jumpsuits and Secret Moon Base to me.

I have often said that if I stole an election and was made King, that I would staff my cabinet with people who a) didnt agree with me and b) didnt like me.  Then there would never be any doubt in my mind that I had a room full of yes-people telling me what I wanted to hear.

But then I would have a sign on my desk like Truman that stated "The Buck Stops Here"

But thats just me, and I could be wrong.

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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 7:39:01 PM   
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I think a room full of me would be interesting.  I'd get to observe me, see how others see me.

Kinda scary, really.


Oh the irony of your post coming up twice!  (or did you do that on purpose, lol).  We ARE in a room full of you!  And personally, I think that would be a really cool place to be :)


LOL..maybe I should have left the dupe!  You know, ownedgirlie, if we were in a room full of ourselves, I think the world would not be safe.

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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 7:43:00 PM   
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LOL..maybe I should have left the dupe!  You know, ownedgirlie, if we were in a room full of ourselves, I think the world would not be safe.


HA!  No kidding!  Then again, there are plenty who say I'm already full of myself....lol 

(and yes, you should have, silly - that was a nice touch!)

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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 7:45:56 PM   
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Although I enjoy myself...my alone time is precious to me....I know me...and for sake of conversation...I would choose the room of others....I enjoy conversing....I always learn something from someone....I can't really learn anything else from me right now....

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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 8:05:15 PM   
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I have no desire to sit in a room full of myself.  It would merely serve to remind me that I am turning into my Mother and make me want to commit a mass murder/suicide.  ****sarcasm folks, don't get upset. ****
I love myself and my opinion, but have heard it all before.
Anyway, I would prefer a room full of slaves/subs, of either or both sexes!  How could a room full of anything be better than that?  >:)~
Actually though- ONE slave- mine- would do nicely!

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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 8:39:40 PM   
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You are soooo funny Wet Hot Goddess! I totally get your humor because I know what you mean (except in my case, it is my sister who is a walking replica of my mother. I did love my mother, a lot. Now that she is dead, though, if I ever want to argue about things that don't really matter (like how to hang toilet paper, or is butter better than margarine, etc.) like it's a federal court case,  I can always go visit my (middle) sister, he. I love her, too. I know it sounds like I don't but I really do. I do. She knows me so well.

- Susan

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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 8:59:07 PM   
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Nutty question i know...but i am curious...
 
You go to a party and there are two rooms and you have to choose one to hang out in all night.
 
One is a room full of your Dominant or submissive partner....
 
And one is a room filled with yous....
 
Which are you more comfortable and why?.....oh and no sex, serving or sceneing is allowed, lol  all you get to do is have conversation.
 
If you choose you partners room, would you be comfortable or intimidated by 30-40 of them?


i guess it all depends.....

hmmm....

i don't have a Dom at the moment....so it depends on who my Dom ends up being....

if He is the brooding, silent, strong, type it would be a very uncomfortable evening. I would have to do all the talking, and although people that know me think that would be an easy thing for me to do, i get all nervous and self-conscious and stuff when i feel that all eyes are on me. i'm a geeky girl at heart. i'd spill wine on my dress and trip on my high heels walking across the floor in the silence of all these hunky quiet dudes.....

on the other hand....

if He ends up being like ohhh say.....

Matthew McConaughey (stop my heart oh my Golly gosh someone like that is attracted to me!)

or

Sean Connery (uhhhhh, gulp, uh....yeah.....uh hi ....uh...you remind me of.....uh..... do you think it's hot in here?)

laughing ......

oh dang.....those sort of men aren't real anyway they are actors....

hmmmm

if the man i end up with is a silent watcher intense eyes sort of man...i would want to go to a room full of me's

if the man i end up with is a conversationalist, and engaging, and charming then i'd want to be in a room FULL of hims.

intense and brooding is thrilling one on one, and very intimidating en masse...

hmmmm
did i answer the question?

laughing
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RE: Would you hang out in a room full of yourself - 7/18/2006 9:08:08 PM   
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It definately depends on my mood.  If i am in the mood for a quiet evening, then the room for of me's would be just perfect.  If i want fun and lively conversation and want to flirt and be playful then definately the room full of Him's.  Of course, if i am PMSing i would so NOT be in the room full of me's (especially if we all are - LOL).  That would be a recipe for disaster.

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