CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. (11/25/2015 2:18:10 AM)
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ORIGINAL: meslave1974 I have never done this and would like to explore slavery. I keep getting approached by Masters who say, you will drink my piss and everything I want. Are there Masters on here that will start a little slower and expand limits HELP Someone might let you know what they would expect from you IF you were their slave...this doesn't mean that you're under any obligation to become their slave. It's okay to say no thanks. Someone who pushes your submissive buttons (often by talking about your kinks/fetishes) can send you into "sub frenzy". Feel free to Google that term. Anyway, if you feel your ability to say no has been compromised, back away from the computer for a few days and "walk it off". Some people can be pushed into "sub spacing" even just from conversation, and have gone through "sub drop" hell all on their own. These intense feelings to not prove that you have found the perfect person to serve, it can also mean that you are between partners and are too hungry for some power exchange. There are a lot of good BDSM groups in Ohio. I sent you a private message with info for one that has an early December meetup (in a restaurant). It's for newbies and it's free (except for what you choose to buy to eat/drink in the restaurant). I can look up ones all over Ohio and send you the link, and maybe some of you can laugh over your iced tea about the crazy things people demand of new people over the internet. My advice...slow down. Make friends with a lot of other kinky people. Watch. Listen. Learn. Read some non-fantasy, non-porn, BDSM educational books, find your local BDSM munch groups, see if there are any dungeons in your area and sign up for newbie educational classes. Find people to hang out with whose company you enjoy. Date people, find out who they are as a person and eventually you will find out if they are someone you would even want to serve. Spend time being a submissive before looking to be someone's slave. Edited for clarity.
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