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ORIGINAL: AAkasha



First, let me just ask if any other femdoms find self deprecating behavior from sub men to be at all endearing? I am not talking about the very occasional "poking fun at oneself," but comments made frequently that are like less offensive versions of "I am a lowly worm."

Things like:

"But I probably don't know what I am talking about it."
"But my opinion doesn't matter."
"I'm nothing compared to you in this aspect."

This also isn't humility, which I find to be more subtle. These are deliberate "digs" at oneself, brought up during non-playtime, with a sheepish look or pause of anticipation. I sometimes feel like this is either self-flagellation of ego, or a subtle enjoyment at acknowledging perceived or imagine "female superiority" (even when the sub says he is not a female supremacist - head scratcher!)

Akasha

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ORIGINAL: dcnovice

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I understand that subs are the krill of the D/s ocean.

Bear in mind, of course, that the entire marine ecosystem would collapse without krill.