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DaveLuke -> RE: Domme List (12/31/2015 9:52:45 AM)
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well I would not go to a findomme anyway so I doubt i would be black listed but then again, not sure if thats a big deal even if i was. I don't want to hand over large amounts of cash to a girl. firstly I understand the kink, I have even fantasized about giving money away before. and usually I get very excited about giving a girl a present etc.
However in my eyes and no offense to anyone else I am sure many would disagree with me here, its just not right if i have to pay for it. that just flat out feels wrong to me. further I actually want a monogamous relationship with a single partner for life who i can serve and worship. gifts and treats from time to time with a girl who i am with if that happens is one thing but throwing money at them no.
see if or when I eventually find my partner, i want to provide them the best life I possibly can. that may or may not be money orientated it depends on the person etc, but it certainly does not hurt to have more. i started investing in shares and saving money and hopefully that can eventually be used for a deposit on a house. I don't make any silly money and I am sure if a girl makes money there priority they can probably do better then me. but if i give myself to a lady then I give them the best i can in every way.
saying oh I spent it all on giving to girls because it made me hard, is not something i want to say. What I want to say is I have always dreamed of you coming along and have saved up some money to provide you a better life etc. I am not interested in the girls i meet along the way, I want my best for the girl i settle down with. Obviously one of the girls I meet along the way will be the one i settle down with if things work out, but then I can plan on how to make everything perfect with the resources i saved for my future wife and family at that point not in early dating etc.
However assuming this list exists I am pretty sure it is not a world wide secret organization spread across every single dominant female in the world.
it would just be isolated lists within certain limited communities.
I really would not worry to much about that.
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