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dreamlady -> RE: My Mistress Needs Financial Help - Should I Help Her? (11/26/2015 6:29:41 PM)
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That RHCP pic came off of an LP cover? Two dudes on the left need some serious manscaping. . .
. . . and to think I used to listen to them a really long time ago!
OP, this lady isn't your Domme. She's your play partner Top, and it costs gas money for her to come visit you, or what have you.
She's still your friend, so do as friends do. You see a friend in trouble, you offer to help out in whatever way you can. I would risk the chance of offending her by asking her if she needs a small loan (assuming this would not cause you hardship), rather than risk offending her by not offering. Your heart is in the right place, but she may not know that you haven't just been using her all this time.
Get creative. Suggest setting up a friendship fund like a petty cash box to cover gas expenses, refreshments, ordering pizza delivery or Chinese food after a play session as part of aftercare, buying new toys or replacing old ones, toward a new outfit she might want of her choosing that doesn't have to be fetish gear. Contributions are made by whoever has some money to spare at the time, and reassure her that you consider her your friend.
Words to live by. Whether it's friendship or the stock market. Never put more money into it than you're willing to kiss goodbye and can spare. The same with lending money. Consider such things as gifts, and if you get repaid, then that's a unexpected bonus. [:)]
DreamLady
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