cynthiamarie
Posts: 205
Joined: 3/11/2005 From: Bluefield, WV, USA Status: offline
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This is from one of my favorite sites, from the How To area, and under G Spot: http://www.bdsmcentral.com/bdsm/gspot.htm and this from the area called Female Ejaculation: http://www.bdsmcentral.com/bdsm/ejaculation.htm I don't want to copy and paste the entire thing, though the site gives permission, and I can't copy and paste parts of it. Um, btw, it's supposed to come in one of two flavors, buttery or sweet...and I know which one mine is. quote: Strangely enough, some things one might take as given are actually subjects of controversy instead. Here I ask you to weigh in on the following subjects of controversy: 1. The G-Spot: Does it exist? What does it do? How does it relate to the possible presence of the Skene's gland? 2. Female Ejaculation: Does it exist? What are it's characteristics? What is the fluid emitted? Squirt or gush? Clear or white? Is it merely uncontrolled urine? Personally, and without giving away too much of my own opinion, I think these subjects are all very closely related to one another. I'm interested in anything anyone has to say on any of it. 1.....YES! Mine used to get stimulated during sex and since neither of us knew what we were doing, I didn't get to ejaculate...except sometimes it went off in my sleep after marathon, nonorgasmic sex. I was accused of peeing the bed at first, yeah it was that much. It was very slippery, not like urine, the wet spot on the white sheets had a hint of pink that was weird, not like any blood, but like Easter Egg pink. I was so offended at the accusation that I had peed the bed when I had just had a terrific orgasm in my sleep and he was messing up the afterglow for me with his whining, that I reached down and then tasted some. It was sweet, not salty, and definitely in no way like urine. I've not had a S.O. since before my teenaged unmentionable was born, so I'm looking way back in the past for this, okay? Oh, one time while having sex *cringes* in a bathroom in a donut shop...I should never have mentioned the two long metal rails on either side of the... Anyway, from the very first instant of stimulation, it was like having an orgasm with no beginning and no end, without contractions, that would keep up as long as the stimulation continued, it seemed. Too bad he came, lol, life is so not fair. 2. I'll add to "what does it do?" and "what are it's characteristics", etc. Just adding a different facet onto what others haven't brought up because THEY are sexually active recently and I'm...not exactly. (I don't want causual sex...I want it with someone I love, so I have it with myself, lol.) So, from this point of view... For those of us who are having multiple orgasms, sometime after 8 or 12, or after 4 with a really good assisted *coughs* fantasy, something very frustrating can happen; the G spot can swell up and be very uncomfortable...I've had problems peeing for often 3 days afterward. A G spot vibe? Forget it, mine doesn't do the job. *I'm open to hearing better brands that have worked for others.* Fingers? Mine barely reaches the outer edge, when my G spot is swelled up, and it's enough to drive me mad. (This is why I had to stop listening to delicious pirate and kidnap bedtime stories over the phone. I feel sorry for men who have had "blue balls", as I think this condition feels a bit the same.) If/when I find a significant other, this won't be a problem, as I'll tell him EXACTLY what to do, if he doesn't know already. As for the thread being moved, maybe if you had asked about finding a submissive's G spot, or finding it after she's tied up...
< Message edited by cynthiamarie -- 7/18/2006 3:25:26 PM >
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