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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 2:59:54 PM

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After another whining thread I'm beginning to realize why I live alone and why it will will remain that way.

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 3:12:21 PM

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I’m a pretty simple bloke really. Where possible and in important areas I like things to be cut and dried. If a kajira of mine says NO she better have a damned good reason…. If I am playing and it is predetermined that No is not stop but part of the game, then No does not mean NO but a safe word means NO! STOP! If on the rare occasion that I loaned a girl for some one to play with and he didn’t stop when what ever word was used, and if she didn’t right hook him or boot him in the nuts, I would do just that and probably more (nasty beastie I am if it’s any of my family, women or property is misused …) I guess that’s my two bobs worth ….. (Goes back to cracking knuckles at the thought)

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 3:15:10 PM

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girl recently told a Dom "NO," and whilst she is sticking to her guns on this He just won't give up. girl has decided when he does this she will not only put him on ignore online but let all calls go to her answering service and after a time he will get bored with her and find another who will hopefully be strong enough to say "NO," from the onset of the first email.

If you said "no" at the onset how did he get your phone number?

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 3:17:15 PM

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ok well now I am sufficiently embarassed I usually catch that!

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 3:18:10 PM

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That was a January, 2004 post.

Some things never change.

OMG I didn't even notice that, no wonder there were some posters I hadn't seen on the boards for awhile.

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 3:40:04 PM

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That is so one of My favorite emails---when a Dom <shhhh wink wink> REALLY wants to submit only to Me---

OR, if I had a "real"man, I'd come to My senses--

*laughs* The original post story is actually one of the things I miss most about having a chatroom. I used to get idiots like that all the time. Sometimes if they messaged me when I was bored. I'd say things like:

"Sure I'll collar you. Now you do understand that I would require you to go through castration." (or a sex change)
"You want to wear my collar? Ok.. strip naked, run around outside your house/apt, then come inside and jog in place for 5 minutes. Then go to bed and get 8 full hours of sleep."
"Awesome you want to be my slave. I'm so excited! Now I can practice that amputation thing I've always wanted to do."

I usually didnt hear from them again.

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 3:48:06 PM

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girl recently told a Dom "NO," and whilst she is sticking to her guns on this He just won't give up. girl has decided when he does this she will not only put him on ignore online but let all calls go to her answering service and after a time he will get bored with her and find another who will hopefully be strong enough to say "NO," from the onset of the first email.

If you said "no" at the onset how did he get your phone number?

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proudsub: you misread girls post.............girl said she hopes the next girl this Dom finds will be strong enough to say "NO, " at the onset of the first email. girl brought up the size of the part she see you got confused by and made it bold so that anyone else does not get confused by her post. girl means no disrespect, but she had spoken with said Dom for a few hours and thought he would be safe to speak to on the phone, and it is then that she learned from her mistake.

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 3:50:28 PM

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laughs* The original post story is actually one of the things I miss most about having a chatroom. I used to get idiots like that all the time. Sometimes if they messaged me when I was bored. I'd say things like:

"Sure I'll collar you. Now you do understand that I would require you to go through castration." (or a sex change)
"You want to wear my collar? Ok.. strip naked, run around outside your house/apt, then come inside and jog in place for 5 minutes. Then go to bed and get 8 full hours of sleep."
"Awesome you want to be my slave. I'm so excited! Now I can practice that amputation thing I've always wanted to do."

I usually didnt hear from them again.

Now THAT's priceless!

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 3:52:48 PM

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What is a snert?

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 3:53:20 PM

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proudsub: you misread girls post.............

Sorry, sometimes i have trouble following 3rd person speech.

< Message edited by proudsub -- 4/8/2006 3:54:16 PM >

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 3:57:59 PM

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proudsub: you misread girls post.............

Sorry, sometimes i have trouble following 3rd person speech.

I see I'm not the only one who gets lost reading third person chat. Got to have something to do with that mouse in her pocket. <Tears>

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 4:04:23 PM

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proudsub: you misread girls post.............

Sorry, sometimes i have trouble following 3rd person speech.

I see I'm not the only one who gets lost reading third person chat. Got to have something to do with that mouse in her pocket.

*shakes her head at some who have no respect for slaves that have been trained as she has*

girl was trained in Gor and while she did not go far in her training it is how she was trained....she was taught to speak third person and will not change that unless she finds a Master who wishes her to do so.

so do not sit on your high little horse and judge girl without getting to know her as that is ......... well girl will not go down that road as she does not wish to create a problem with those who do not know how to show respect.

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 4:36:42 PM

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Very well said Cariad.

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 5:09:07 PM

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she passed an opinion and made a joke, it was far from inflammatory, an attack or disrespect--nothing more, nothing less---when you put it out here, one has to be prepared not everyone will get it or want it---but they all have the right to pass an opinion---just as you do.

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 7:20:32 PM

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Thank you MHOO314, but I just over look responses like that and give a smile. <Tears>

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 8:08:06 PM

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Very well said Cariad.

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*smiles softly* Thank You TxBadMan ....

a side note to MH00314....... this is not the first time girl has seen the same thing from the person who posted it to get the response girl posted and while she knows it is not going to be the last, she also has the "Right" to be respected and while You may think it was not meant to be anything more than a joke. You have to consider how girl was trained and to her to see something like that is seen as disrespectful and inflamitory as You so eloquently put it.

however this is not to say You are not entitled to Your opinion but remember that does not mean girl has to agree and if she feels her integrity is being attacked or the fact she still uses this girl or girl in her posts she has a right to speak up.

ok girl is done beating the dead horse as she knows that while she may speak her mind she will just continue to be attacked for her posts she will "lurk" in the background and watch what happens next.

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 8:48:36 PM

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 9:55:17 PM

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That is so one of My favorite emails---when a Dom <shhhh wink wink> REALLY wants to submit only to Me---

OR, if I had a "real"man, I'd come to My senses--

yeah right.

Welcome to the boards Mistress!

LOL Yeah Ive gotten those emails too about making me into a *real* woman, well gee lets see I was born with tits and a pussy so I think that qualifies me as a REAL woman. I certainly don't need a man to teach me that thank you. As for the one's who are Dom's and want to be dominated, here again they are looking to get off real quick or are actually closeted switches who are too afraid to act out on their desires. Poor things they need a hobby like Dominos....

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 10:02:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

That is so one of My favorite emails---when a Dom REALLY wants to submit only to Me---

OR, if I had a "real"man, I'd come to My senses--

yeah right.

Welcome to the boards Mistress!

LOL Yeah Ive gotten those emails too about making me into a *real* woman, well gee lets see I was born with tits and a pussy so I think that qualifies me as a REAL woman. I certainly don't need a man to teach me that thank you. As for the one's who are Dom's and want to be dominated, here again they are looking to get off real quick or are actually closeted switches who are too afraid to act out on their desires. Poor things they need a hobby like Dominos....

~Lashra

*falls over laughing* exactly what girl was thinking when she re-read the posts....... some of the replies girl gets from her profile are genuine and then there are those who like You say Lashra that need a hobby such as Dominos or something like that...

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RE: When did "NO" cease to mean "NO"... - 4/8/2006 11:55:52 PM

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as soon as you said chat, i wrote it all off as bs. in my mind there is nothing to rant about if it is chat because that is what chat is. tried it once avoid it like the plague. sorry but i cannot empathize with you as we all know what chat is.

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