crumpets
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Joined: 11/5/2014 From: South Bay (SF & Silicon Valley) Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic To be honest unless you are here for the forums, as well as the profile side, fetlife maybe your best bet. I have to agree, perhaps for the first time, with Lucylastic here. The problem with meeting someone here is that 25 mile realistic radius. Sure, most people stretch that to 100 miles, and some even force fit it to state boundaries (California is one hellova big state to do that though), but, realistically, I calculate it's 25 miles. Guess what? There ain't many people within 25 miles of you who are both registered on CS and who meet your fetish needs and who aren't already having their needs met otherwise. "taint many at all. The advantage of Fetlife is wholly different than CS, in that FL has more local activities if you join the local groups. Of course, Fetlife has the same world-wide problems as CS does if you join the "Rubber Dommes CP lovers of the world unite" group, but, if you join, instead, only local groups such as "NW UK Rubber Dommes CP Lovers", then you may get noticed by the intended market. Also, join the FL local announcement groups, and then GO to the activities such as the "Rubber Domme CP Training Class" next week. You're sure to meet fellow aficionados in person then (which is the best way, bar none, to meet folks). Once you're noticed though, the game is the same. Meet. Coffee. Chemistry. Meet. Lunch. Chemistry. Meet. Dinner. Chemistry, etc., since you're dealing with women (who are nothing like men, if I need to mention this at all). So, about 1 out of 10 of those work out (either you don't fully go for her, or she doesn't fully go for you). It happens. If that happens, spin the drill again, to repeat, lather, and rinse.
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