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Is being a dominant lady detrimental to one's health? - 12/7/2015 4:29:19 PM   
Baroana


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Status: offline 		Has anyone else come across a disproportionate number of sub men who say they were with a dominant lady who died young? I'm starting to get worried.
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RE: Is being a dominant lady detrimental to one's health? - 12/7/2015 5:05:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Apparently it's also bad for your health to be a female sub or male Dominant too.

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RE: Is being a dominant lady detrimental to one's health? - 12/7/2015 5:14:51 PM   
epiphiny43


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I suspect life expectancy is how they choose to live, not kink, D/s or gender related. The Dommes that use their F/m situation to de-stress their life and add enjoyment should improve on their basic genetic situation and previous life history. Those who find aggravation or cause it do worse? Both personal style and choice of partners has to matter. I've met Dommes that make every part of F/m an angry encounter. Others who find play, fun and self-expression they might not have had otherwise. Both personality and choice/luck of partners matter?

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RE: Is being a dominant lady detrimental to one's health? - 12/7/2015 6:31:42 PM   
crumpets


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RE: Is being a dominant lady detrimental to one's health? - 12/7/2015 6:55:27 PM   
littleclip


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Status: offline 		no theres no more risk of death as a Domme than anyone else or a top or sob slave ect. you may have just found several posts where they were talking about it.

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RE: Is being a dominant lady detrimental to one's health? - 12/7/2015 7:28:30 PM   
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RE: Is being a dominant lady detrimental to one's health? - 12/7/2015 7:43:54 PM   
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RE: Is being a dominant lady detrimental to one's health? - 12/7/2015 8:06:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		This is a well known lie spouted by those who either cannot get a relationship or don't want to admit any culpability for the failure of their relationships. It's also supposed to make the listener disinclined to actually question the speaker.

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RE: Is being a dominant lady detrimental to one's health? - 12/8/2015 2:48:38 AM   
NookieNotes


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Status: offline 		Apparently ALL D-female/s-male relationships end due to death (the more long and drawn-out, the better) or moving away.

Because, really, who would EVER let go of an s-male catch once you have one?

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RE: Is being a dominant lady detrimental to one's health? - 12/8/2015 12:27:03 PM   
WickedsDesire


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Status: offline 		I don’t really keep track, in conjunction I find ratio of 50-100:1 who say-claim they are into, or in the scene, versus the reality who actually are to be a vast disparity so that’s some rite p*ss poor thingies that don’t add up.. Why claim, be better if I claimed I was part goat, closer to the truth too given my hooves.

To my knowledge of those who I knew, not that I spoketh to any of them for epochs save one person, one of each reside in kinky heaven.

The mathematics does not at up no matter how I choose to look at it, albeit you did not cite the ratio of people mailing you with their ex still breathing for me to debunk it.

It is a common tact used everywhere for nefarious purposes by most – no means all.

It is far more common for the general population to have lost a parent earlish on as opposed to their last D/s or true love.


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RE: Is being a dominant lady detrimental to one's health? - 12/8/2015 6:03:22 PM   
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RE: Is being a dominant lady detrimental to one's health? - 12/13/2015 7:12:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: crumpets
I must be cheating death because nobody died on me yet.


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< Message edited by LadyPact -- 12/13/2015 7:25:41 PM >

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RE: Is being a dominant lady detrimental to one's health? - 12/13/2015 9:04:54 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

This is a well known lie spouted by those who either cannot get a relationship or don't want to admit any culpability for the failure of their relationships. It's also supposed to make the listener disinclined to actually question the speaker.

A convenient reason to not be able to contact a former Owner or to get any kind of verifiable character references as to why they are currently unowned.
"I was a live-in slave who was not permitted to leave the house except to work or unless I was accompanying my Mistress. I was utterly devoted to her and had no outside friendships."

Q: What happened with you and your last Mistress?
A: "She died."

Q: And your Mistress previous to that one?
A: "She also passed away after a long, protracted illness where I cared for her until she sent me away."
Optional A: "I paid all her outstanding medical bills with the money she left me, which is why I had no job, no car, no place to live, and found another live-in position as a houseslave."

Giving the benefit of the doubt, it isn't unusual for subs to get with much older Dominants, who then predecease them.
With FemDom, being old enough to be the man's mother or grandmother doesn't seem to deter these male subs in the slightest.

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RE: Is being a dominant lady detrimental to one's health? - 12/17/2015 2:11:08 PM   
MistressRage


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ORIGINAL: Baroana

Has anyone else come across a disproportionate number of sub men who say they were with a dominant lady who died young? I'm starting to get worried.


Yep, and I have found that all of them were some kind of troll or bullshitter.

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