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Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this for me? - 12/22/2015 12:29:11 PM   
JanahX


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Status: offline 		So a Master/Dom sent this list to me (after he had already sent me an intro letter that I replied 'no thank you' to)

I would love to hear everyones thoughts on:

☆The breakdown of this

☆ and/or certain ones that catch your eye

☆ What kind of psychological makeup are the people that this list is realistic and positive.

PLEASE NOTE - I am completely aware of YKINMK and that there are SOME things on this list that are the perfect key to another's lock, but i also feel that presenting this list as a whole [ AND YES THIS WAS PRESENTED TO ME AS A WHOLE] some of the things on it are definately discussion worthy.


●i don't feel pretty without His cum on me.

●His cock in my mouth, whether fresh from His pants or fresh from my ass, centers me.

●His handprint on my face feels like love.

●i wonder if He knows i love it when He makes me cry.

●The marks He leaves on my body are love letters.

●my body is His to manhandle. my mind and soul are His to fuck.

●He pushes me, slaps me, hurts me. Thank goodness.

●Fear makes me so wet.

●He almost never lets me take His piss. What have i done wrong?

●When He told me not to talk back, i was surprised to realize i couldn't.

●i don't deserve Him.

●The only thing better than having His marks on my ass is having His hand there.

●i can't process the feelings when He spits in my mouth. i just swallow.

●i like it when i can't breathe.

●i promise not to make a sound. i want to listen.

●Sometimes He makes it so impersonal. i am in love.

●What should i look like for You today?

●He rapes me when i'm not ready. i'm so happy.

●When He kisses me, i get scared, but i forget the world.

●i don't want to be as stupid as He makes me feel.

●i hope i'm tight enough.

●Tits up, ass out, eyes on Him. Forever

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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 12:31:44 PM   
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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 12:38:45 PM   
JanahX


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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 12:50:49 PM   
Cell


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Status: offline 		I assume those points are a kind of checklist of sorts for you? A 'successful applicants will be the following:' kind of dealio?
There's 'soul fucking', sounds like entry level.

Erm... I guess it's a wank/type thing like LC said.



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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 1:18:27 PM   
cloverodella


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Status: offline 		I've seen that list in some dom's profile. I find it so pathetic. Like, YKINMK, but I do believe that there are a few subs out there for whom this douche would be perfect. By few I mean probably like 5 in the whole world. I think of them as unicorns.

Aside from the delusional list of desires he thinks he's going to find in a potential /s, and that he seeks a unicorn who confuses abuse with love, he'd be a douche solely for thinking he's even remotely worthy of gazing upon, let alone owning, a unicorn.

Call me silly, but I entirely believe that these abusive man-child douche bags honestly think that there are s-types out there waiting for them. I can't imagine it would ever occur to these guys that they, themselves, need to be special. And really, that is what amuses me most about all the blustery Domly Alpha Dom types, even if they don't have some insane unicorn list.

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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 1:34:02 PM   
LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: JanahX

The "am I tight enough for him?" had me rolling. I mean has any woman ever actually been concerned about that? Smh



He might be, you know if he's hung like Buck the field mouse, this might be a real issue for him...

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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 1:34:31 PM   
ReMakeYou


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Status: offline 		I'll be a little more charitable. That list sounds less like one guy's specific set of expectations, and more like the sort of thing that gets passed around tumblr. Looks like he cribbed a list he saw subs liking, maybe added a couple items of his own, and thought that this reblogged piece was What Subs Want.

Still delusional. The ability to recognize fantasy and not confuse it with reality should be mandatory for anybody who expects to play with another human being. But not quite as bad as writing that entire wish list out all on his own.

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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 1:41:09 PM   
WickedsDesire


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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 1:41:44 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Would a femsub consider that list more or less stylish and horny than a cock picture? I'm just wondering, partly because - assuming he didn't copy it out - it has a little bit of imaginative flair to it, no?

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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 1:52:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Would a femsub consider that list more or less stylish and horny than a cock picture? I'm just wondering, partly because - assuming he didn't copy it out - it has a little bit of imaginative flair to it, no?


At least a cock shot shows a grounding in reality?

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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 1:55:27 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		The first one just makes me think of the 'too much porn/focus on the money shot' kind of thing. Sorry but I always think that when people focus on ejaculating on a person.

(Yeah, yeah, before I forget YKINMKBYKIOK and whatever alphabet soup I have to throw in there.)

Several of the items on this list make me think the guy is looking for a dynamic where the s-type is going to have self esteem issues. Either have them when they meet or he's going to create them.

One specifically reminds me of our beloved poster who used to have the tag "ass to mouth girl." Fun for some folks. I just think bacteria.

A couple of them focus on (what I think is) humiliation kink.

Points in favor. Dude's looking for somebody who is a masochist, into face slapping, and enjoys fear play. I can't knock the guy for that. I have some of those kinks.

Sprinkle a dash of serious obedience stuff.

Viola.

Can't say I've seen that particular list before but it wouldn't shock me if he took some random things from other people who do have some hard core likes of their own and it's what he thinks he wants. Impossible to say if he's got any personal experience in dynamics and/or play that include these elements.


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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 1:57:40 PM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cloverodella


quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Would a femsub consider that list more or less stylish and horny than a cock picture? I'm just wondering, partly because - assuming he didn't copy it out - it has a little bit of imaginative flair to it, no?


At least a cock shot shows a grounding in reality?



Unless they think their's is super special or the use the picture of somebody else

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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 2:05:06 PM   
WickedsDesire


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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 2:05:30 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: cloverodella


quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Would a femsub consider that list more or less stylish and horny than a cock picture? I'm just wondering, partly because - assuming he didn't copy it out - it has a little bit of imaginative flair to it, no?


At least a cock shot shows a grounding in reality?

One step further. The guy with the cock shot is just socially stunted. The guy that believes in that list is an abuser looking for a woman with low self esteem.

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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 2:07:37 PM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

the ones above me are all attention whores..there words are often of no value



Now apart from the statement being a bit incorrect, let's look at your grammar:

quote:

The ones above me are all attention whores, their words are often of no value


Fixed it for you, FFS, English is my 3rd language, what's your excuse?



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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 2:13:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


quote:

ORIGINAL: cloverodella


quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Would a femsub consider that list more or less stylish and horny than a cock picture? I'm just wondering, partly because - assuming he didn't copy it out - it has a little bit of imaginative flair to it, no?


At least a cock shot shows a grounding in reality?



Unless they think their's is super special or the use the picture of somebody else

Mine is super special. It's feckin HUGE,.

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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 2:16:19 PM   
WickedsDesire


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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 2:25:11 PM   
LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

Are you suggesting trepanning, I stand by all my words. I clearly state I am Scottish not englishg arse spraying mayhem, who cannot even verify itself attention whorebag...like all of the above, but feel free to correct me



Since I am not looking to meet a partner as I have one, why should I verify myself? The fact that I have met a bunch of people from this site who can tell you I am very real is fine...

Btw last time I checked, they do speak English in Scotland, even if they do sound a bit funny...

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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 2:25:27 PM   
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RE: Can someone please translate/ psychoanalyze this fo... - 12/22/2015 2:27:17 PM   
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