LadyPact
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ladypact I view them with utter contempt, sometimes sadness as they lack the capacity for change, and blame them for the continuation of that cycle (perceived) hmm yes seems harsh that line..i am not actually a muffin monster obviously I omitted trying to help, guide them, understand why they feel as they do, was not mentioned..to date I have not helped anyone like that and I have more time on my hands than most.....are they all lost do you think? or other words they can have my attention or yours, but they will most likely migrate to those who words appease their needs better...and the majority of the appeasers are not good people they prey on the vulnerable
I think it's so broad of a subject that it would be impossible for me to venture to say. I'm sure it's quite an individual thing. Do I think it is something that can be worked on? Yes. However, I don't know if such work would be successful if a person doesn't look at the root cause of it.
I happen to lean toward the situation being brought forward by the OP is a bit outdated based on the idea that it's a gender thing. Reminiscent of the days that telling someone they would become a spinster or an old maid come to mind. Remarks that have no male equivalent, even though we know just as well that some men do stay alone into their old age.
Don't think I'm laying that all on single people, either. It's just that on a site like this, a single person for such remarks make them an easy target.
ETA - After writing this post, I went and had a look at the OP's profile. (Didn't mean to intrude, OP. Just wanted to get a little background jist.)
THAT is NOT a woman who is afraid of being alone. In my opinion, she is very clear about the kind of relationship she is open for, and more importantly, the kind of relationship that she has no interest in having. In fact, she specifically has a couple of things in that profile that I seriously wish more people would do. (Serious kudos on the profile, OP.)
Some dimwit male Dominant used the tactic on her because she knows who she is, rather than what other people would like to tell her to be. I'm convinced of it.
< Message edited by LadyPact -- 1/4/2016 4:17:50 AM >
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