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MistressVallee -> Mundane online tasks ideas (1/4/2016 10:07:45 AM)

I'm looking for ideas for boring online tasks that I can assign to a service slave when I'm not around.

It wouldn't really be anything sexual, because it's a service slave that does errands, chores, etc when it's not long distance.

I already know of writeforme, and assigning lines to type, I think it's pretty good. I know of corner times as well, even the website for it that I forgot. Corner time and the like is okay.

But I'm looking for different things too, to mix it up, keep slaves on their toes, and stay creative

Maybe things like clicking to earn stuff, useful or not (but I'm wary of scam sites)... or playing the most boring little video game ever and going far in it, although I don't know any.

Things like that, that's not sexual and gets the slave working and really bored for like 30 minutes or even hours.

Useful things would be an extra bonus, but it doesn't really matter.




OsideGirl -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/4/2016 10:17:59 AM)

I've always viewed items like that to be a sign that the Dominant doesn't respect their submissive.

You think their time isn't worth anything.




MistressVallee -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/4/2016 10:34:33 AM)

That's one way of looking at it.

But in my case, I normally don't even do that. Yet a slave politely asked for it, wanting its time wasted in these kinds of ways.

So instead of only doing the same thing (typing lines), I'm putting extra effort and time into looking for different ways I could do that for the slave... to keep it somewhat entertained through its boredom?




OsideGirl -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/4/2016 12:07:52 PM)

Have you asked him why he thinks his time doesn't have value?

Honestly, I think "service" would be better served by having him researching something for you.

M has me gathering samples, color schemes, plans and costs for renovating the kitchen.

My friend A, sets her submissives up with a journal and she will assign them to research how to cook a certain meal, find the correct wine to pair with it or how to mix a certain drink. She expects him to list his sources and spell out each option.

It's a task, but actually provides service rather than just trying to fill time.





DesFIP -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/4/2016 1:11:40 PM)

Have him learn to knit and make you a scarf. Or crochet baby blankets and donate them to families in need.




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/4/2016 1:35:36 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MistressVallee

That's one way of looking at it.

But in my case, I normally don't even do that. Yet a slave politely asked for it, wanting its time wasted in these kinds of ways.

So instead of only doing the same thing (typing lines), I'm putting extra effort and time into looking for different ways I could do that for the slave... to keep it somewhat entertained through its boredom?

This certainly looks like a mistress that doesn't really have a clue how to be one.
Typing lines for a slave? Corner Time? Really????
Have you no imagination at all???

Hows about something that is useful -
Trim all grass to half an inch with a pair of nail scissors.
Scrub the patio/porch/driveway with a toothbrush.
Re-paint all the face-boards with a small artist brush.
T-Cut your vehicle using small 2" beauty cotton pads.

There are many many activities a /s could do that takes a long time, maybe weeks, to do well.
At least by the time the slave has finished the chore, something useful would be achieved.

But if you need to resort to the likes of writeforme like a school teacher giving lines to naughty school kids, you really don't deserve your /s.




MistressVallee -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/4/2016 2:27:33 PM)


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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

This certainly looks like a mistress that doesn't really have a clue how to be one.
Typing lines for a slave? Corner Time? Really????
Have you no imagination at all???

Hows about something that is useful -
Trim all grass to half an inch with a pair of nail scissors.
Scrub the patio/porch/driveway with a toothbrush.
Re-paint all the face-boards with a small artist brush.
T-Cut your vehicle using small 2" beauty cotton pads.

There are many many activities a /s could do that takes a long time, maybe weeks, to do well.
At least by the time the slave has finished the chore, something useful would be achieved.

But if you need to resort to the likes of writeforme like a school teacher giving lines to naughty school kids, you really don't deserve your /s.



Hey, are you okay? Thanks for your message.
However, judging without understanding isn't the best way to look intelligent.

It's kind of curious how in a lifestyle where having an open mind is absolutely needed, too many people judge for no reason. It's like they think they're special to be part of a special lifestyle, and they know the way things are supposed to be done, and that's the end of that. Come on, man.

Typing lines, clicking things online, corner time. Yes, they're boring ideas. They're also what that particular sub wanted, PRECISELY. So yeah, I can indulge it, I don't really mind, but it's not things I necessarily enjoy. But the sub is big on precisely that, and a sort of school feel to it. I've already found a few twists to mix it up, but I came here to read other ideas, and to consider them. For example, for this particular person, trimming the grass is not really doable, it needs to stay at the computer-ish, and DEFINITELY not at my place. But knitting, like someone suggested, is kind of interesting, as it's not too far off, so I like it.

That's because it's for that sub in particular, and everyone is different, not because it's the only thing I can do. Come on, I don't know you, I won't pretend like I do. Don't come insulting me or saying I have no imagination.

It's not a live-in, I don't have live-in slaves nor am I interested in any right now, so I'm able to adapt and cater to different desires. We don't do things the same way, I'm sure, but I won't trash on your way.

I've had a female sub that was an artist, and that was currently learning a specific kind of art. I read up on that art, did some research. When it was time to punish her, I had her write lines, in specific colors, with instructions, that made it that the lines re-created that art, on a paper. It was beautiful, and she absolutely loved the results. I also made her create a sculpture for me, with specific ingredients, and a theme.

I've had another participate in a 1-week game with points to earn, and lose, and goals to reach. I had written a 2-page rulebook on the sub-game I created from A to Z, with places to visit, the themes for each meals depending on this and that, clothing items, etc. Every item, task, and rules in the game were tailored to her needs, desires, and what I learned from her during my time with her. After that week, she said it was the best thing she'd ever experienced.

I also earned 10,500 facebook followers when I tried a competitive online game with 50K players that were all trying to win a specific way, but I created a completely new, outside-the-box way to win, and became ranked #1 on the game. The producers invited me to visit their headquarters, everything paid.

Etc, etc. So yeah, I usually come up with things myself, but finding variations to do useless, boring work, is not something I'm super excited about, so I ask for opinions. It doesn't mean you know anything about me and should tell me I lack creativity. I don't know you at all, so I won't assume you're not creative, but I'll just say that if you are more creative than me, I'd be pretty impressed.

Thanks for the 2nd paragraph, though, with your suggestions. That bit was appreciated, even if they're not things that would work in my situation.




Inghammar -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/5/2016 1:35:20 AM)

Amazon Turk is still around and you could have him work there. Perhaps to throw in a twist you could restrict your submissive in some way until a goal is reached. If you have a hobby you could have him preform some busy work such as sorting a bag of beads by color or size into a container then mailing them to you. You could make a new tumblr (or similar) account and give him access so that he can tag each photo. As for games, Cookie Clicker has a certain mindless appeal.





roboslavedog -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/5/2016 6:37:41 AM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I've always viewed items like that to be a sign that the Dominant doesn't respect their submissive.
You think their time isn't worth anything.


Everyone has its ways, goals and reasons. Maybe it's not about time but about obedience. Maybe it's not about the result but the process. Doing mundane tasks gives you time to think bout your relation with the task setter. It can strengthen the bond between you, which will give fruits later on. Maybe it's just showing whose the boss... who are we to judge.




OsideGirl -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/5/2016 9:31:52 AM)


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ORIGINAL: roboslavedog


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I've always viewed items like that to be a sign that the Dominant doesn't respect their submissive.
You think their time isn't worth anything.


Everyone has its ways, goals and reasons. Maybe it's not about time but about obedience. Maybe it's not about the result but the process. Doing mundane tasks gives you time to think bout your relation with the task setter. It can strengthen the bond between you, which will give fruits later on. Maybe it's just showing whose the boss... who are we to judge.


My role as his submissive is to make his life easier. not harder. Taking the time to set up useless tasks and verifying that they're done, doesn't make his life easier.

Besides, I can think about our relationship while doing a meaningful task for him, just as much as doing a mundane task.




roboslavedog -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/5/2016 9:56:32 AM)


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My role as his submissive is to make his life easier. not harder. Taking the time to set up useless tasks and verifying that they're done, doesn't make his life easier.

Besides, I can think about our relationship while doing a meaningful task for him, just as much as doing a mundane task.


Whatever works for you and your superior :) But why say something different won't work for others? Is your way the Only Way?




LadyPact -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/5/2016 10:13:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
Have him learn to knit and make you a scarf. Or crochet baby blankets and donate them to families in need.

Personally, I liked this idea.





DesFIP -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/5/2016 10:33:12 AM)

I have to admit I wouldn't have much respect for someone who wanted to waste my time in this manner. But I understand that the sub in question requested this and that changes things.





Lucylastic -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/5/2016 10:53:33 AM)

Not being in a 24/7 relationship IS different. Personally while not 24/7 with anyone kinky. Having done online/offline relationship...sometimes the inspiration just goes for a while for whatever reason, other things didnt work well or shit happens. I dont blame anyone for looking for ideas...Ive done it continually over the years, I dunno if I have asked lately for ideas, But right here in this thread are a bunch of stuff to try.

Im a beader, so having someone sort my beads out would be awesome for me and him, lol yes I would add more play into it like tell him to make himself a set of CBT beads....
I love the idea of knitting a scarf...even one of those arm crocheted eternity scarves. my daughter got one from her bestie, she did a video about how to make them and its gorgeous warm and she says its a lot easier than learning to knit:) I know that knitting a willy warmer is impossible for some.





OsideGirl -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/5/2016 11:28:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: roboslavedog


quote:


My role as his submissive is to make his life easier. not harder. Taking the time to set up useless tasks and verifying that they're done, doesn't make his life easier.

Besides, I can think about our relationship while doing a meaningful task for him, just as much as doing a mundane task.


Whatever works for you and your superior :) But why say something different won't work for others? Is your way the Only Way?



Did you miss the part where I said "I've always viewed"? As in MY OPINION, MY VIEW. Never at any point did I say "This is the one true way" and never did I say it wouldn't work for others.

Stop trying to put words in my mouth.





OsideGirl -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/5/2016 11:32:10 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

But I understand that the sub in question requested this and that changes things.




Yeah but....

1) That's kinda topping from the bottom

and

2) Since my time actually belongs to M, he wouldn't really be pleased about me wanting to waste his assets.




roboslavedog -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/5/2016 11:46:31 AM)

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Did you miss the part where I said "I've always viewed"? As in MY OPINION, MY VIEW. Never at any point did I say "This is the one true way" and never did I say it wouldn't work for others.
Stop trying to put words in my mouth.


Well, I definitely missed that part where you answered the OP's original question :)




littleladybug -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/5/2016 12:59:35 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


Yeah but....

1) That's kinda topping from the bottom




Is it really "topping from the bottom" if a submissive tells their dominant what turns them on, and the dominant decides to indulge them?





OsideGirl -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/5/2016 2:55:51 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: littleladybug


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


Yeah but....

1) That's kinda topping from the bottom




Is it really "topping from the bottom" if a submissive tells their dominant what turns them on, and the dominant decides to indulge them?




She didn't say "he told me it turns him on, so I decided to do it". She said he "asked for it". It's being done at his request, on his schedule - which is pretty much the definition of topping from the bottom.




littleladybug -> RE: Mundane online tasks ideas (1/5/2016 2:58:06 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


She didn't say "he told me it turns him on, so I decided to do it". She said he "asked for it". It's being done at his request, on his schedule - which is pretty much the definition of topping from the bottom.


I think you're making a great leap here, which is not supported by anything that I can see in the OP's words.

That he "asked for it" can mean a lot of things.




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