Taking the plunge

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blinkingblythe -> Taking the plunge (1/5/2016 12:40:30 AM)
I won't repeat everything I already posted in the "pouring my heart out" thread, but long story short when I find the Dom I am looking for and finaly do take the plunge, basicly I expect to be that person's captive and property for the rest of my life. This is something I have been mentally preparing myself for for years, and I know that once I do it, it is going to profoundly alter my life. My only question is for people who have already done this is how did it feel and how long did it take to adjust to the new life? I know there are many different "levels"/variations of BSDM but the one I am seeking will defently be life changing (Almost completly giving up my freedom fo starters) and I am sure there are others here who have gone through a simaler experience I am headed to. Thoughts?

DesFIP -> RE: Taking the plunge (1/5/2016 10:56:17 AM)
We didn't do that. We didn't set up rigid expectations and try to mold ourselves to fit it. We just naturally related this way to each other. We started by talking and becoming friends, not as dom/sub. We fell in love. We talked all the time about what worked for us and what didn't and why. We made whatever changes were required for the relationship to thrive.

WickedsDesire -> RE: Taking the plunge (1/6/2016 2:40:32 PM)
Another profile that demands the world and cannot even offer a simple verification...great news you are the many

LadyConstanze -> RE: Taking the plunge (1/6/2016 2:58:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: blinkingblythe I won't repeat everything I already posted in the "pouring my heart out" thread, but long story short when I find the Dom I am looking for and finaly do take the plunge, basicly I expect to be that person's captive and property for the rest of my life. This is something I have been mentally preparing myself for for years, and I know that once I do it, it is going to profoundly alter my life. My only question is for people who have already done this is how did it feel and how long did it take to adjust to the new life? I know there are many different "levels"/variations of BSDM but the one I am seeking will defently be life changing (Almost completly giving up my freedom fo starters) and I am sure there are others here who have gone through a simaler experience I am headed to. Thoughts? Seriously, it is a nice fantasy but what if the person's life changes? What if they decide they don't want you anymore? It sounds a bit like kids talking how they're going to be train drivers and astronauts, etc.

WickedsDesire -> RE: Taking the plunge (1/7/2016 7:50:42 AM)
better words you are more likely to understand Can you post the link to pouring your heart out. That i rarely see anywhere

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