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RE: How to get back into the lifestyle with no time or ... - 1/17/2016 5:22:52 PM

PupandKitten

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In all our jobs we make our own hours. And so we have two days a week which we don't have to work. At the moment we choose to but we don't have to. We will have that time for a mistress. Which will be a stress release for us. Also we do have a lot to offer a mistress if one would take the time to get to know us. And yes we're low on energy but that's more mental then physical.

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RE: How to get back into the lifestyle with no time or ... - 1/17/2016 6:16:53 PM

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The thing is, it doesn't sound like there is a lot to offer. The pregnancy and the two children already discount you for a lot of people. This is an area that is already a struggle between monogamous couples because women do get tired and are able to do less during pregnancy. If the person is also interested in BDSM, as opposed to just service, there will be additional limits in ways that you will be able to engage because pregnancy comes with additional risks.

You are also available only a little bit during the week, so the other person would have to settle for those two days/evenings. That's *if* you've got child care already settled because most people don't want to be engaging in BDSM in the home of somebody else where their off-spring are also there.

This is nothing to say of what is coming when there is also a newborn to throw into the balance sheet. That's going to be an interference.

You could be great people. It's just the circumstances aren't all that appealing to some people.

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RE: How to get back into the lifestyle with no time or ... - 1/17/2016 8:09:08 PM

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If you want to throw money at it, you might try a pro domme...

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RE: How to get back into the lifestyle with no time or ... - 1/17/2016 11:29:32 PM

domincalifornia

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PupandKitten

In all our jobs we make our own hours. And so we have two days a week which we don't have to work. At the moment we choose to but we don't have to. We will have that time for a mistress. Which will be a stress release for us. Also we do have a lot to offer a mistress if one would take the time to get to know us. And yes we're low on energy but that's more mental then physical.

I'd start by rewriting your profile. Right now, it's all about you: we need training; I need to be put in my place; I enjoy this kink and that kink; I am four months pregnant so I can't handle much right now, etc.

You say you have a lot to offer. So make your profile about what you have to offer, because right now you are presenting yourself as a gigantic project.

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