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hisforever -> what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 6:23:39 AM)
Sorry if this has been brought up before, but the from Dom to Master thread brought this up, and I am curious. My Dom wishes me to call him Daddy, although there is no age play involved, he calls me His baby girl. What do you call your Dom/me? When in a vanilla situation, I can call him by his name though.

Tamerofwild1s -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 6:30:56 AM)
you address him as he wishes ... thats it. I usually always have any girl with me call me Daddy as well . theres just something special about it .. and the fact I have children makes it a bit easier to handle they don't have any confusions on hearing someone call me daddy . I explained to them it was a title of endearment .. then proceeded to explain endearment .... out in public itis easy to handle too since back decades ago many couples called each other like that. When in a one on one situation it's either Sir or Daddy when answering a direct question or foloowing a command ...... when in session .. it's whatever I term her to address me with.99.9% of the time she will always call me Daddy once the Dynamic is established . till then it's Sir. Hope this helped answer your questions ... and it's only my opinion

SirCumsSlut -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 6:33:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hisforever Sorry if this has been brought up before, but the from Dom to Master thread brought this up, and I am curious. My Dom wishes me to call him Daddy, although there is no age play involved, he calls me His baby girl. What do you call your Dom/me? When in a vanilla situation, I can call him by his name though. Whether at home or out in the world or a vanilla situation, I call Sir, SIR.......he is and always be Sir, no matter where we are or what the situation is.

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 6:33:40 AM)
Well until I was collared I called Him Sir. Then once I was collared I called him Master. On occasion I do call him Daddy. As long as it is respectful he doesnt mind. He is and always will be Master though.

Littlepita -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 7:01:03 AM)
I call him Daddy most of the time. I also call him Sir quite a bit. I will call him by his name if it's needed out in public and I call him by his name when I'm talking about him to someone else. Someday I will call him Master but we are waiting for that transition to feel right for us.

juliaoceania -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 7:01:29 AM)
I call Him Daddy, and by his given name in front of other people or when referring to Him to other people. It gets harder and harder to call Him anything but Daddy though

sapphirepleasure -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 7:12:06 AM)
I call him Master, and always have. Sir just felt too formal to me and I asked from the beginning if I could call him Master, which was one of the reasons that he decided to train me as a slave instead of as a submissive.

ownedgirlie -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 7:12:35 AM)
He is Master, always Master. Sometimes "Dear Master." Oh and sometimes "Love." To my friends who do not know of my slavery, he is "Mr. Wonderful."

daddysprop247 -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 7:49:50 AM)
my Master is also my Father figure (not a DaddyDom), so i call him Daddy or Dad pretty much 99.99% of the time, no matter where we are or who we are around. people either assume he's my natural father or just think we're perverts, either way we couldn't really care less, we don't allow other people's judgements and perceptions to effect the way we live. very very rarely, i will call him Sir or Master.

LotusSong -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 7:56:36 AM)
I call Slave, slave because that is what he calls himself in all this. He calls me Mistresse or my given name in vanilla settings or "Are you SERIOUS?" in some situations.

Tikkiee -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 8:23:07 AM)
Even when we were still together I called him by his first name always. He never requested otherwise, and I never felt the need to call him anything else.

Ladyofthemanor -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 8:29:16 AM)
i try and call mine Master 99% of the time, in vanilla situations i will call him Master if we are by ourselves, if we have the kids and are in a vanilla situation i will call him Daddy, myself mommy.. i am NEVER allowed to call him Sir! for He is Master, yes i got punished for that one. Also, if i ever use his first name and last name together then that means there is an emergency that needs his immediate attention, same goes with me. i also am to refer to myself as slave, but with kids around sometimes that is hard to do, and i have to refer to myself as i...my Master wants to completely objective me. ladyofthemanor/slavelilly to most

desertdancer -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 8:37:52 AM)
I call him Master, that's who he is to me, my heart knows him as Master and he adores being called it. I also use his name because he loves to hear his name coming from my lips. But really for me his name and the word Master are the same. When I say his first name C it's like saying Master, and when saying Master, it's like saying his name....if that makes any sense at all. ~dancer

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 9:19:55 AM)
The typicals are sir, master, lord. However, many doms prefer just having their regular names used. And in some situations, using expletives can be very amusing or enjoyable to a dom. And anything that works for you- I use Captain with my partner a lot. I know a couple who uses "Master Muffin."

JessieMe -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 9:34:19 AM)
I had a dom I played with recently who wanted me to refer to him as "asshole"

justheather -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 10:11:23 AM)
I call him "Daddy" when appropriate. I call him by his given name in front people to whom we are not "out", but sometimes I whisper in his ear and call him "Daddy" then too. He has a sailboat, and so sometimes if we are in front of the unmentionables I will say something like "Aye aye, Captain" as opposed to "Yes, Daddy". I call him whatever he tells me to call him if Im in such big trouble that I cant call him "Daddy", which has only happened twice. Like Julia, I also have a hard time not letting "Daddy" slip out when we are with vanilla/family. Sometimes I go for so long calling him "Daddy" that his given name feels strange rolling off my tongue.

RavenMuse -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 11:50:57 AM)
At the moment she is calling me "Evil sadistic bastard who eats the creamcakes she forgot to take with her the other morning and then points out just how nice they where" But usualy it is 'Master'[:D]

deltadawn -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 11:54:07 AM)
I call him many things. Master, Sir, Daddy, and his given name. Depends on the situation and who is present. When in trouble.....(rarely..lol) He is absolutely Master!! dawn

hisforever -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 1:13:20 PM)
thank you all for your replies. I am suprised to find so many of you call Him daddy, I always felt a bit silly saying it really, although I am getting used to it now [:)]

gentlethistle -> RE: what do you call Him or Her? (7/19/2006 1:39:48 PM)
I call him Rob. He calls me Laura. I call myself all sorts of names and so do other people. Laura

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