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I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 7:54:53 AM

MistressJan

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This morning I awoke to an email from my slave from a Mistress friend who is in big trouble. She is on house arrest for two years, and will not be able to use the internet for 90 days.
She has asked me to look after her sub. I will offer my protection, but it is going to have to be on my terms. What happens if she comes back and decides she wants him back?
I am not into poly relationships. This will be online, but I am strict when it comes to online training. I was trained that way. I am probably harder online than I am in real time.
I will need all the advice I can get to handle this one. The goal is to find him a Domme in his own area. That could take a while. How should I train him? Should I train him like my own sub, or should I let him wonder around lost until she gets back? I don't know what she did either. I don't think it would be wise to send him back to her.

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Mistress_Jan

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 8:08:45 AM

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huh?

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 8:10:55 AM

MstrssPassion

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Hold on...

Your facts are a little vague. Could you please read what you wrote & clarify just a bit.

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 8:19:01 AM

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Mistress Passion:

I did not mean to be vague, but that is all I know at the moment. The Domme goes off line today. I emailed the sub to reply to me immediately.
I will ask him how she trained her and go from there. What she should have done was release him to me. That is the way I would have preferred it, but she probably did not have time.
Should I train him as my own, and when she gets back, give him back to her? It takes a lot of time to train a sub. Hope that is better.I don't want to waste my time training someone for them to go back to another.

Respectfully,

Mistress_Jan

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 8:25:14 AM

MstrssPassion

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This morning I awoke to an email from my slave from a Mistress friend who is in big trouble.

My first question is why is this mistress contacting your slave & not you? Also, how well do you know this couple & are you, your slave & this other couple only involved online via online discussions?

She is on house arrest for two years, and will not be able to use the internet for 90 days.
She has asked me to look after her sub.

Again... why is she contacting your slave to ask YOU for assistance.

I will offer my protection, but it is going to have to be on my terms. What happens if she comes back and decides she wants him back?

If you are offering protection you have no claim to him, he is not yours to keep.

I am not into poly relationships. This will be online, but I am strict when it comes to online training. I was trained that way.

<edited to add: I just looked at your profile & it says that you have a slave & are looking for a female slave to join your family. *???*>

Whoa... now you are gonna train someone... protection does not include training. Is this what you learned in your training? That when you place someone under protection that you then own them & train them?

I am probably harder online than I am in real time.
I will need all the advice I can get to handle this one.

First word of advice... time for a reality check, there is NO WAY anything online can be harder on someone than it is real time. All you have to do is close a browser/window or type begging/pleading words.

The goal is to find him a Domme in his own area.

Now this is really getting confusing... now you are being asked to pimp him out?

That could take a while. How should I train him? Should I train him like my own sub, or should I let him wonder around lost until she gets back?

Where is she going? You said she is on house arrest & barred from a computer for 90 days... HELLO!?!? pick up the phone!

I don't know what she did either. I don't think it would be wise to send him back to her.

That is none of your concern... it is up to her submissive to determine whether he wishes to be involved with her or not... hence the phrase consenting adults.

I'm going to go out on a limb here & make an assumption... if this is a couple that you do not know personally & you just received a blind email asking for assistance... most likely some HNG sending out fantasy BS to the masses in order to get some cyber kink stirred up.

< Message edited by MstrssPassion -- 7/19/2006 8:33:15 AM >

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 8:33:47 AM

JessieMe

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I am just curious.. should we add this one to the "online drama" thread that is listed on this board somewhere?

I think it may top the charts.

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 8:34:08 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion

Your facts are a little vague.

Looking at the discrepancies between her two profiles, it's not much of a surprise.

The first lists her as 43, 5'4, 180, straight from New Jersey.
The second has her as 47, 5'0, 140, bisexual from South Carolina.

This whole situation is more than a little dubious.

~stef

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 8:54:20 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: JessieMe

I am just curious.. should we add this one to the "online drama" thread that is listed on this board somewhere?

I think it may top the charts.

I agree

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ORIGINAL: stef

Looking at the discrepancies between her two profiles, it's not much of a surprise.

The first lists her as 43, 5'4, 180, straight from New Jersey.
The second has her as 47, 5'0, 140, bisexual from South Carolina.

This whole situation is more than a little dubious.

~stef

Yeah I saw that too. As JessieMe commented... smells like cyber-drama. The main problem is so many online identities & way too much time spent in front of a glowing box. I'm thinking the best advice will be offered from others such as this... maybe this can only be properly addressed in a chat room.

I'm out. Y'all have fun with this one. I'm off to Disney for a week. The real world is calling me!!

I'll give Goofy a swat on the fanny from everyone here on CM.

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 9:22:38 AM

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I am just..........very confused............

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 9:22:50 AM

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Please, give my swat to Minnie

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 9:35:06 AM

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can i put myself up for adoption? LOL

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 9:39:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion0

I'm out. Y'all have fun with this one. I'm off to Disney for a week. The real world is calling me!!

If the real world is calling, why are you going to the Mouse House?

Have a good time!

~stef

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 9:42:00 AM

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taske me with You, Ma'am...i fit right in with the Goofy clan...LOL

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 9:55:54 AM

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Dear MistressJan, Ladies and Gentlemen;

In my mind's eye, according to the way the post read, is inheriting a submissive is not what has occurred. More like being in a custodian or guardian capacity of the submissive. Much like, somebody is on vacation and asks a friend/neighbor to watch over their dog/pets. Doesn't mean they are giving away their pets--just giving you the responsibilities of caring for their dog/pets while absent. Thus, training is not part of guardianship so, just maintaining a custodian or guardianship over the submissive is all I see.

Now, if she had written, I relinquish my control totally over submissive x, or I leave my submissive x into total ownership/control that would lead me to the inherited status.

Not sure what this Mistress did as to be on house arrest for 2 years and restricted from the internet for 90 days. But, regardless--I would be cautious as this net might be wide as to cause some focus on you as well as this submissive.

Perhaps having an adult chat to chat with this submissive, as to see where his mind, spirit and such are. Three months can move quickly when occupied. Having the lad do research on serving and such, he can occupy himself with learning while in limbo.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 10:12:44 AM

janiceleeinsc

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Hold it:

One thing for sure is that I am not from New Jersey. I have trained several subs. I just happened to have a bit of a sub side, but not that much.
Back to my delimia:

I am very angry at her for doing this. I am not stupid. I have been in the life about four years now,
I wanted to know if this was appropratie for someone to do to another Dom. I would not give my slave to someone else. If I decide to go through with it, it will be under my terms.
I am always respectful to each of you whether I approve of what you are doing or not, and expect the same in return.

Respectfully,

Mistress_Jan
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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 10:16:18 AM

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MstrssPassion said (as she was packing for the Magic Kingdom):

quote:

Yeah I saw that too. As JessieMe commented... smells like cyber-drama. The main problem is so many online identities & way too much time spent in front of a glowing box. I'm thinking the best advice will be offered from others such as this... maybe this can only be properly addressed in a chat room.

I'm out. Y'all have fun with this one. I'm off to Disney for a week. The real world is calling me!!

Actually, the real world was calling someone else, too. As far as I know, "House arrest" and "90 day detentions" are not metered out by online geek communities!

I agree with all that's been said re: drama and online fantasy. My one other comment is that people do not get sentenced to House Arrest overnight, nor do they begin serving their sentence the day after it is pronounced. A person convicted of a crime in the USA has months to prepare for the consequences of that conviction. This supposed Mistress had plenty of time to make real life arrangements if she was going "up the river" (or on the electronic ankle bracelet). There would be no need for last minute hysterical emails to so-and-so's sub about her sub and the temporary mistress. Just another little reality check.

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 10:19:17 AM

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Obviously you are not doing this on your own terms.. I always have a problem with a dominant who says.. "You made me do this". If it made you angry.. you do not know what you are going to do.. what you should be doing.. why do you even NEED to ask if what she did was appropriate?

I am sorry... Stop being angry at the answers and figure out what you want to do. To me.. from the two postings you have made.. you dont want to do this and from my view.. why on earth you even feel obligated to put yourself into this mess is totally beyond me.

Whatever you decide.. I wish you the best in your circumstances.

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 10:20:17 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: janiceleeinsc

Hold it:

One thing for sure is that I am not from New Jersey.

If that's the case, then why does your 'MistressJan' profile say you're from Burlington, New Jersey?

~stef

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 10:22:56 AM

janiceleeinsc

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Lady Huggs:

Thank you. That is what I was looking for. I am not going to do it. My gut is telling me no.
I am not her neighbor, and I cannot watch him. If he was in this area, it would be a different thing.

Respectfully,

Mistress_Jan

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RE: I inherited a male sub! - 7/19/2006 10:24:16 AM

janiceleeinsc

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Oh, I have decided to tell my slave to discontinue any contact with this woman. As soon as he gets up, he is in a lot of trouble.

Respectfully,

Mistress_Jan

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