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freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Need help w/ cute message for domme (2/7/2016 5:58:25 PM)
I dunno what sort of vacuum Code lives in. Everywhere I've been, including all of Europe, the US, and several other Asian places, the visitors all give flowers to the host as they arrive, not the host giving flowers to the visitor when leaving. And that is the etiquette, not as Code says; that's ass-backwards.

minionno1 -> RE: Need help w/ cute message for domme (2/7/2016 5:59:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HoneyBears quote: ORIGINAL: minionno1 Also picked up a scented candle for the table. We have talked about trying something with fire and wax so I thought it would be romantic and a small nod to that. It's also a chance to discuss what scents she likes for future reference. Unless there is a special brand out there, scented candles are not suitable for doing wax play, and colored candles may not be either. Some may burn much hotter with additives than what is safe for skin contact. You cannot go wrong with plain, natural white paraffin. Keep the scented candle talk vanilla, let her take the lead with that before chiming in. The same with BDSM-friendly household items you might have (wooden spoons, spatula, wooden hairbrush, clothespins, brand new feather duster, etc.) This must be a fairly new relationship. Treat it like any other newly developing romantic relationship, other than the protocols she establishes that you agree to follow. Best of Luck, Lisa & Cub ETA: Just saw Code's post. Use the flowers as a decorative centerpiece on the table. No note needed, and problem solved. Oh, the candle isn't intended for any play. I've researched wax play thoroughly in the past and learned better. Also discovered this particular candle melts at a pretty low temperature after a small accident that coated the back of my hand and table in wax. :/ And the flowers are already on the table. I'd just like to add a cute message to them.

LadyPact -> RE: Need help w/ cute message for domme (2/8/2016 8:17:41 PM)
So? How did it go? Between you and I, actually TRAVELING to another person's residence is a big deal. I consider it one of my love languages. I only do it when I'm smitten with a submissive male. The first night I spent at tk's place, he was very much like you. He worked his tail off cleaning his entire place. He wanted everything to be perfect. Even today, I sit here and smile about it. The guy who asked me on a real date. Held my hand and looked at me 'that' way. If you have that, you've won her heart.

minionno1 -> RE: Need help w/ cute message for domme (2/9/2016 2:15:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact So? How did it go? Between you and I, actually TRAVELING to another person's residence is a big deal. I consider it one of my love languages. I only do it when I'm smitten with a submissive male. The first night I spent at tk's place, he was very much like you. He worked his tail off cleaning his entire place. He wanted everything to be perfect. Even today, I sit here and smile about it. The guy who asked me on a real date. Held my hand and looked at me 'that' way. If you have that, you've won her heart. It went amazing. :) I don't want to tell everything and I know there are things she didn't notice, but it was all worth it. The shrimp pasta came out a touch spicier than intended, but she likes spicy food. I recently put a led bulb with a speaker in a pendant light that looks like a cloud and streamed rainymood to it for some light ambient noise. She decided to play some of my games while I prepared dinner for her. After eating I gave her a massage while we watched one of her favorite movies - she enjoyed that enough that I'm keeping the massage oil in my car for when she wants me to come by after work. Eventually we got around to some ice cream for dessert. She did end up spending the night too and decided to leave her spare toothbrush in my bathroom. I suspect I will be playing host quite often. As for play... Well that's not something a gentleman shares. :) Oh, and I realized the card said "thinking of you" in the top left corner so I ended up adding "makes me smile".

LadyPact -> RE: Need help w/ cute message for domme (2/9/2016 2:58:21 PM)
Very good news! I'm glad it went so well.

Lucylastic -> RE: Need help w/ cute message for domme (2/9/2016 3:02:00 PM)
Awesome!!!! So glad it went ok:) I hope it does in the future. Good luck to you both.

Andalusite -> RE: Need help w/ cute message for domme (2/9/2016 5:16:21 PM)
Aww, I'm glad you both had a wonderful time! I hope there are many more to come. [:D]

minionno1 -> RE: Need help w/ cute message for domme (2/9/2016 6:16:50 PM)
Thank you, everyone. I really appreciate your help and well wishes. :)

wannapleez -> RE: Need help w/ cute message for domme (2/10/2016 2:52:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CodeOfSilence Flowers are if ever given by the host as a farewell gift, never as a welcome gift. It is absolutely nonsensical and breaks with all established etiquette. Do you know, like, anything about the lifestyle? This isn't a neighborhood dinner. 1) "established etiquette" would say that a Domme/sub relationship is weird, taboo, etc. So why would he ever want to consider "established etiquette"? 2) Often, gifts are given by subs to Dommes for no damn reason whatsoever.

AtUrCervix -> RE: Need help w/ cute message for domme (2/10/2016 4:03:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: minionno1 Hello everyone! I'm having a creative meltdown trying to come up with something to write on a card going with some flowers to my domme. Could some of you lovely ladies help jump start my brain with examples of what messages your subs have sent you? Or if you have any good ideas. Edit: I thought it prudent to explain this isn't an attempt to cop out. This is the first time she will be coming to my place. I've completely rearranged the furniture, spent most of the day cleaning, looked up recipes for something she will enjoy, picked up some new sheets and towels if she decides to stay over as she has hinted at, even replaced my curtains, and picked up the flowers. So, yeah, I'm putting in quite a bit of work. The creative juices just aren't flowing at the moment. :( Well, I'm not a "lovely lady" but I do have some input....useful.... Here's how I'd approach things Minio.... "Hey baby....been thinking about you....your leather, whip, that adorable snarl....and I was thinking....along with paying your mortgage....what say you and I hit the sheets? Yeah?" (I'm here to help).

CodeOfSilence -> RE: Need help w/ cute message for domme (2/13/2016 12:36:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wannapleez quote: ORIGINAL: CodeOfSilence Flowers are if ever given by the host as a farewell gift, never as a welcome gift. It is absolutely nonsensical and breaks with all established etiquette. Do you know, like, anything about the lifestyle? This isn't a neighborhood dinner. 1) "established etiquette" would say that a Domme/sub relationship is weird, taboo, etc. So why would he ever want to consider "established etiquette"? 2) Often, gifts are given by subs to Dommes for no damn reason whatsoever. That's stupid and ignorant. And I don't associate with stupid people but especially not with those that willfully remain ignorant whether or not they are in BDSM or not doesn't matter.

wannapleez -> RE: Need help w/ cute message for domme (2/13/2016 1:56:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CodeOfSilence quote: ORIGINAL: wannapleez quote: ORIGINAL: CodeOfSilence Flowers are if ever given by the host as a farewell gift, never as a welcome gift. It is absolutely nonsensical and breaks with all established etiquette. Do you know, like, anything about the lifestyle? This isn't a neighborhood dinner. 1) "established etiquette" would say that a Domme/sub relationship is weird, taboo, etc. So why would he ever want to consider "established etiquette"? 2) Often, gifts are given by subs to Dommes for no damn reason whatsoever. That's stupid and ignorant. And I don't associate with stupid people but especially not with those that willfully remain ignorant whether or not they are in BDSM or not doesn't matter. My first sentence was opinion-based, and so you may have issue with it. You may even be insulted by it (especially since that was the intention). But the bulk of my post was merely factual, and therefore can be neither stupid nor ignorant. So if you're going to throw around stupid and ignorant terms like "stupid and ignorant", at least have the integrity to back up such vacuous accusations.

CodeOfSilence -> RE: Need help w/ cute message for domme (2/13/2016 1:59:32 PM)
It may be factual that a majority of people in BDSM are stupid and ignorant but I'd like to see your sources for this before I call it anything other than opinion. edit: Lol that last post of mine was a bit silly looking too x.X Double negatives, the bane of my existence.

CodeOfSilence -> RE: Need help w/ cute message for domme (2/13/2016 2:14:10 PM)
Wait, you're actually having as an avatar a piece of a conversation with a female sub or switch that is accusing you of admitting to her that you molest little girls so that you can prove to the world what a criminal she is for posting pictures of you online? Why am I talking to you? Hello ignored person nr2.

AtUrCervix -> RE: Need help w/ cute message for domme (2/17/2016 5:56:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: minionno1 Hello everyone! I'm having a creative meltdown trying to come up with something to write on a card going with some flowers to my domme. Could some of you lovely ladies help jump start my brain with examples of what messages your subs have sent you? Or if you have any good ideas. Edit: I thought it prudent to explain this isn't an attempt to cop out. This is the first time she will be coming to my place. I've completely rearranged the furniture, spent most of the day cleaning, looked up recipes for something she will enjoy, picked up some new sheets and towels if she decides to stay over as she has hinted at, even replaced my curtains, and picked up the flowers. So, yeah, I'm putting in quite a bit of work. The creative juices just aren't flowing at the moment. :( YOU need to do ONE thing: Be.........You. (That's it).

BlueRoses1111 -> RE: Need help w/ cute message for domme (3/4/2016 11:20:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: minionno1 quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact So? How did it go? Between you and I, actually TRAVELING to another person's residence is a big deal. I consider it one of my love languages. I only do it when I'm smitten with a submissive male. The first night I spent at tk's place, he was very much like you. He worked his tail off cleaning his entire place. He wanted everything to be perfect. Even today, I sit here and smile about it. The guy who asked me on a real date. Held my hand and looked at me 'that' way. If you have that, you've won her heart. It went amazing. :) I don't want to tell everything and I know there are things she didn't notice, but it was all worth it. The shrimp pasta came out a touch spicier than intended, but she likes spicy food. I recently put a led bulb with a speaker in a pendant light that looks like a cloud and streamed rainymood to it for some light ambient noise. She decided to play some of my games while I prepared dinner for her. After eating I gave her a massage while we watched one of her favorite movies - she enjoyed that enough that I'm keeping the massage oil in my car for when she wants me to come by after work. Eventually we got around to some ice cream for dessert. She did end up spending the night too and decided to leave her spare toothbrush in my bathroom. I suspect I will be playing host quite often. As for play... Well that's not something a gentleman shares. :) Oh, and I realized the card said "thinking of you" in the top left corner so I ended up adding "makes me smile". That was a lovely read:)

betataster -> RE: Need help w/ cute message for domme (3/7/2016 5:45:46 PM)
Reminds me of a bad?, old? joke with the punchline "read the card".

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