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mechski -> Apprentice (2/13/2016 6:52:41 AM)

I just wanted to get a "fresh start" I didn't think I would want to stick around this forum really when I joined. I have gained insight into quite few things, and want to learn more. Even from you Gret, the only thing you have said that has made ANY kind of impact at all to me is to "master yourself first" I have given a lot of thought to that comment. I have done just that in many ways. But, I also know for reasons that I don't care to openly discuss, under certain circumstances I can let my emotions run wild. I do get a grip on it, and I have actually gotten a lot better, but when caught up in it I will express every f-ing thing I am feeling (at that moment) when I could be feeling different about it later. For that reason I have bought books (last night) on controlling emotions, staying calm with Adult ADHD, etc. As curious as I am about aspects of this lifestyle, I need to work on that first. Can we all kiss, break out the toys, and let things previously said go?



Cinnamongirl67 -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 7:07:48 AM)

Welcome to cc brand new person. [sm=celebrating-smileys.gif]



mechski -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 7:12:20 AM)

Lol, thanks. Cinnamon and spice and everything nice :)



LadyPact -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 7:20:29 AM)

Greetings.

It would be my opinion that you should tell the truth. Including that about the former screen name.



mechski -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 7:40:20 AM)

Telling the truth has never been a problem for me. If I was trying to hide, I certainly wouldn't have said what I just said. I am already confused seeing how I feel that I am both dominant and submissive at the same time, go figure. Dominant about some things, yet submissive about others. With that being said, you are telling me what to do, when I usually don't respond well to "being told what to do" I know that statement is counterintuitive when it comes to feeling dom and submissive at the same time. What can I say, I'm complicated. BTW) I am no longer newatdis..I am now an apprentice.
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Greetings.

It would be my opinion that you should tell the truth. Including that about the former screen name.





LadyPact -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 7:48:28 AM)

If it's counterproductive to you, that's your problem.

Just know that folks with higher ethics than yours without telling the truth about that first screen name will avoid you.

As a secondary, no, I don't "kiss" and make up with folks who can't meet my standards. If you lie about your screen name, that's on you.



mechski -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 7:57:02 AM)

"higher ethics than mine" Oh please, you would never find a more honest person than myself. And I really dgaf if you, or anyone else wants to kiss and make up. That was MY WAY of saying I have no ill will towards anything that was previously said and never have. It seems like your comment about "higher ethics than yours" when you are talking about "honesty" needs to be checked at the door, when anyone that comes onto these forums with any regularity would know exactly who I am. You seem to like to control things a little too much.
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

If it's counterproductive to you, that's your problem.

Just know that folks with higher ethics than yours without telling the truth about that first screen name will avoid you.

As a secondary, no, I don't "kiss" and make up with folks who can't meet my standards. If you lie about your screen name, that's on you.





mechski -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 8:13:33 AM)

You can't even respect someones wishes of just getting a fresh start. Again, if I felt the need to hide, I wouldn't have said what I said in the opening thread. Somehow, you feel the need to take control, and tell me what to do.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

If it's counterproductive to you, that's your problem.

Just know that folks with higher ethics than yours without telling the truth about that first screen name will avoid you.

As a secondary, no, I don't "kiss" and make up with folks who can't meet my standards. If you lie about your screen name, that's on you.





LilJuly76 -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 8:17:35 AM)

here is a little tip, trying to kiss and make up, maybe you shouldn't pick a fight with people especially since you are new.



Wayward5oul -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 8:22:22 AM)

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when anyone that comes onto these forums with any regularity would know exactly who I

Don't have a dog in this fight. Just pointing out that I come on here regularly and I don't know who you are or aren't. So yes, being straightforward and forthcoming with these things do lend to credibility even if you think its already apparent.



mechski -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 8:24:34 AM)

Just to let you know, this time, I wasn't trying to pick a fight. I was trying to get a fresh start. But, I think her comments were out of line, and I am going to say so.
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ORIGINAL: LilJuly76

here is a little tip, trying to kiss and make up, maybe you shouldn't pick a fight with people especially since you are new.




mechski -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 8:26:52 AM)

I can appreciate that.
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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul

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when anyone that comes onto these forums with any regularity would know exactly who I

Don't have a dog in this fight. Just pointing out that I come on here regularly and I don't know who you are or aren't. So yes, being straightforward and forthcoming with these things do lend to credibility even if you think its already apparent.




LilJuly76 -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 8:27:28 AM)

I don 't see where LadyPact said anything wrong, maybe it's your interpretation?



mechski -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 8:30:41 AM)

She attacked my integrity, talking about being honest. I obviously wasn't trying to hide. If you guys want to argue (and I realize a lot of you are already friends) we can do that. And I am quite good at it. I remember reading something Kona said about "loving fucking mind games" well, me too. Only this time around I was hoping to just get a fresh start. But, no one is going to be my dictator.

By the way LP, getting a fresh start means leaving the past in the past. I started the thread that way to let everyone involved in the thread know exactly who I was. And if someone didn't know, good, I wanted a fresh start anyway. I mean the original thread is third from the top right? it is not buried. But, your need to control has sort of ruined that now, hasn't it?
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ORIGINAL: LilJuly76

I don 't see where LadyPact said anything wrong, maybe it's your interpretation?




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 9:12:19 AM)


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ORIGINAL: mechski

Just to let you know, this time, I wasn't trying to pick a fight. I was trying to get a fresh start. But, I think her comments were out of line, and I am going to say so.
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ORIGINAL: LilJuly76

here is a little tip, trying to kiss and make up, maybe you shouldn't pick a fight with people especially since you are new.



Perhaps, just as a suggestion, you should have issued a blanket apology and continued with your original name rather than inventing another??

You'll notice that many of us here, even if we fuck up (yes, we do, frequently), we don't go inventing a new name and carry on - we stick with our original name and don't hide who we are.

Many, rightly or wrongly, think that changing your name just isn't being honest with everyone even if we know who you were previously.
Hint: dishonesty is something that doesn't go down well with this crowd.

[sm=2cents.gif]



mechski -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 9:16:36 AM)

Well, newatdis was a name I created because I was new. I didn't think I was going to want to stick around the forums but I have actually learned a thing or two. I am absolutely new to the lifestyle. But, if I am going to stick around (trying to learn and understand things) I don't need to broadcast it with my username...and that is my preference, and mine alone.
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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1


quote:

ORIGINAL: mechski

Just to let you know, this time, I wasn't trying to pick a fight. I was trying to get a fresh start. But, I think her comments were out of line, and I am going to say so.
quote:

ORIGINAL: LilJuly76

here is a little tip, trying to kiss and make up, maybe you shouldn't pick a fight with people especially since you are new.



Perhaps, just as a suggestion, you should have issued a blanket apology and continued with your original name rather than inventing another??

You'll notice that many of us here, even if we fuck up (yes, we do, frequently), we don't go inventing a new name and carry on - we stick with our original name and don't hide who we are.

Many, rightly or wrongly, think that changing your name just isn't being honest with everyone even if we know who you were previously.
Hint: dishonesty is something that doesn't go down well with this crowd.

[sm=2cents.gif]




mechski -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 9:22:06 AM)

For a bunch of control-freaks, kinks, pervs, sadists, whatever (mostly the people society looks down on) a lot of you are judgemental fucks that think people should do, and act the way you want them to. That surprises me!



DaddySatyr -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 9:31:28 AM)


Mechski,

Much like the outside world, there's a contingent here that is welcoming and tolerant (as long as you think and speak and act the way they expect you to).

You have now found this group. Accept them for what they are and understand that there are other people on the boards that aren't like that.

You'll be fine and welcome to your new name!



Michael



mechski -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 2:24:46 PM)

Thanks for NOT jumping on the bandwagon, and having something positive to say.



mechski -> RE: Apprentice (2/13/2016 2:35:21 PM)

And LP, it seems more than a little hypocritical to say you don't answer messages, when you did just that. And you replied, letting me know that you don't read or answer messages (lol) Out of respect (being the person that I am) I let you know incognito on the thread that I was respecting your wishes. And you immediately had to make it known who I was talking to. Showing your power to your herd (I just lmao) I guess it was my charming personality, you couldn't resist knowing what it is I had to say.



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