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maysubgirl -> when do you stop masters/mistress (7/19/2006 2:13:22 PM)

how do you know that its enough and your slave just not  capable to  take   more punishment..  how do you make decision to stop punishing  slave . 



mistoferin -> RE: when do you stop masters/mistress (7/19/2006 2:15:36 PM)

I'm not a Master or a Mistress...but if I was I wouldn't own a slave who needed to be punished. If they could not operate like an adult and respond to communication of expectations...they would be useless to me.



bandit25 -> RE: when do you stop masters/mistress (7/19/2006 2:36:11 PM)

I have to agree with erin here; HOWEVER, if you are going to punish your slave, you better know just how much s/he can take BEFORE you start.  I mean, you don't want to damage him or her...just get your point across.



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: when do you stop masters/mistress (7/19/2006 5:18:13 PM)

And sometimes physical punishment is useless...reasoning,understanding poor behavior is the first thing ..then communication, showing of disappointment is usually harder on submissives than actual physical punishment..however physical punishment can come in handy to give the submissive closure...this is just my opinion..I am merely a newbit sub....be well..Tempting



crouchingtigress -> RE: when do you stop masters/mistress (7/19/2006 6:11:13 PM)

any time i have used physical punishment for correction is was because the boy had asked me to. He felt that it would help him to remember somethings better,  so we tried it for a time but as a rule i dont think it is as nearly as effective a communication and time outs.
 
in this case of this boy i will say that he is a very hard person to evaluate, he can be totally stoic through what i would consider excruciating pain....so i attuned myself to his energy field, and as soon as i felt a shift i would stop.



Controladora -> RE: when do you stop masters/mistress (7/19/2006 6:49:00 PM)

Depends on the punishment, it doesn't always have to be physical but physical or not I never injure a sub physically or mentally.  My intent is to correct and discourage whatever behavior displeased me.  I also agree with bandit25, you should know your subs emotional & physical tolerance BEFORE you being to administer a punishment.

Controladora



irishbynature -> RE: when do you stop masters/mistress (7/19/2006 7:03:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: maysubgirl

how do you know that its enough and your slave just not  capable to  take   more punishment..  how do you make decision to stop punishing  slave . 


I'm not a Dom/Master--but if you had to punish an didn't know what the other persons limits were, I'd say much communication is in order. (plus, why would someone need that much punishment?) Shrugs shoulders.
IBN



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