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mechski -> Comments from someone new... (2/14/2016 9:54:25 PM)
Some of you need to treat people that are new a little nicer, regardless. Not everyone is going to do it your way, this isn't burger king. Don't attack, trying to be controlling, hurtful, acting like you know someone you haven't met. And than question why they are "acting defensive" Some "herd mentality" going on. It is more than apparent what happened in the last thread, and yet some people will still say "LP didn't do anything" when the post speaks for itself. Would any of you like this comment being addressed to you "Just know that folks with higher ethics than yours" when she is talking about "honesty" I am also serious about certain aspects of this lifestyle. Even if I don't come off that way because of the circus with a few people. That sort of sucks but I accept it for what it is.

peppermint -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/14/2016 9:58:28 PM)
This is your introduction. Would you like to tell us something about yourself?

mechski -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/14/2016 10:00:01 PM)
I was new at this, trying to learn the lifestyle, and it all went to hell!

dreamlady -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/14/2016 10:34:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mechski I was new at this, trying to learn the lifestyle, and it all went to hell! If one is sincerely trying to learn, it helps to have a teachable spirit. One that can sift through the assorted advice one is given, one who can assimilate constructive criticism and take it with a grain of salt. After all, why should this site be any different than any other site where one is dealing with assorted personalities? In your earlier Intro, you referred to yourself as an apprentice, not a candidate for (random) coddling. Just saying, [sm=welcome.gif] DreamLady

mechski -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/14/2016 10:37:41 PM)
I am just a poor boy and nobody loves me.

Greta75 -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/14/2016 10:47:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mechski I'm just a poor boy and nobody loves me. Blame blame blame everybody else for your own behaviour but yourself. As a dominant person, do you know you can control how people will react to you? Whether they will be nice or nasty to you? The first step to that looking at your people management skills.

mechski -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/14/2016 10:54:32 PM)
You know what Greta, you don't know the difference between sarcasm and orgasm (many times now) and I have controlled you from the get go. I am getting out of this three ring circus. I just noticed the naughty love section and I have other things on my mind. quote: ORIGINAL: Greta75 quote: ORIGINAL: mechski I'm just a poor boy and nobody loves me. Blame blame blame everybody else for your own behaviour but yourself. As a dominant person, do you know you can control how people will react to you? Whether they will be nice or nasty to you? The first step to that looking at your people management skills.

Greta75 -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/14/2016 11:07:06 PM)
quote: yet some people will still say "LP didn't do anything" when the post speaks for itself. No dude, your blame blame blame is due to this specific comment. This is blaming other people for your behaviour again.

dreamlady -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/14/2016 11:13:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mechski You know what Greta, you don't know the difference between sarcasm and orgasm (many times now) and I have controlled you from the get go. Oh boy, you really are new. Nobody controls Greta. Probably not even the man to whom she would decide to relinquish control to. [:D] DreamLady

mechski -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/15/2016 12:04:32 AM)
I have controlled her inability to upset me. In spite of her trying every little dirty trick in the book. quote: ORIGINAL: dreamlady quote: ORIGINAL: mechski You know what Greta, you don't know the difference between sarcasm and orgasm (many times now) and I have controlled you from the get go. Oh boy, you really are new. Nobody controls Greta. Probably not even the man to whom she would decide to relinquish control to. [:D] DreamLady

DaddySatyr -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/15/2016 12:12:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mechski quote: ORIGINAL: Greta75 Blame blame blame everybody else for your own behaviour but yourself. As a dominant person, do you know you can control how people will react to you? Whether they will be nice or nasty to you? The first step to that looking at your people management skills. The part I highlighted could not be more wrong. As has been said a gazillion times on these boards, a submissive will give up control to the right person but that is an entirely different kettle of fish. Leaving that dynamic aside, NO ONE has any control over how anyone else reacts to them. I have no control over how any of the people on these boards or at work or school react to me. The ONLY control I have is how I react and interact with them. I can control whom I allow into my "world", but I cannot control their behavior other than expelling them, when they cross a line. Michael

spencerhoward -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/15/2016 5:23:52 AM)
Such sentiments though obviously well meaning will inevitably only attract the forums resident bastards to attack your post! No point reporting them because the moderators will not listen. They can and often will report you though and the moderators will listen to them and you, though innocent, will be moderated by awaiting approval notices and may be even banned.It is not a fair forum and life is not fair.

Cinnamongirl67 -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/15/2016 5:35:31 AM)
You have said repeatedly you are not upset but it's obvious that's just not true friend. By rehashing this over and over and over, it just puts you in mania. I do hope you feel much better today and a word of advice, it might be best not to come here for a few days. Clear your mind. And by God I'm not trying to Dom you! [:D] but seriously do take care of yourself.

spencerhoward -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/15/2016 6:15:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Cinnamongirl67 You have said repeatedly you are not upset but it's obvious that's just not true friend. By rehashing this over and over and over, it just puts you in mania. I do hope you feel much better today and a word of advice, it might be best not to come here for a few days. Clear your mind. And by God I'm not trying to Dom you! [:D] but seriously do take care of yourself. Good advice from a caring women perhaps?

freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/15/2016 6:26:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mechski Some of you need to treat people that are new a little nicer, regardless. Not everyone is going to do it your way, this isn't burger king. Don't attack, trying to be controlling, hurtful, acting like you know someone you haven't met. And than question why they are "acting defensive" Some "herd mentality" going on. It is more than apparent what happened in the last thread, and yet some people will still say "LP didn't do anything" when the post speaks for itself. Would any of you like this comment being addressed to you "Just know that folks with higher ethics than yours" when she is talking about "honesty" I am also serious about certain aspects of this lifestyle. Even if I don't come off that way because of the circus with a few people. That sort of sucks but I accept it for what it is. Are you for real??? You came to the boards with a chest-thumping attitude onto a website more like a lions den and start strutting yourself all over the place with a holier-than-thou "I'm better than you" king-dick manifesto and expect the residents to be nice to you??? Jeeez man. You really need to wise up. And fast!! And with every thread/response you type, you are showing nothing of dominance. Seriously.... you are sounding like a 2yo having a hissy fit. ETA: you came into the "nice" part of the boards. You wouldn't last 5 seconds in P&R where it can get really nasty.

Cinnamongirl67 -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/15/2016 6:35:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: spencerhoward quote: ORIGINAL: Cinnamongirl67 You have said repeatedly you are not upset but it's obvious that's just not true friend. By rehashing this over and over and over, it just puts you in mania. I do hope you feel much better today and a word of advice, it might be best not to come here for a few days. Clear your mind. And by God I'm not trying to Dom you! [:D] but seriously do take care of yourself. Good advice from a caring women perhaps? Yes I do care. This is coming from a person who has battled with a personality disorder since adolescence. I know how distressing it is. Until one conquers or learns how to control it, it is a recipe for disaster.

LilJuly76 -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/15/2016 6:57:23 AM)
I like the way you put itfreedomdwarf1 OP you are still acting like a child, to me you remind me of a 5 year old yelling and calling people do do head when you don't get your way. as others have stated submissives only submit to the one(s) they are involved with. if we did that with every tom, dick and harry that stated they are Dominant we would run out of steam saying it all the time.

Cinnamongirl67 -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/15/2016 7:28:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LilJuly76 I like the way you put itfreedomdwarf1 OP you are still acting like a child, to me you remind me of a 5 year old yelling and calling people do do head when you don't get your way. as others have stated submissives only submit to the one(s) they are involved with. if we did that with every tom, dick and harry that stated they are Dominant we would run out of steam saying it all the time. if you want to learn about the lifestyle you should get involved with the local community, you can't learn by how to notes on line. but like I said I would never recommend any submissive to be hooked up with you, you don't act like any respected Dominant that I have ever seen or talked to. I like the way freedom dwarf put it too. But as for you, why don't you stfu? Nobody cares what you recommend. Who asked you to recommend? So move along....

LilJuly76 -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/15/2016 7:31:09 AM)
ok sorry

mechski -> RE: Comments from someone new... (2/15/2016 7:55:30 AM)
Amen brother. quote: ORIGINAL: spencerhoward Such sentiments though obviously well meaning will inevitably only attract the forums resident bastards to attack your post! No point reporting them because the moderators will not listen. They can and often will report you though and the moderators will listen to them and you, though innocent, will be moderated by awaiting approval notices and may be even banned.It is not a fair forum and life is not fair.

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