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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

Baad menfolk but unfortunately winsomedefiance the majority of women folk expect that, nae demand it, and to be told they look 100 hundred years younger and it was love at first hr u you babe lets fk

Both these types are equally responsible, or are they?

My reply to the OP was flippant, I guess I was in a mood. Personally, I've no real interest in things that appear perfect. One of the few times I wrote first to a man; all his profile said was that he was new in town and looking to make friends. His picture was a little out of focus and he was sitting in a lawn chair.
He turned out to be a good looking man, but his picture didn't do him justice. My point is, He said he wanted to make friends. I was new to the area and wanting to make friends. No perfect pic or profile. I invited him over for coffee. He showed up. 7 years later, we are still friends (granted, only on Facebook these days :) )

If someone is nitpicking profiles and demanding someone too good to be true, that's most likely all they will find. So, I suppose I agree.
Both are probably deserving of each other. She who falls for the image of perfection and he who remakes himself into whomever she desires. I guess I just like an honest, simple approach. Which is probably why the OP raised my hackles.