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babychris -> RE: AB lifestyle is it d/s or? (12/8/2004 12:08:19 PM)

hi there i was invited to come in this site by ABBOY4U because i am also a true AB but i really do not like that saying i am a baby in heart i have been in the baby lifestyle for more than five years it is not a sick lifestyle at all we just choice to be a baby again due to what has happend in are lifes like me i was born different from other people i had birth defects my vision was impaired so i was allways slower than normal people. There are a few in the AB world that think the same way just want to be accepted for what they are my baby side i think it been with me all my life but only sence 1997 when it just started comeing back in my life this is what i want and desire again to be treated like a baby again thanks for leting me join bye for now baby chris.



BeachMystress -> RE: AB lifestyle is it d/s or? (12/8/2004 12:34:11 PM)


Funny, but reading this last post made me think of something. One of my best and longest term friends often says he wants to be 8 again. You're old enough to be given many freedoms and young enough to be totally cared for.. He is a totally vanilla person. I'd always agreed with him that it would be great to be able to go back to childhood once and a while- to be able to not have the worries of an adult. I think I may be getting more of a grasp on the psychology behind age play! Whoo Hooo!



babychris -> RE: AB lifestyle is it d/s or? (12/8/2004 4:58:14 PM)

hi there mistress i am one of the few that speack the truth in the baby lfiestyle i do not like to hide it anymore. I hid it for four years until about a year ago i finely told my real mom the truth about my baby side of me she told me to do it in my private life now i live by myself. My best friends know and have accepted it bye for now baby chris.



ABBOY4U -> RE: AB lifestyle is it d/s or? (12/8/2004 10:27:20 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MistressFire70

But, don't forget, Dominants can be littles too.


Thank you Mistress Fire for such an enlightening response to my
question maam!!
I have never ever thought of a Domme as some one that would bend even a little to express the inner child inside them maam?
This is truly something new that I really have never known existed maam!
I have always thought of a Domme as being an strong very authoritative figure maam very strict and dsiciplining and nurturing and maternal giving direction and guidance to those unable to achieve self growth on their own maam !
Does this mean that you may be a switch maam and enjoy giving up control at times and relish in the glow of innocence and unresposibility maam?
My inner child has dominated me all my life I dont play being a baby more like I play as being an adult maam:)
I do respect you maam as a child and a Domme more importantly a woman maam!
I have always thought of women as my sister or my mommy maam:)
I would love to hear more of your thoughts Mistress Fire!!
Larry



BeachMystress -> RE: AB lifestyle is it d/s or? (12/8/2004 11:42:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ABBOY4U
quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressFire70
But, don't forget, Dominants can be littles too.

I have never ever thought of a Domme as some one that would bend even a little to express the inner child inside them maam?


I'm surprised you never thought of how we play as expressing the inner child. To me, BDSM sessions are adult play time. I color on my subs, dress them up, alter them to suit my whims. I've been told that I look much like a child playing dolls when doing CBT.

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ABBOY4U -> RE: AB lifestyle is it d/s or? (12/9/2004 12:06:05 AM)


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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress

I've been told that I look much like a child playing dolls when doing CBT


Beach Mystress
Yes I understand that you may play with your dolls and enjoy dressing them and changing them to suit your mood of play maam.
But truly I was referring to the giving up of control and having an childlike
sense of unresponsibilty with no decisions.
I admire your creativeness and your childlike imagination:)
I am learning another side of Dommes I never seen before maam:)
I truly have enjoyed every one who has replied !
Knowledge is a terrible thing to waste:)
baby Larry



ABBOY4U -> RE: AB lifestyle is it d/s or? (12/9/2004 12:17:15 AM)

Hi Chris
As always glad to hear from you:)
Jump in and get your feet wet and enjoy.
There are really some nice understanding people here:)
AB s Sub s Slave s Domme s Dom
Just one big family living outside the norm:)
Just be yourself and have fun:)
baby Larry



babychris -> RE: AB lifestyle is it d/s or? (12/9/2004 7:17:26 AM)

hi there mistress beach and aboy4u i know what you two are trying to say this lifestyle is still freash but it is slowly comeing out and there are a few that do not want to hide there desires anymore and have made up there minds that this is what they want in there life to be in baby cholthes and diapers all the time. I have to wear diapers due to medical reasons but i was allready a baby again when i found that out this is my life and i do not want to hide no more just want a real person in my life to accept me cuz i never had a girl in my life yet i did not think anyone wanted me for who i was and the problems i have with me but i have told my self about 4 years ago i will try and see what happens i am a true person i never lie i allways speak and write the truth bye for now baby chris.



babychris -> RE: AB lifestyle is it d/s or? (12/9/2004 2:01:41 PM)

hi there i just want to be my self and be accepted in my lifestyle there are some people in this baby lifestyle that gives us a bad rep there are alot of people think it is a sick thing and invole real kids,but that is not true at all. The real meaning is to be a baby again but in a adult body fourm we just want to be loved and cared for like we were when we were little i am one that do not invole sexural things i just want to be the baby again bye for now baby chris.



ABBOY4U -> RE: AB lifestyle is it d/s or? (12/9/2004 9:16:43 PM)


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ORIGINAL: babychris

hi there i just want to be my self and be accepted in my lifestyle



ABBOY4U -> RE: AB lifestyle is it d/s or? (12/9/2004 9:25:01 PM)

Yes Chris you are right we do really wanted to be treated as a real baby but in all reality a baby is controlled and disciplined , put on schedules, spanked for not following the schedules or get fussy and cranky,dressed by mommy no matter what you will wear it or be spanked again for being a naughty baby. What I am asking since we are in the world of dominant women here would you be willing to be treated exactly as a baby and receive just punishments when needed or would you reject their loving hand to guide you and direct you into a safe and healthy life Chris?
Remember a baby receives love in many ways and that does include being disciplined and controlled!!
baby Larry



GoddessJules -> RE: AB lifestyle is it d/s or? (12/10/2004 6:13:42 AM)

I'm just curious because I personally do not know anythong that carries AB to the extent that they call it a "lifestyle". . .but is there any service involved? Or is the mommy there to basically just take care of the baby and the needs of the baby?



babychris -> RE: AB lifestyle is it d/s or? (12/10/2004 8:40:59 AM)

hi there ABboy4u yes i would do all that i know that is apart of being a baby when bad they will correct you and yes i am willing to do it like i said before i am baby in the lifestyle i want to be loved and cared for and i know when i am bad i know what will happen bye for now baby chris.

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babychris -> RE: AB lifestyle is it d/s or? (12/10/2004 8:50:36 AM)

hi there goodd there are some things that people do not really know unless they are in the AB lifestyle i will try to tell you somethings. 1 is the difference from a lifestyle and a fetlish the fetlish part of the ab is it includes sexural desires and that is why most of the people do it just want to be in that mode just for that. 2 The lifestyle part is where there is no sexural play involed just being cared and loved just like you were when you were younger there are alot in the lifestyle part because of bad things happend in there childhood and want to totally relive it and want to live there live the rest of there life as a baby like me and a few are the real deal i do not lie or put anyone on i speak the truth. Alot of people in the fetlish part lie and put people on and do not really understand what desires they are lookeing for in there life or have not totally foudn there life yet bye for now baby chris.

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ABBOY4U -> RE: AB lifestyle is it d/s or? (12/10/2004 12:24:07 PM)


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ORIGINAL: GoddessJule



I personally do not know anything that carries AB to the extent that they call it a "lifestyle









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Joined: 7/15/2004
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Status: offline I'm just curious because I personally do not know anythong that carries AB to the extent that they call it a "lifestyle



ABBOY4U -> RE: AB lifestyle is it d/s or? (12/10/2004 12:38:11 PM)

Goddes Jules maam

In answer to your question maam

I do not truly belive there are AB lifestyles which do evlolve around 24/7
mommy/baby as far as the baby just being a baby maam.
They enjoy an vanilla world as dining out,going to theatres,travelling,the normal activities
of an adult world maam and yes I am sure they service each others needs if wanted by each other maam.
Most portray an vanilla type relationship out in public although it is up to the parent to decide what the baby will be wearing, where they are going,what the baby will eat etc.
The parent has complete control over the baby whether inside or out of the house and the baby never has control or makes decisions in the home maam.
It really depends on what the parent wants and expects the baby to give them in their relationship maam.
A true mommy/daddy/baby relationship where the baby is just a baby I have really never heard of maam.



ABBOY4U -> update: has any Mistresses heard of "a diaper Domme" (12/12/2004 12:09:31 PM)

Mistresses
I have just been contacted by Mistress that calls herself "a diaper Domme ".
She is very interested in me and wants to keep me as her real baby 24/7?
She says that I will be a baby period in diapers 24/7,fed,changed,put in crib:)
I am now in discussion with her on meeting and planning real time with her!
I really and truly didnt think an relationship like this was considered but
I am very happy and hopefully I will be with my Domme mommy soon!
Have any Mistresses heard of "a diaper Domme"?
This is the first time I have ever heard that title given to a Mistress before?
baby Larry



ABBOY4U -> baby sub or adult sub which gives more? (12/14/2004 11:19:57 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Jasmyn

In this lifestyle, what does if matter if someone is wearing nappies or a cock cage? Or a Dom carrying a dummy or a whip?


Mistress Jasmyn

Thank you for your reply maam and I ask all the Mistresses and Dommes.
In all that I have learned I have came to the conclusion that giving ones self as a baby
is alot more submissive than giving ones self up as an adult maam?
Even though ,the sub as an adult gives willingly (within their requested limits)
all that is asked of them , do they still not retain their structure as an adult maam ,even if a degraded humiliated form of flesh, has their adultness been affected?
Can they stand upright and look into the Mistresses eyes and feel less than they but
still have their adult prowess that keeps them with some thought of strength maam?
An adult maam that totally gives theirselves to their Mistresses to completely abolish all adultness and masculinity they have ,even their thoughts maam ,isnt this giving more than an adult sub doing as their Mistress desires?
What I am saying maam ,if an adult is reduced to a baby by thier Mistress how can they even look at their Mistress and feel any composure maam,of some strength ,some thought of adult stature, when they no longer are allowed to be clothed,fed,talked to,or to talk,put to bed early ,not allowed to be involved in adult conversations, as an adult maam?
Doesnt the adult sub, even though racked by fear and pain and mortal humiliation ,see thru an adults eyes because his environment that surrounds him maam, even as lowly as the Mistress places him in? As which the adult turned baby sub maam has no composure or reality of an adult existance and has to completely turn to their Mistress and depend on them for everything in their life. Their safety, their physical development and their emotional development as well.
What I am asking is
Mistresses in a adult sub/Mistress relationship and a adult baby sub/Mistress/mommy relationship who do you feel experiences the most change, and in which relationship do you think gives more?
The adult sub or the baby sub?

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proudsub -> RE: baby sub or adult sub which gives more? (12/15/2004 12:04:40 AM)

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when they no longer are allowed to be clothed,fed,talked to,or to talk,put to bed early ,not allowed to be involved in adult conversations, as an adult maam?


You type very well for a baby.[;)]



ABBOY4U -> RE: baby sub or adult sub which gives more? (12/15/2004 12:23:16 AM)

Thanks Proud Sub[:)]
I am hoping thatwill change once my Domme mommy finds me[:D]



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