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MsMajique -> submissive wanna be frustration (2/26/2016 1:41:35 PM)

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Why does a submissive wanna be revert to dominant/negative behavior when writing
when they don't get their way and are unable to direct a conversation 'their way'
as opposed to submitting to the Domina like a good submissive?
(And then they block disabling a response!)




DesFIP -> RE: submissive wanna be frustration (2/26/2016 8:02:42 PM)

what on earth is dominant negative behavior?

And why do you think that every sub out there needs to bow down to everyone who picks dominant from a drop down menu?
They don't and they shouldn't.

Until someone agrees to accept you as their dominant, you're just another pixel on a screen. When you demand that everyone treats you as though you're their dominant, you make yourself into someone laughable.



dreamlady -> RE: submissive wanna be frustration (2/26/2016 9:41:46 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MsMajique
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Why does a submissive wanna be revert to dominant/negative behavior when writing
when they don't get their way and are unable to direct a conversation 'their way'
as opposed to submitting to the Domina like a good submissive?
(And then they block disabling a response!)

Everybody has their own concept of what a "good" submissive is.

For me, it's not kissing every Dominant's arse he or she encounters, through whatever medium. That isn't a sub you're dealing with, it's a fantasist wanker and/or fetishist who doesn't know the first thing about being loyal and devoted to his Mistress (which you aren't, as DesFIP pointed out in so many words, until you both agree upon entering into a D/s ownership dynamic).

I don't want a sub who will let any Domme pull rank on him. Perhaps to you it doesn't matter whether you get offered submission indiscriminately. It does matter a whole hell of a lot to me; otherwise, that sub's submission means nothing.

Even stray cats are finicky about who they will allow to take ownership of them. [:)]

DreamLady



BlueRoses1111 -> RE: submissive wanna be frustration (3/5/2016 11:56:25 PM)

There's also the fact that not all subs are actual subs but Dtypes or fetishists that may view a scene in femdom porn and think " ohh that's me". In many cases that act doesn't make them any more submissive than a Domina that may enjoy penetration.








seekingOwnertoo -> RE: submissive wanna be frustration (3/6/2016 12:20:41 PM)

I don't get it, either.

For a male, on any side of the kneel, it is VERY SMART to agree to or submit to; a Ladies desires.

Myself, i don't do what You describe, so for me it is hard to relate to Your question.

I guess the right answer is ... they are NOT your type.

Just one of the many voyeurs here on CS ....





angelikaJ -> RE: submissive wanna be frustration (3/6/2016 12:23:21 PM)

Perhaps they are a fetish driven bottom and are not actually submissive in nature or desire?



betataster -> RE: submissive wanna be frustration (3/8/2016 4:19:29 PM)

I think some of the responses here are a bit hard on the OP. One read of her post is simply that the submissive wanted to lead the conversation somewhere that she did not want to take it, a laundry list of fetishes might be one direction a (stupid) sub might want to take a conversation with a prospective Domina. "So will you use a strap-on on me or won't you" like a kid in the backseat of a car repeatedly yelling "are we there yet?" Instead of letting the Domina lead the conversation like a good submissive (laugh). Hey listen, if I've got a back and forth going with a Domina and she's leading the conversation then it's "you go, girl!" (though only in my mind) but then I guess I'm a good submissive.



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