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femaleserver -> How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/19/2006 6:25:01 PM)
What are the benefits does the Mistress/Wife obtain from male chastity?

SaphireLynn -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/19/2006 6:29:49 PM)
the benefit is he is a better slave when you take away the orgasms he will do anything to gain the priveledge to have one...

femaleserver -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/19/2006 6:44:29 PM)
Ma'am what is the list of benefits that a Women would have if Her husband was placed in chastity?

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/19/2006 6:44:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: femaleserver What are the benefits does the Mistress/Wife obtain from male chastity? I get none, and for that reason, it's one of my near hard limits; if he must have it, he isn't for me. M

crouchingtigress -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/19/2006 6:51:42 PM)
really just a power rush....nothing erotic....its enjoyable to me to have him focused and attentive, its enjoyable to be to know i have power and his trust but that about it for me.

femaleserver -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/19/2006 6:52:53 PM)
the power to get him to .....

MsKatHouston -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/19/2006 7:18:27 PM)
it's fun

littlesarbonn -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/19/2006 7:39:58 PM)
It can also be an alternative sadistic impulse on her part. If she takes pleasure in his constant frustration and goes even further to tease him to the very edge and not allow him the release, it can be quite cruel. In the past, I've had it actually used as a punishment, and after some time, it really starts to get beyond frustration. But I've never asked for it. Well, not intentionally.

cacodylic -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/19/2006 9:09:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SaphireLynn the benefit is he is a better slave when you take away the orgasms he will do anything to gain the priveledge to have one... Including finding someone else to serve and/or play with...

Wickad -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/19/2006 11:42:59 PM)
The benifits are that he serves and isn't distracted by looking for his next orgasm. As for what a slave has to do with a husband/partner is beyond me. Wickad

MisPandora -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/20/2006 1:34:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: femaleserver What are the benefits does the Mistress/Wife obtain from male chastity? Most men are far more attentive, have more energy and tend to be more focused when they're not draining their hoses constantly.

LadyElaine -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/20/2006 4:16:23 AM)
"It can also be an alternative sadistic impulse on her part. If she takes pleasure in his constant frustration and goes even further to tease him to the very edge and not allow him the release, it can be quite cruel. " Yeah, Yeah, Yeah! More fun to tease

planomaid -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/20/2006 5:14:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MisPandora quote: ORIGINAL: femaleserver What are the benefits does the Mistress/Wife obtain from male chastity? Most men are far more attentive, have more energy and tend to be more focused when they're not draining their hoses constantly. I can't speak for most men, but for me it is actually more of a distraction, after a period of time. Chastity works well for the first few days, as it is a constant reminder to me of the power exchange. And an increased sexual desire leads to an increase in a desire to submit... BUT, after a certain point it becomes quite distracting and my focus becomes less on serving and more on trying to satisfy the base desire and get back to a point where i can concentrate better on serving her. Enforced chastity, orgasm denial and sexual restrictions are usually not imposed upon female submissive, so this issue may be almost exclusively a male submissive area. I know (giggle) that this is not necesarily the appropriate forum to ask about enforced female chastity, but what do women think about it being imposed upon them? Do they find that prolonged arousal and chastity to be an effective tool that affects their desire to serve? Obviously a dominant woman is probably > not < going to deny herself pleasure, but perhaps you have talked to friends who have had this done to them?

MisPandora -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/20/2006 6:24:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: planomaid Enforced chastity, orgasm denial and sexual restrictions are usually not imposed upon female submissive, so this issue may be almost exclusively a male submissive area. You are incorrect in that assumption. Many dominants choose to sexually restrict (could be under or overuse), deny orgasms, regulate when/where/why/how a female slave can get off and if they are not in a direct sexual relationship with them, often do enforce some sort of masturbatory and sexual regulations.

LaTigresse -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/20/2006 8:31:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cacodylic quote: ORIGINAL: SaphireLynn the benefit is he is a better slave when you take away the orgasms he will do anything to gain the priveledge to have one... Including finding someone else to serve and/or play with... This made me smile since I keep hearing about the amazing difference in the Domme/male sub/slave ratio. I am thinking......"good luck dude!" From all the whining on the male sub/slave side I read I think that most guys would stick it out thru the chastity in hopes there will be a light at the end of the tunnel. Most of these guys haven't even found the ahhhhhh "tunnel" yet.[;)]

RavenMuse -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/20/2006 9:57:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MisPandora You are incorrect in that assumption. Many dominants choose to sexually restrict (could be under or overuse), deny orgasms, regulate when/where/why/how a female slave can get off and if they are not in a direct sexual relationship with them, often do enforce some sort of masturbatory and sexual regulations. Case in point right here! And I for sure know I'm not the only one, in fact from discussions I have with other Doms it is the majority..... unless its simply the like minded folks I happen to talk to. [:)]

yourMissTress -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/20/2006 10:36:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: femaleserver What are the benefits does the Mistress/Wife obtain from male chastity? Whatever She wants. It's certainly a sadistic and fun game to play. I like to see how far I can take a man. What limits can I strip from him? What will he offer up? How depraved and twisted can I force him to be? How long can he stand it? Of course the effectiveness is different for every man, but for the most part being on a 14-21 day release schedule with some variation for rewards or mood fluctuations have always worked wonders.

MdmSarah -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/20/2006 11:12:19 AM)
quote: What are the benefits does the Mistress/Wife obtain from male chastity? For me, it's a control thing. My subs give up their personal control to me, including the luxury of being able to come whenever they want to. Denial keeps them mindful of their place, and of their obedience. Knowning that orgasm is a possible reward encourages them to good behavior.

pinksissyPA -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/20/2006 11:36:48 AM)
i have to admit that for a day or even 2 it is exquisite torture to be put in chastity by a Domme who holds the key. Particularly if She uses me to please Her orally while i am denied. However after second day it just becomes tremendously frustrating. Also if i belong to a Domme, i am unable to cum without Her permission so it is rather redundant. respectfully, sissy

planomaid -> RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity (7/20/2006 3:03:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MisPandora quote: ORIGINAL: planomaid Enforced chastity, orgasm denial and sexual restrictions are usually not imposed upon female submissive, so this issue may be almost exclusively a male submissive area. You are incorrect in that assumption. Many dominants choose to sexually restrict (could be under or overuse), deny orgasms, regulate when/where/why/how a female slave can get off and if they are not in a direct sexual relationship with them, often do enforce some sort of masturbatory and sexual regulations. Perhaps you are correct MisPandora. Not being a person with female subs/slaves I based my statement on the types of ads (and talking with others in the local scene) put forth by male dominants (and female subs). On the surface it appears that sexual abstinence is practiced on male submissives, while the reverse is for females. From what I have seen/heard, females are wanted for sex at a far higher rate/percentage than men. As to the chastity part in general, I love the look of chastity belts on women. They are much more, ah, 'streamlined' than they are on men! :) I've also heard that chastity is less effective on women since they have the ability to have an orgasm with less physical stimulation than men. Though I do not know how much of that is urban legend.

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