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LadyPact -> A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/9/2016 3:16:26 PM)

I came to the conclusion just a bit ago I was going to go ahead and start this thread. I want to open a topic about something that I found really neat.

No, it's not "new". I've talked to a few people about it prior.

To put it bluntly, I got the coolest request that I think I've ever had in kink. I was asked to help one of my play partners celebrate his five year sobriety anniversary in wax. What he would like to have is the AA symbol, a triangle inside of a circle, with the Roman numeral five (V) inside. He would also like the date carved in regular numbers. Anything after that, is up me.

Have I mentioned this is the coolest request ever???? This isn't like Christmas or somebody's birthday. This is something that a person wants because they have earned it. They struggled for it. I could do this design in my sleep.

The guy who asked me? We've played several times. Nicest guy in the world. He's offered to pay for the wax, my time, my entry fee... I told him none of that was necessary. I was pretty amazed, just to be asked.

So, what discussion can come from this?



LilJuly76 -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/9/2016 3:32:20 PM)

you know what would be cool get 10 naked submissives and after the request have him lie in the center while they join hands around him and sing a song



LadyPact -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/9/2016 3:36:23 PM)

While I don't think they'll be naked, that kind of thing will happen at his medallion ceremony.



LadyPact -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/9/2016 3:41:09 PM)

Post Script.

I kind of need a judge's ruling on this one. Start an actual BDSM related thread, and within ten replies, that would happen.

I'll be having Lo Mein, thank you.



LilJuly76 -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/9/2016 3:53:25 PM)

oh crap now I have to make Lo Mein? eh just a thought



LadyPact -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/9/2016 3:57:49 PM)

Nah. He's ordering it but thank you for your contribution. [:D]



LilJuly76 -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/9/2016 4:08:00 PM)

oh that's good I don't know how to make it, I would fail miserably



LadyPact -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/9/2016 4:14:55 PM)

Quite easy, really.

Place bet. Wager. Who will call the Chinese restaurant?

(I hate calling the restaurant. I don't hear well, so accents tend to mess me up.)

Establish terms.

"I will create a thread about an upcoming scene that's already been discussed. Within ten replies, someone will come along to diminish anything related to bondage, discipline, sadism, or masochism."

You were so prompt! So much less time than I could have ever hoped for!!!



DesFIP -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/9/2016 4:23:42 PM)

Somebody should be asked to bake or buy a cake also. Good for celebrations and aftercare.

I will say that I found this an odd request. Especially if on his back where he can't see it. Unless you've got other people in recovery in the group. I doubt he's inviting his sponsor to watch.



BitaTruble -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/9/2016 4:24:02 PM)

... didn't realize the purpose of the thread.



LilJuly76 -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/9/2016 4:25:36 PM)

I pride myself on promptness

it's the slaves duty oh wait submissive's duty to call the restaurant

and now I pride myself on bedness

getting offline and just chilin before I pass out literally.

remember the submissive should do the dialing while the Dominants feet should be soaking in a bubbly bath with champagne. Oh yes one more thing I happen to love bondage, sadism if it's a good sadist and I'm a supreme masochist, discipline I could do without



Wayward5oul -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/9/2016 4:31:17 PM)

I'm a little disappointed now. I thought the idea was cool as fuck and was looking forward to people sharing similar ideas.




LadyPact -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/9/2016 4:34:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
Somebody should be asked to bake or buy a cake also. Good for celebrations and aftercare.

I will say that I found this an odd request. Especially if on his back where he can't see it. Unless you've got other people in recovery in the group. I doubt he's inviting his sponsor to watch.

Clubs here pretty much have staff photographers. Different than what I've done for some of the prepped piece wax shots.

A cake would also be an awesome idea. Something sweet for afterwards? We just did a cake a little while ago for a birthday, so I'm sure that would be ok.

The funny thing? I didn't find it odd at all. I know that you know folks in recovery. Kinky people in recovery. How hard it used to be?

Can you imagine? The struggle every day?

That's why I want to do it.




LadyPact -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/9/2016 4:48:23 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul
I'm a little disappointed now. I thought the idea was cool as fuck and was looking forward to people sharing similar ideas.

There *must* be similar ideas out there. It's certainly not the first.

The whole thing was "cool as fuck." And, you want me to do it? Me?

How could I *not* want to do it?




Wayward5oul -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/9/2016 5:04:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul
I'm a little disappointed now. I thought the idea was cool as fuck and was looking forward to people sharing similar ideas.

There *must* be similar ideas out there. It's certainly not the first.

The whole thing was "cool as fuck." And, you want me to do it? Me?

How could I *not* want to do it?



I would lise all faith in you as a rational human being were you to say no.



LadyPact -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/9/2016 5:21:50 PM)

There *could* be reasons why I couldn't.

I started work on the prepped piece yesterday. [:)]



LilJuly76 -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/10/2016 3:27:09 AM)

what about a speech to go with the cake?



LadyPact -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/10/2016 7:19:02 AM)

I don't know how other people would feel about that but unless it was out of the play area, I'm not sure how cool I'd really be with that. Public play space, don't intrude when other people are playing, too. You know the drill.


Sorry for the edit. Skipped a word.



LilJuly76 -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/10/2016 3:27:11 PM)

true, I used to be part of workshops where unfortunately speaking was part of it in public settings of course.

I'm out of ideas.



LadyPact -> RE: A Thread not for a Thread's Sake (3/10/2016 3:44:07 PM)

I might have given a wrong impression. It's not an AA meeting. It's a wax scene that the person hitting their five year sobriety date had asked if I would do.

(This part not directed at you, but it came up during convos with other people about this.)

I think some of us have gotten so used to more access, some better acceptance, etc, that we forget it wasn't always like this. Submissive males who are my age and have felt so 'different' all of their lives didn't always cope well. (Same thing as what many folks in the LGBT community say.) Our community of endorphin junkies has our share of other addictions as well, because we're not immune. To me, anybody putting that much sobriety time? That's an accomplishment.



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