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Introducing slave to chastity - 3/10/2016 11:33:02 AM   
slaveownedbyu


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Status: offline 		I am a natural submissive, slave, that is really fascinated with chastity belt. Having a domme Control my slave dick and sexual Life. But my question is, how do you
as a mistress introduce this to a slave that doesn´t have any experience of this before? Is it a long period of training or do you just put it on?

If i can find a experienced and skilled mistress i would most probably end up with a chastity belt. I really want serve a domme.
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RE: Introducing slave to chastity - 3/14/2016 8:35:51 PM   
tiggerspoohbear


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Status: offline 		Well, I'm not a female Dom, take this for what it's worth.

If you REALLY want to serve a Dom, then do as she says. No, you don't get your fantasies fulfilled, unless she so desires. That's the whole thing about being submissive, you do as told or requested. Sure, you get to negotiate with said Dom before you enter a relationship.

Just remember, Dominant or not, they're still WOMEN first. Approach them as such. Leading with your kink/dick will get you nowhere fast!

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RE: Introducing slave to chastity - 3/16/2016 2:03:08 PM   
judyjudy


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Status: offline 		hello
chaste /?

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RE: Introducing slave to chastity - 3/16/2016 7:43:42 PM   
Succi


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Status: offline 		To me, at least, chastity isn't always called for, but I generally regard it as a tool to have.

As to how I go about introducing it, usually that is the form of a compromise. In different parlance, "taking it to the next level". A submissive wants more of my attention? Fine. But that generally requires me to get more out of it. Like normal people simply want to move in together if they want to date exclusively, or couples that combine their bank accounts. It's a step, and one I wouldn't want a sub to rush into, like any other.

As to the "training", I basically introduce it as a game, rarely going more than three days without pulling it off, like it isn't even on. Then those periods get longer, then the restrictions to what constitutes a "reasonable" unlock get rarer, more infrequent, and more controlling, until it's at a spot I enjoy, but that will vary from person to person based on what I want, how much they push back, and all that.

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RE: Introducing slave to chastity - 3/24/2016 8:11:34 PM   
DeliciousAche


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You've posted twice on the same topic and essentially used the same wording.

Might I suggest focusing on a relationship first and building up the essential building blocks before going to any specialized play?
Let HER take charge.

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RE: Introducing slave to chastity - 4/11/2016 5:52:39 PM   
MsCrimsonNYC


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Status: offline 		The desire of the sub has to be there for chastity to work, in each case there are different forms of chastity. It's not just a cb6000 thing.
This is what I experience in the years in the scene. There can be chastity even without wearing it or just a simple red string )
A Dom can be very creative on this I find in this scene

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RE: Introducing slave to chastity - 4/12/2016 5:09:47 PM   
nodick30


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Status: offline 		Well as a submissive with a chastity belt myself (Although I am not owned but every save should be locked, I will not remove it unless I am told to) all I can say is put it on and leave it on for a few hours see how he get used to it. Then take it off, talk to him and set out the rules. You are the dominant so he has to follow your rules. Now if Chastity is a limit I guess you could use it as a punishment? I hope it helped.

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RE: Introducing slave to chastity - 4/12/2016 7:00:30 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: nodick30

Well as a submissive with a chastity belt myself (Although I am not owned but every save should be locked
How nice that you think you get to determine how everyone's relationship should function.

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Now if Chastity is a limit I guess you could use it as a punishment?
If it's a limit, it shouldn't be used...EVER.


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RE: Introducing slave to chastity - 4/12/2016 10:28:22 PM   
ThatDizzyChick


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Now if Chastity is a limit I guess you could use it as a punishment?

I think maybe you need to look up the word "limit"

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RE: Introducing slave to chastity - 4/14/2016 7:49:03 AM   
WordsmithDomme


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Status: offline 		I love keyholding and if you read my last journal it is all about my sub bemoaning that I only allow 6 cums in a year. Naturally they are all ruined. Nothing is so pleasurable as desperation. But I will acknowledge that different subs bring different chastity desires - some i prefer to deny but edge continually, other just long term.

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RE: Introducing slave to chastity - 4/18/2016 1:32:50 PM   
SimranTemptress


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Status: offline 		Gentle approach works best.

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