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LadyPact -> RE: I just can't get it to happen. (3/14/2016 9:58:32 AM)
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I'm not trying to be mean here, but are those ooppps posts you from the wrong account? Nobody is going to take you seriously if you are a submissive male who is shady enough to post from multiple profiles. That aside, on to the rest.
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ORIGINAL: Worship001
4years
I'm wondering why you aren't looking at alternative methods. Have you tried any munches or events?
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0 you have no idea how badly I want to sip on a coffee and talk with a Domme.
Do they have any coffees or meet and greets in your area or does this only work for you if it's a one on one meet?
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Now that I think about it, the two Dommes that lasted the longest sought me out. I think the others I introduced myself in an email.
And yet, none of these went to real time, correct?
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Made me go to the store, buy lipstick and pantyhose, then at home wrote on a mirror *****'s new slut, took pictures of myself wearing the lipstick and pantie hose in the mirror. Filmed my self peeing out doors. Filmed my self masturbating out doors. Slapping my balls with a ruler, harder and harder till she was satisfied.
We shared fantasies and ideas, I am sure I always let them know I like to be manipulated and humiliated beyond my own levels of comfort. It was always for her, I believe.
Well, part of it was for "her". If it were me, I'd be wondering where else those photos and films ended up. These are exactly the kinds of 'bait' that some folks use to lure in others.
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Yes, but at the same time I do enjoy it. I felt my greatest asset was being there for Her, willing to do anything for her. Talking for hours, sharing what she was going through.
If you were enjoying it at the time, I have difficulty with your "being used" viewpoint.
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Not really. Cause I felt like we really connected and it hurt. I just wonder how she felt. If she liked it.
Why? If she could drop you like a habit, that's not a sign that she felt the same. It's not uncommon for one person to feel more connected than the other one. She moved on, right?
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It seemed like I was a stepping stone. One woman then became a prodomme, I still say hello every once in a while, she vents frustrations about her business.
OK. She remained friends. However, if she just vents about business, I wouldn't think it's more than that.
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I put a lot of myself into it, then left with nothing and having to start over with a new woman, or try.
Your profile says you are thirty-five and answers said interested in Dominant women for four years. This means you should have prior relationship and break-up experience. Every break up means that you started over, no matter how much or how little you (or the other person) were emotionally invested.
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When the truth is, I have to become better on my own and being with a woman is more of a prize.
That's the ticket. It's not about the stuff that you were going for in the original. There's a difference between a person who needs a relationship, instead of wanting one. The well rounded person who wants a relationship, rather than feeling dependent on one, is always the more attractive.
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