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AtUrCervix -> Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/15/2016 3:15:45 PM)

(Deleted....somehow made a double post).




AtUrCervix -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/15/2016 3:18:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix

It's not necessarily (always) what you think.

(Well, maybe for the bulk it is....but not for all sub males).

Some of us are in (sorry for the obvious/parodied/presumed/status quo..."this is the typical sub male" story line) crazy....authoritative positions in life.

Some of us, really....truly....desire someone to help us see things clearly....define things....clarify things....some of us really are in positions of power, some of us really do change the world, daily) and, some of us....even if you tether us....will simply avoid your tether and....in fact....change the world...even if you don't want us to because.....that's what we do....and....some of us you can't tether but, you can offer solace.

Understandably....finding someone who can release those "troubles"....ain't easy, to say the least.

Men are a bit odd.

Not all of us just want to be spanked, forced to sit at your knees....(although every bit of that is fab)...but....

Every bit of it helps (some of) us think....more clearly. Produce more. And yes, some will never share it once they get it....others would rather lay it all at your feet (largely because they....also....uniquely....understand..."they print more of that shit every day so....here's what I did today.....take it....I'll get more tomorrow" (And no....for all you FinDommes....that wasn't your cue....or an invitation).

Tough part (for both sides) is....finding that person.

Yeah...you have tits (and all that other wonderful shit)....which of course, makes us do stooopit shit....like....whatever you say....but....what you may lose in the (clearly inundated) conversation is...

You (can) give us clarity.

No one else can.

Some of us actually need you to be in charge (not want) and....we revel in the opportunity to treat you like angels, gifts from God.....and yet...if we say we're sub males, we're all tossed in to a bucket of...."yeah...you're just one of those".

Some of us are NOT here to use you....but to be controlled, manipulated (lovingly....uniquely) so that....when we go to work, every endorphin has already been released and we can go out, every next day, up, refreshed, and slay dragons (for you), kill beasts twice the size of any house we ever owned or built (for you). By the way....those of us who can slay dragons, don't need to to pay the bills and still have a very nice, financially, satisfying life. We choose to do all the above....to give)

Some of us actually enjoy giving.

It makes US full....complete. Capable.

Not carrying burdens. Which you, uniquely, can eviscerate/obliterate/make entirely disappear.

You might even believe "well...I'm just a purveyor to satisfy HIS kink".

Maybe it's true for most.....it's not necessarily for all.

Probably is true (for most)....most men probably do want you to be nothing more than their kink provider...and then you get nothing back in return.

It's not, however, always true.

Just making sure that some level of truth about male subs is at least available for discussion.

You're (if you truly understand this guy) like racing fuel for a fast car.

Unleaded just ain't enough but....with the right ingredients....your man can win the Daytona 500....without even grabbing the steering wheel because YOU gave him those special skills....YOU were singularly responsible for his win.....solely because you understood his ("unusual") needs....with no prejudice or assumptions and....

THAT guy....with the RIGHT woman.....will lay the world at your feet....and you know what's crazy?

(He wants to).

(Sorry....needed to get that out of my system....I'm good now).






LadyMasterNY -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/15/2016 5:31:51 PM)

Huh?




BitaTruble -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/15/2016 6:12:57 PM)

Awesome write, dude. [sm=yourock.gif]




UllrsIshtar -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/15/2016 9:45:47 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix

It's not necessarily (always) what you think.

(Well, maybe for the bulk it is....but not for all sub males).

Some of us are in (sorry for the obvious/parodied/presumed/status quo..."this is the typical sub male" story line) crazy....authoritative positions in life.

Some of us, really....truly....desire someone to help us see things clearly....define things....clarify things....some of us really are in positions of power, some of us really do change the world, daily) and, some of us....even if you tether us....will simply avoid your tether and....in fact....change the world...even if you don't want us to because.....that's what we do....and....some of us you can't tether but, you can offer solace.

Understandably....finding someone who can release those "troubles"....ain't easy, to say the least.

Men are a bit odd.

Not all of us just want to be spanked, forced to sit at your knees....(although every bit of that is fab)...but....

Every bit of it helps (some of) us think....more clearly. Produce more. And yes, some will never share it once they get it....others would rather lay it all at your feet (largely because they....also....uniquely....understand..."they print more of that shit every day so....here's what I did today.....take it....I'll get more tomorrow" (And no....for all you FinDommes....that wasn't your cue....or an invitation).

Tough part (for both sides) is....finding that person.

Yeah...you have tits (and all that other wonderful shit)....which of course, makes us do stooopit shit....like....whatever you say....but....what you may lose in the (clearly inundated) conversation is...

You (can) give us clarity.

No one else can.

Some of us actually need you to be in charge (not want) and....we revel in the opportunity to treat you like angels, gifts from God.....and yet...if we say we're sub males, we're all tossed in to a bucket of...."yeah...you're just one of those".

Some of us are NOT here to use you....but to be controlled, manipulated (lovingly....uniquely) so that....when we go to work, every endorphin has already been released and we can go out, every next day, up, refreshed, and slay dragons (for you), kill beasts twice the size of any house we ever owned or built (for you). By the way....those of us who can slay dragons, don't need to to pay the bills and still have a very nice, financially, satisfying life. We choose to do all the above....to give)

Some of us actually enjoy giving.

It makes US full....complete. Capable.

Not carrying burdens. Which you, uniquely, can eviscerate/obliterate/make entirely disappear.

You might even believe "well...I'm just a purveyor to satisfy HIS kink".

Maybe it's true for most.....it's not necessarily for all.

Probably is true (for most)....most men probably do want you to be nothing more than their kink provider...and then you get nothing back in return.

It's not, however, always true.

Just making sure that some level of truth about male subs is at least available for discussion.

You're (if you truly understand this guy) like racing fuel for a fast car.

Unleaded just ain't enough but....with the right ingredients....your man can win the Daytona 500....without even grabbing the steering wheel because YOU gave him those special skills....YOU were singularly responsible for his win.....solely because you understood his ("unusual") needs....with no prejudice or assumptions and....

THAT guy....with the RIGHT woman.....will lay the world at your feet....and you know what's crazy?

(He wants to).

(Sorry....needed to get that out of my system....I'm good now).



And yet, with the screen name you've chosen for yourself, almost every woman out there will immediately assume that you're not the type of guy you just described.

The first impression you've making is that you're self-centered, only obsessed with you own kink, and see women as nothing more than a fetish delivery devices whose existence should revolve around serving your kinks.

If that's not how you want to come across, I highly recommend you change your name.




LadyMasterNY -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/16/2016 9:25:13 AM)

It also appears that you are looking for a woman to be the wind beneath your wings.



Fuck that.




dreamlady -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/16/2016 9:52:29 AM)

Oh, I think it's a cute play on words. (I liked your former screen name, too, but I know you've been wanting to get this one back and finally did.)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix
. . .
Some of us actually need you to be in charge (not want) and....we revel in the opportunity to treat you like angels, gifts from God.....and yet...if we say we're sub males, we're all tossed in to a bucket of...."yeah...you're just one of those".

Some of us are NOT here to use you....but to be controlled, manipulated (lovingly....uniquely) so that....when we go to work, every endorphin has already been released and we can go out, every next day, up, refreshed, and slay dragons (for you), kill beasts twice the size of any house we ever owned or built (for you). By the way....those of us who can slay dragons, don't need to to pay the bills and still have a very nice, financially, satisfying life. We choose to do all the above....to give)

Some of us actually enjoy giving.

It makes US full....complete. Capable.
<snip>
Just making sure that some level of truth about male subs is at least available for discussion.

You're (if you truly understand this guy) like racing fuel for a fast car.

Unleaded just ain't enough but....with the right ingredients....your man can win the Daytona 500....without even grabbing the steering wheel because YOU gave him those special skills....YOU were singularly responsible for his win.....solely because you understood his ("unusual") needs....with no prejudice or assumptions and....

THAT guy....with the RIGHT woman.....will lay the world at your feet....and you know what's crazy?

(He wants to).

You are expressing your feelings from a sub male's perspective, but a man doesn't have to be submissive to be romantic, or to be inspired by a woman, and to know how to cherish the woman he loves.

The difference between a man who feels worthy of receiving the rewards and benefits of an intimate relationship, who is therefore spurred forth to pour himself out into the world, is the difference between ALL men, one from the other. Those who don't put the cart before the horse are the ones who will distinguish themselves in life, and therefore in their lifelong relationships.

The cream of the crop always rises to the top.

And yes, we can all use a soft place to land and to have our love tanks refueled on a regular basis.

Dommes need this as much as any other woman does. We're only human, after all -- not superhuman, not deified goddesses, not some alien species, not a FemDom cardboard cutout lacking in dimensionality.

Treat us like the ladies we want and deserve to be treated as, according to the standards we have set for ourselves, and we can offer the world to those who deserve and who have earned their rightful place in our worlds. [;)]


DreamLady




AtUrCervix -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/16/2016 5:30:23 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

Awesome write, dude. [sm=yourock.gif]


(Someone "got it")




AtUrCervix -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/16/2016 5:32:35 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

quote:

ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix

It's not necessarily (always) what you think.

(Well, maybe for the bulk it is....but not for all sub males).

Some of us are in (sorry for the obvious/parodied/presumed/status quo..."this is the typical sub male" story line) crazy....authoritative positions in life.

Some of us, really....truly....desire someone to help us see things clearly....define things....clarify things....some of us really are in positions of power, some of us really do change the world, daily) and, some of us....even if you tether us....will simply avoid your tether and....in fact....change the world...even if you don't want us to because.....that's what we do....and....some of us you can't tether but, you can offer solace.

Understandably....finding someone who can release those "troubles"....ain't easy, to say the least.

Men are a bit odd.

Not all of us just want to be spanked, forced to sit at your knees....(although every bit of that is fab)...but....

Every bit of it helps (some of) us think....more clearly. Produce more. And yes, some will never share it once they get it....others would rather lay it all at your feet (largely because they....also....uniquely....understand..."they print more of that shit every day so....here's what I did today.....take it....I'll get more tomorrow" (And no....for all you FinDommes....that wasn't your cue....or an invitation).

Tough part (for both sides) is....finding that person.

Yeah...you have tits (and all that other wonderful shit)....which of course, makes us do stooopit shit....like....whatever you say....but....what you may lose in the (clearly inundated) conversation is...

You (can) give us clarity.

No one else can.

Some of us actually need you to be in charge (not want) and....we revel in the opportunity to treat you like angels, gifts from God.....and yet...if we say we're sub males, we're all tossed in to a bucket of...."yeah...you're just one of those".

Some of us are NOT here to use you....but to be controlled, manipulated (lovingly....uniquely) so that....when we go to work, every endorphin has already been released and we can go out, every next day, up, refreshed, and slay dragons (for you), kill beasts twice the size of any house we ever owned or built (for you). By the way....those of us who can slay dragons, don't need to to pay the bills and still have a very nice, financially, satisfying life. We choose to do all the above....to give)

Some of us actually enjoy giving.

It makes US full....complete. Capable.

Not carrying burdens. Which you, uniquely, can eviscerate/obliterate/make entirely disappear.

You might even believe "well...I'm just a purveyor to satisfy HIS kink".

Maybe it's true for most.....it's not necessarily for all.

Probably is true (for most)....most men probably do want you to be nothing more than their kink provider...and then you get nothing back in return.

It's not, however, always true.

Just making sure that some level of truth about male subs is at least available for discussion.

You're (if you truly understand this guy) like racing fuel for a fast car.

Unleaded just ain't enough but....with the right ingredients....your man can win the Daytona 500....without even grabbing the steering wheel because YOU gave him those special skills....YOU were singularly responsible for his win.....solely because you understood his ("unusual") needs....with no prejudice or assumptions and....

THAT guy....with the RIGHT woman.....will lay the world at your feet....and you know what's crazy?

(He wants to).

(Sorry....needed to get that out of my system....I'm good now).



And yet, with the screen name you've chosen for yourself, almost every woman out there will immediately assume that you're not the type of guy you just described.

The first impression you've making is that you're self-centered, only obsessed with you own kink, and see women as nothing more than a fetish delivery devices whose existence should revolve around serving your kinks.

If that's not how you want to come across, I highly recommend you change your name.



Yeah well....that ain't gonna happen.

I is what I is.






AtUrCervix -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/16/2016 5:34:01 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamlady

Oh, I think it's a cute play on words. (I liked your former screen name, too, but I know you've been wanting to get this one back and finally did.)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix
. . .
Some of us actually need you to be in charge (not want) and....we revel in the opportunity to treat you like angels, gifts from God.....and yet...if we say we're sub males, we're all tossed in to a bucket of...."yeah...you're just one of those".

Some of us are NOT here to use you....but to be controlled, manipulated (lovingly....uniquely) so that....when we go to work, every endorphin has already been released and we can go out, every next day, up, refreshed, and slay dragons (for you), kill beasts twice the size of any house we ever owned or built (for you). By the way....those of us who can slay dragons, don't need to to pay the bills and still have a very nice, financially, satisfying life. We choose to do all the above....to give)

Some of us actually enjoy giving.

It makes US full....complete. Capable.
<snip>
Just making sure that some level of truth about male subs is at least available for discussion.

You're (if you truly understand this guy) like racing fuel for a fast car.

Unleaded just ain't enough but....with the right ingredients....your man can win the Daytona 500....without even grabbing the steering wheel because YOU gave him those special skills....YOU were singularly responsible for his win.....solely because you understood his ("unusual") needs....with no prejudice or assumptions and....

THAT guy....with the RIGHT woman.....will lay the world at your feet....and you know what's crazy?

(He wants to).

You are expressing your feelings from a sub male's perspective, but a man doesn't have to be submissive to be romantic, or to be inspired by a woman, and to know how to cherish the woman he loves.

The difference between a man who feels worthy of receiving the rewards and benefits of an intimate relationship, who is therefore spurred forth to pour himself out into the world, is the difference between ALL men, one from the other. Those who don't put the cart before the horse are the ones who will distinguish themselves in life, and therefore in their lifelong relationships.

The cream of the crop always rises to the top.

And yes, we can all use a soft place to land and to have our love tanks refueled on a regular basis.

Dommes need this as much as any other woman does. We're only human, after all -- not superhuman, not deified goddesses, not some alien species, not a FemDom cardboard cutout lacking in dimensionality.

Treat us like the ladies we want and deserve to be treated as, according to the standards we have set for ourselves, and we can offer the world to those who deserve and who have earned their rightful place in our worlds. [;)]


DreamLady


Unbelievably well stated :)




AtUrCervix -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/16/2016 5:45:02 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyMasterNY

It also appears that you are looking for a woman to be the wind beneath your wings.

Fuck that.


That's a shame.

Nope.

Not at all.

Just someone to walk beside me.

(Pisses off some).





itsSIRtou -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/24/2016 9:18:32 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

quote:

ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix

It's not necessarily (always) what you think.

(Well, maybe for the bulk it is....but not for all sub males).

Some of us are in (sorry for the obvious/parodied/presumed/status quo..."this is the typical sub male" story line) crazy....authoritative positions in life.

Some of us, really....truly....desire someone to help us see things clearly....define things....clarify things....some of us really are in positions of power, some of us really do change the world, daily) and, some of us....even if you tether us....will simply avoid your tether and....in fact....change the world...even if you don't want us to because.....that's what we do....and....some of us you can't tether but, you can offer solace.

Understandably....finding someone who can release those "troubles"....ain't easy, to say the least.

Men are a bit odd.

Not all of us just want to be spanked, forced to sit at your knees....(although every bit of that is fab)...but....

Every bit of it helps (some of) us think....more clearly. Produce more. And yes, some will never share it once they get it....others would rather lay it all at your feet (largely because they....also....uniquely....understand..."they print more of that shit every day so....here's what I did today.....take it....I'll get more tomorrow" (And no....for all you FinDommes....that wasn't your cue....or an invitation).

Tough part (for both sides) is....finding that person.

Yeah...you have tits (and all that other wonderful shit)....which of course, makes us do stooopit shit....like....whatever you say....but....what you may lose in the (clearly inundated) conversation is...

You (can) give us clarity.

No one else can.

Some of us actually need you to be in charge (not want) and....we revel in the opportunity to treat you like angels, gifts from God.....and yet...if we say we're sub males, we're all tossed in to a bucket of...."yeah...you're just one of those".

Some of us are NOT here to use you....but to be controlled, manipulated (lovingly....uniquely) so that....when we go to work, every endorphin has already been released and we can go out, every next day, up, refreshed, and slay dragons (for you), kill beasts twice the size of any house we ever owned or built (for you). By the way....those of us who can slay dragons, don't need to to pay the bills and still have a very nice, financially, satisfying life. We choose to do all the above....to give)

Some of us actually enjoy giving.

It makes US full....complete. Capable.

Not carrying burdens. Which you, uniquely, can eviscerate/obliterate/make entirely disappear.

You might even believe "well...I'm just a purveyor to satisfy HIS kink".

Maybe it's true for most.....it's not necessarily for all.

Probably is true (for most)....most men probably do want you to be nothing more than their kink provider...and then you get nothing back in return.

It's not, however, always true.

Just making sure that some level of truth about male subs is at least available for discussion.

You're (if you truly understand this guy) like racing fuel for a fast car.

Unleaded just ain't enough but....with the right ingredients....your man can win the Daytona 500....without even grabbing the steering wheel because YOU gave him those special skills....YOU were singularly responsible for his win.....solely because you understood his ("unusual") needs....with no prejudice or assumptions and....

THAT guy....with the RIGHT woman.....will lay the world at your feet....and you know what's crazy?

(He wants to).

(Sorry....needed to get that out of my system....I'm good now).



And yet, with the screen name you've chosen for yourself, almost every woman out there will immediately assume that you're not the type of guy you just described.

The first impression you've making is that you're self-centered, only obsessed with you own kink, and see women as nothing more than a fetish delivery devices whose existence should revolve around serving your kinks.

If that's not how you want to come across, I highly recommend you change your name.




I don't understand why you feel he needs to change his screen name. As a dominant, the first time I saw his screen name, I assumed the following:

he is a submissive/slave male.

At least one of his fetishes is orally worshiping his Domme.



Whereas I know plenty of self-centered Dominants and Domme's, and Masters and Mistresses, (including the intent of my own screen name .) a self-centered submissive is not what I take away from just his screen name.

In fact I think it's quite creatively appropriate for a submissive to make a play on words, - cervix instead of service.




Spiritedsub2 -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/24/2016 9:30:16 AM)

And it also shows he has a sense of humor. If his screen name turns off the humorless dommes, that would be a good thing for him I think.




longwayhome -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/24/2016 10:20:39 AM)

I understand exactly what you are saying - not all men are complete arses.

Some of us (men that is) of course try very hard however to give everyone else the impression that men are indeed wrapped up and folded into their own arses.

This is one of the reasons why I don't use this site to look for a partner. There are way too many wankers, so you all too often end up being inadvertently tarred with the same brush or dealing with someone who is so jaded from all the tossers she has had to encounter on her way. Not that all women are paragons of wisdom and loveliness, but as a man I have rarely had to put up with some of the abuse they receive round here as a matter of course.

Pointing out that some men are considerate human beings is is useful as a counter-balance every so often, even if it is drowned out by the socks, women-haters and numpties much of the time.




IronicTautology -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/24/2016 11:18:12 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: teentie

GO AND SEE A SHRINK YOU MORON.


A bit harsh, don't you think?




crazyml -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/24/2016 1:55:31 PM)

Shush .let the adults talk




LadyPact -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/24/2016 7:18:42 PM)

<Fast reply.>

Sorry, but it's not a "sense of humor" thing. If I didn't know who this poster was, I'd be thinking "one trick pony". 'Cause, ya know, guys who are wiling to be "at the cervix" or dining at the Y are so hard to find.




princessmika -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/25/2016 12:49:26 AM)

I really enjoyed your write up ^_^ Oddly enough, I was thinking about almost the same thing lately. That is, not all subs want to be humiliated and want to be called names like stupid loser - even though this is usually the type of sub I deal with on a day-to-day basis and I enjoy humiliating immensely. I am trying to gather ideas of how to better interact and make content for a sub who does not like to be humiliated in such a way and I appreciated your description of your experience.





TheMissTrust -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/25/2016 8:36:17 PM)

Dont read anything else here. I find your name to be Finn and what you have expressed here is quite lovely. No matter what the give and take of the relationship, it is, indeed, relationship. A Domme worth her weight will lead. Some of us enjoy taking down a man who has power in the day time, coaxing him out stresses and showing him how to let go. You've a good head on your shoulders sub. I applaud you.




BitaTruble -> RE: Just so all you Domme chics know..... (3/25/2016 9:25:46 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

<Fast reply.>

Sorry, but it's not a "sense of humor" thing. If I didn't know who this poster was, I'd be thinking "one trick pony". 'Cause, ya know, guys who are wiling to be "at the cervix" or dining at the Y are so hard to find.


Any comment or perspective to offer on what was actually posted? I'm a little disappointed. The man wrote something of substance and has had to defend his own screen name?

Maybe it's because of my own mindset but I thought what he wrote was beautiful, modern, and extraordinarily expressive of something very vulnerable.

::shrug:: Just me 'tho yadda, yadda.






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