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First session with pro Domme - 3/15/2016 5:27:26 PM

dommelover1832

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Hello Mistresses,

I am writing to you today with great excitement in my heart. I shall be having my first session with a pro Domme tomorrow. Would love to hear your advice on how to make the most of my session. I am sure it will be a true awakening for myself. Naturally any advice for myself before tomorrow evening would be greatly appreciated. Any further advice beyond this point would also be take. Well as I cannot be the only sub who has waited too long to explore their true sub side.

All the best,
Adam

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RE: First session with pro Domme - 3/16/2016 4:47:12 AM

LadyConstanze

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Communicate pretty clear, especially your hard limits

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RE: First session with pro Domme - 3/16/2016 9:33:58 AM

WickedsDesire

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Dunno...

But as ladyconstatine said communication...which you have not done so in your thread.

eg what do you expect from your chosen pro domme, what do you want from her.

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RE: First session with pro Domme - 3/16/2016 7:14:38 PM

seekingOwnertoo

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Very simple, tell Her exactly what your fantasies are. That will take a bit of overcoming all of your own phobias about right and wrong. But the payoff is then She will know what to do with you!

A key point about ProDommes, and this is not intended to be disparaging, they want returning and regular business! They hate searching for new customers, too!

Another possible plus in being honest comes from my own experience.

A Pro Domme MIGHT like you and eventually want you to become Her personal ...

Yes, that is not a normal outcome; but it can happen; and did to me!

Yet that outcome never will, if you are not open with Her about your real fantasizes and desires from the start.

Wish you LOTS of luck ...

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