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MizSuz -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (5/3/2007 3:28:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: earthycouple

I have a friend who started me in it...I've not yet played really...but she says the BDSM community there is pretty big

D~


I haven't done any real networking in the BDSM communities in world yet.  I've been too busy with other things, although I've met a few people and have some dungeon equipment on my island.  Hopefully when the mall I'm building is done and going I can devote a little more time to the d/s communities there.

I signed up in January but my graphics card couldn't handle it.  I upgraded the card and have been in world ever since.  It's an incredible place.






MizSuz -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (5/3/2007 3:32:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Griswold

(Paragraphs...trust me on this).


Don't presume to give me grammar lessons, commaboy.





Donnalee -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (5/3/2007 4:28:37 PM)

Ooooohhhh!  I think I just smelled my next addiction.......this sounds like fun!




velvetears -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (5/3/2007 7:17:46 PM)

i can't wait to try it - let me know your nic there and when i finally get there i will "shop" at your mall :-)




Rafters -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (5/3/2007 9:10:27 PM)

I tried it for a few dozen hours, then shrugged and not touched it since.

It's illusion equal to Hollywood, where people also use computers to change sex, weight, height, skin colour, dance skills, ability to fly, dance, make love..
Like IRC you can use scripts to fake dancing, feign attentiveness and to cut and paste your orgasms during cyber sex with someone who is also cut and pasting their responses to you.
Your imagination becomes the fictional main character, which can interact with other peoples fictional characters, with no reality check

I like reality checks.
I still haven't finished wringing the most out of my 1st life adventure.
I haven't even Dom'd 1% of the 2Billion eligible women out there, and SL wants me to add virtual *cough* "women" to that todo list?

Things like subspace really only get communicated at point blank eyeball to eyeball range.
And people with the hand to eye coordination to click on their pet “I'm_in_subspace" script probably aren't really there.

In short, my defence is that life’s too short, and I'm too simple for two simultaneous lives.

I won't rule out another tourist sightseeing trip to it, since it costs nothing and looks pretty, but until it can wake me in the warming with a thankful hug while nibbling my ears, I'll keep my innovatively perverted mind on RL prizes. [:)]




Kalbar -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (5/3/2007 9:14:02 PM)

http://secondlla.googlepages.com/
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The Second Life Liberation Army (SLLA) was formed as the 'in-world' military wing of a national liberation movement within Second Life. The movement contends that political rights should be established within Second Life immediately. As Linden Labs is functioning as an authoritarian government the only appropriate response is to fight. The SLLA will conduct a political and military campaign to ensure its demands are met and avatar rights are established.
These are the people who recently went around 'bombing' people's avatars.  In some cases the avatars ended up being virtually mutilated by these 'attacks'.

Some people just take this shit wayyyyy too far and it's quite scary to think that anyone could get so hooked on virtual reality.Having said that it has, in the past, been a popular theme for movies where a character will get so engrossed in a virtual reality environment that they get sucked into it and stay there.  i.e. Tron, Lawnmowerman. 
It's never been a surprise just how fanatical people can get about games and virtual reality.




Rafters -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (5/3/2007 10:50:12 PM)

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These are the people who recently went around 'bombing' people's avatars.  In some cases the avatars ended up being virtually mutilated by these 'attacks'.


Or the infamous [according to google] "Flying penis attack"

Not to be confused with CM's "running, naked Dom, slipping on a banana peel" Karma Sutra position [:D]




kissez4usub -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (5/4/2007 1:04:02 AM)

I'm a new poster here ..
I just downloaded that game, n al i can say is ..  'wow'




BeachMystress -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (7/23/2007 5:58:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SirDominic

I agree with Kalbar. These online games, be it Everquest, The Sims or this one are all considered harmless fun. I couldn't disagree more. People really do devote every waking minute on these things. Their lives are not what they want, so instead of going out and bettering their life, they retreat into a fantasy one where they can play out what they want and never have to risk anything.

This is not living, it is pseudo-living. The more you are hooked on these games, the more you need to get away from them.

Namaste, Sir Dominic

And I couldn't disagree more with both of you. I personally spend between one and four hours a day on Second Life. And my life is exactly how I want it. I am blissfully married to my 24/7 collared sub in a TPE relationship. We go to two BDSM munches a month and socialize with the people from them and other friends in between (this weekend that meant having people over one day and bowling with 30 people from our munch the next, tomorrow it means movie night, Thursday it means dinner out with friends and next weekend it means kayaking and picnic.) We go to local Dungeons between one and three times a month. My husband and I do not spend time on the computer while he is home. Our together time is spent just that.. together and involved in each other. Perhaps it would be best if you didn't assume that everyone using programs such as this have inferior lives. I am totally hooked on Second Life. I love it. And I love every facet of my very full and complete life.




ExSteelAgain -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (7/23/2007 6:42:12 AM)

CM takes enough of my online "play time."




Tannie -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (7/23/2007 8:01:36 AM)

I've been on Second Life for about a year under the avatar name Tabu Laguna (in case anyone feels like tracking me down and saying hello).  It's good for random amusements, and I've been able to connect with a few BDSMers there.  The game can definitely be good as another chat venue, but you have to be careful just like in any other online environment.




GhitaAmati -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (7/23/2007 8:15:25 AM)

I play one online game, its called Astonia...its really not all that great graphically, but its something I started playing years ago when I had a really sucky computer and couldnt do anything better, I play maybe an hour or two total each week now, its something I do to relax when all my other work is done and I really enjoy the peope I have met over the years on it. I do know many of the people on that game and others who are there literally all day everyday...couldnt imagine that myself.  But for those of us who do use online gaming as an occasional recreation type thing, Im all for it...




LATEXBABY64 -> RE: On line virtual life and BDSM (7/23/2007 10:08:34 AM)

lets see first i hate computers. cause no one really uses them for what they are meant for. and second  i am rt person on line is kind of like sour milk it never gets better just more cheesy




MidMichCowboy -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (7/24/2007 7:38:34 AM)

I agree with SirDominic, I want the lady kneeling beside me, my hand in her hair. The feel of her ass as I spank or caress her. The smell of her as she looks up a me, the feel of her ncck as I rub it .... I NEED TO TOUCH, SMELL, TASTE, FEEL.
Without that ... just doesn't do it for me.
Michael




amaidiamond -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (7/24/2007 3:11:14 PM)

Hey there,

The BDSM community in SL is huge, Master and I both play - I am Diamond Carmona - feel free to look me up :D

SL works pretty well for us being in a LDR - it means I am a little more, with Him, when I am not physically with Him if that makes any sense whatsoever lol

dia




BeachMystress -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (7/24/2007 3:25:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: amaidiamond
SL works pretty well for us being in a LDR - it means I am a little more, with Him, when I am not physically with Him if that makes any sense whatsoever lol


  I know several real time long distance couples who use Second Life in the same way. One of the couples in my munch use it when the Dom travels on business (several times a month.)  It does seem to help with more of the loneliness than just phone calls. My munch-mate says it is because they are actually DOING something together. They used to play World of Warcraft together when he was gone, but Second Life fits in more with their enjoyment of BDSM.
 
I'm BeachMystress Aabye on SL, by the way.




SoquilisGirl -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (7/24/2007 5:05:55 PM)

Daddy and I are on SL - we are Grace and Dragon McConachie. He barely logs in anymore (he prefers actual games where you can win something), but I still use it nearly every day. I've made a handful of friends and met several people who are into BDSM - some in RL, some apparently only online.

I agree it's addictive - at least when you first start. Now I can go without it without *too* much angst!

Soquili's Girl




newtothis55 -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (7/24/2007 5:31:18 PM)

I am glad I joined sl before I hit collarme.com because it helped prepare me for some of the emails I have encountered here. Some have been great, just like the avies I met in sl and some have left me shaking my head in disbelief, just like sl. Just becasue it is virtual does not mean it has it owns merits. Yes it can be addictive, and expensive as Lindens cost real dollars. It also can be alot of fun. And I have second life to thank for exposing me to BDSM and D/s although there, its best to not be too seriously into it,because things and avies come and go. Some women avies are really men there too...guesstimates say about1 in ever 5 but who knows.




windchymes -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (7/24/2007 7:03:55 PM)

It sounds intriguing, but my instincts are saying "Run.  Run away fast." [:)]




Feliw -> RE: Online virtual life and BDSM (7/24/2007 9:52:11 PM)

When you are simply not lucky finding direct contact Dominants, you must try some online alternatives, but i have a so big bad luck cloud over my head, that i cant even find one online, i am actually thinking on giving up.




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