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FieryOpal -> RE: Women v. men (4/5/2016 3:53:39 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Awareness
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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
and since you are a Goddess and not a *real* mortal woman, don't expect me to woo you, court you, or date you like an ordinary man would have to do. I am a boytoy/pet/pathetic slavedog/sissy slut, not a *real* man."
Look if you're going to style yourself as a goddess, you'd better have all the accoutrements.
You don't read many sub male profiles, do you? I wouldn't expect that you do, being a straight Dom.
The ones braying on and on about, Where is my Goddess to serve? I am seeking a Superior Dominant woman to put me under her feet and keep me in abject slavery as her personal doormat, etc. etc., ad nauseam.
The topic is about the juxtaposition of female sub profiles and male sub profiles. It is not about dumbinant profiles of the Domme variety, which may or may not even be created by women, with the self-styled "Goddess" designation. In fact, I do not know a single relationship-oriented lifestyle Domme who goes around referring to herself as a "Goddess" in the Western hemisphere (Eastern hemisphere and in mainly Third World countries, every Mistress is called a Goddess and every sub calls himself/herself a slave).
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And what the fuck are you bitching about that a sub male doesn't LEAD? You want to be in charge, but you want him leading the - for want of a more appropriate term - 'romantic' interaction?
What's wrong with this picture?
How do I count the ways in which you have painted the wrong picture? You are mixing up a man (or woman) having a submissive disposition, with that of a passive one. They are not the same thing. A submissive, any submissive, needs to go after what s/he wants just as much as any Dominant does, in all areas of life. Submissive does not equate to being an underachiever.
Until such time that D/s interactions are established and mutually agreed upon, there is that little part about still being on a level-playing field.
The field of romantic courtship. You know, the one where the lady leads and her gentleman suitor picks up on her cues.
If you are not overly familiar with this, think back to yourself. Do you really believe you (as a man) have been the one who has made the choices, other than in winnowing down your selection of prospective ladies who have caught your interest?
It is the woman who chooses her partner.
No doubt, you may disagree with my assessment, but that doesn't matter to me. How you take or took the ball and ran with it, depends upon your individual characteristics and personality modality or typology. But, don't fool yourself for one minute that you were the one leading every dance step with the woman who "allowed" you to take the lead. You simply set the stage for her twirls and then pulled her back to you for her to make her next move.
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