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MuscleBoundDom -> Extreme Physical Play (4/16/2016 10:51:27 AM)
I'm interested in extreme physical play. Where physical force is used on the submissive. Does anyone know of any classes? I have weak wrists and if I smacked someone they would hurt. I want to take a class because I don't want to hurt myself. For example, if I wrestled her to the ground I'm sure I would sprain my back. Would you be so kind as to email me? I suspect all I'll get from this post are a lot of negative comments.

StrongSpirit -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/16/2016 12:04:57 PM)
You want to take akido classes. Co-ed wrestling or similar martial arts would also work, but Akido is the only one I know of that does it co-ed. In any major city in the US, you should be able to find an akido class, and most should be co-ed. They should be able to work with weak wrists or other physical limitations, the martial art was designed by older people. Just be sure to mention it to your instructor.

OsideGirl -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/16/2016 5:34:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom I'm interested in extreme physical play. Where physical force is used on the submissive. Does anyone know of any classes? I have weak wrists and if I smacked someone they would hurt. I want to take a class because I don't want to hurt myself. For example, if I wrestled her to the ground I'm sure I would sprain my back. Would you be so kind as to email me? I suspect all I'll get from this post are a lot of negative comments. You need to look into what is referred to as "take down" or "primal". Please keep in mind that while you don't want harm yourself - you don't want to harm your submissive either. And there's a difference between "hurt" and "harm". I'll also add: Take down play is something that requires knowing your partner very, very well.

PeonForHer -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/16/2016 6:07:50 PM)
Hmmm. If you're thinking of very physical stuff, I think I'd want to get protective gear for my wrists, at least, in your position.

mousekabob -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/16/2016 6:45:02 PM)
I would suggest if you're weak, maybe try going to the gym for strengthening classes with a personal trainer.

FieryOpal -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/17/2016 5:23:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mousekabob I would suggest if you're weak, maybe try going to the gym for strengthening classes with a personal trainer. Hahahahahahahaha... OP, as a certified personal fitness trainer who does strength and endurance training, you should know about warm-ups and pacing oneself to avoid physical injury. This should be second nature to you by now. [8\|] As a beginner to primal play takedowns, you wouldn't go from 0 to 200mph, by straining and overexerting yourself. You and your play partner should ease into a gradual build-up from milder to greater levels of intensity. Even with a wrestling fetish, you should start out with playful experimentation. As the Top, you should be careful to ensure that you do not cause unintentional injury to your partner. In fact, if you are doing something that will cause harm to yourself, then that means you are going too far. Get your priorities straight.

WickedsDesire -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/17/2016 6:10:12 AM)
Today I am offering multiple solutions for cogitation. 1. Have her wrap you in cotton wool firstly and very carefully, incase she sprains your skin, or become a pilot for NASA 2. Sell all your worldly possessions. 3. With your new found loot purchase a steamroller, or Sherman tank. 4. You can then confidently take her down 1. Take up DIMAC the deadliest form of martial art known to mankind, 2. The Dimac code of honour requires that before any of its students engage any non-practitioner in combat, they give the a fair and reasonable warning that they are exponents of Dimac, the deadliest form of martial art known to mankind, and that they can instantly disable their foe, should they so wish, their hands and feet being deadly weapons, and that they can kill, maim, mutilate, disfigure, tear, rend and cripple their foe. 3. As your hands and feet are now registered deadly weapons you will be required to keep them under lock and key in a biscuit tin

Grimr -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/26/2016 11:14:34 AM)
Wait... someone named musclebounddom is worried about hurting their wrists from a little rough play? Primal can be dangerous; instinct, timing and empathy need to be flowing alongside the hunger and libido dominandi. If you're not built for it, mentally or (ironically) physically more methodical BDSM may be the way to go.

FieryOpal -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/26/2016 1:07:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: StrongSpirit You want to take akido classes. Co-ed wrestling or similar martial arts would also work, but Akido is the only one I know of that does it co-ed. In any major city in the US, you should be able to find an akido class, and most should be co-ed. They should be able to work with weak wrists or other physical limitations, the martial art was designed by older people. Just be sure to mention it to your instructor. I still find it troubling that OP is more concerned about hurting himself than he is about his partner's safety. Face-slapping can cause injury if not done properly. A while back, this same OP spoke of using a closed fist on a sub if he discovered she was drinking soda instead of bottled water. OP has a fetish for wanting to whip (no pun intended) overweight subs into shape. Not to be snarky, but based on his fretting over spraining his back, I can't help but wonder whether he has a secret desire to get squashed. I am too busy shaking my head repeatedly to comment any further.

LadyPact -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/26/2016 1:32:15 PM)
OP, how can you be in LA and not be able to connect with your local community? For what it's worth, you're not looking for Aikido. You are looking for take down classes. Aikido is not for the offensive stance. It's about redirecting the other person. It's about stopping what is happening; not perpetrating it. Take downs are something else and usually regarded as a form of primal play. With take downs, there is always an inherent risk, so it's a consideration.

FieryOpal -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/26/2016 1:51:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact OP, how can you be in LA and not be able to connect with your local community? For what it's worth, you're not looking for Aikido. You are looking for take down classes. Aikido is not for the offensive stance. It's about redirecting the other person. It's about stopping what is happening; not perpetrating it. Take downs are something else and usually regarded as a form of primal play. With take downs, there is always an inherent risk, so it's a consideration. [sm=whisper.gif] (He's not ready to take an offensive stance. Best he learn some self-discipline and self-control first before trying to overpower and wail on submissive women, or else he just might land his butt in jail... where he'll have a lot more to worry about than a sprained wrist.)

Lucylastic -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/26/2016 1:59:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact OP, how can you be in LA and not be able to connect with your local community? For what it's worth, you're not looking for Aikido. You are looking for take down classes. Aikido is not for the offensive stance. It's about redirecting the other person. It's about stopping what is happening; not perpetrating it. Take downs are something else and usually regarded as a form of primal play. With take downs, there is always an inherent risk, so it's a consideration. I agree with this, altho the other ladies n peon made some good points:) Altho I dont take part in primal (because of personal physical limitations) I have seen a nice number of "takedowns" and it seems that the one thing that happens is that the "taker" often gets "involved" in close physical quarters and can get just as injured. Its not just the "takee" Now this seems to be part of the "fun" and I can see that, but someone who just wants to be physical with another and not hurt themselves is to me....not gonna work out to well unless you do "takedown" as a class or two. I thought the OP had an in with the community "leaders" or am I thinking of someone else....

LadyPact -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/26/2016 3:00:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lucylastic I agree with this, altho the other ladies n peon made some good points:) I would agree. quote: Altho I dont take part in primal (because of personal physical limitations) I have seen a nice number of "takedowns" and it seems that the one thing that happens is that the "taker" often gets "involved" in close physical quarters and can get just as injured. As far as I'm concerned, this is definitely a 'risk aware consensual kink' area. I don't consider this one of my strengths because of the potential injuries. I do have weak wrists and, in my younger years, I took a lot of falls that meant cracks or breaks. I have weak tissue in my left ankle, and anybody who has ever cracked a rib KNOWS it never completely heals. I am also shorter, weaker, and generally not in as good of shape as my opponents. Due to this, I fight dirty. [;)] (Ummmm... Some of you folks should probably stop reading now. Trigger warnings, ahead.) Any person, regardless of size of stature, can take another person down. Consider it the 'step above' self-defense class. Self defense is all about stunning your opponent long enough to get away or get help. Take downs are about being on the OFFENSIVE, so those few seconds that your target is stunned, etc, are all about your advantages. Self defense teaches you about the three target areas. (Eyes, throat, and groin.) The cool thing is, there are a number of other sweet spots on a human that will disorient them long enough to get them on the ground. A good tendon shot will mess up almost anybody's world long enough for you to accomplish what you want to do. That's the side of the leg, back of the knee, and the Achilles tendon. (I'm short, so I go for targets I know I can hit.) Those three areas will put stars in their eyes and they will generally hit the ground. quote: Its not just the "takee" Now this seems to be part of the "fun" and I can see that, but someone who just wants to be physical with another and not hurt themselves is to me....not gonna work out to well unless you do "takedown" as a class or two. I consider 'wrestling' and take downs two different things. Anybody who participates in 'sudden' taken downs (no advanced warning) ALWAYS has to consider the environment. Corner of the bed, the nightstand, etc. I can trip over a rock. You think I don't have to pay attention to the furniture in the room. [8D] If you're going to participate in take downs, there's going to be risk. Top, bottom, doesn't matter. You could take a bad landing on your wrist just as much as your target could. quote: I thought the OP had an in with the community "leaders" or am I thinking of someone else.... Definitely thinking of somebody else. [:D]

Lucylastic -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/26/2016 3:18:48 PM)
So many morons, so little time:)

LilJuly76 -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/26/2016 3:26:25 PM)
OP two words Jian Gomeshi-look him up ok more than two words you do a take down with a submissive and you do it the wrong way odds are she's going to land your behind in the slammer.

OsideGirl -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/26/2016 3:54:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FieryOpal I still find it troubling that OP is more concerned about hurting himself than he is about his partner's safety. Well, yeah....that's been a recurring theme...a lack of care and a general disdain.

Lucylastic -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/26/2016 4:12:36 PM)
quote: As far as I'm concerned, this is definitely a 'risk aware consensual kink' area. I don't consider this one of my strengths because of the potential injuries. I do have weak wrists and, in my younger years, I took a lot of falls that meant cracks or breaks. I have weak tissue in my left ankle, and anybody who has ever cracked a rib KNOWS it never completely heals. Im the same. due to various accidents/fights over the years. I get reminded of the results daily, lol

Cinnamongirl67 -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/26/2016 5:31:40 PM)
If you watch the guy in the speedos, he does show some fancy wrist exercising at times. Might help. http://youtu.be/psa8XvE-s5A

teentie -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/27/2016 4:27:42 AM)
if you did not masturbate so much your wrists would be stronger.

MuscleBoundDom -> RE: Extreme Physical Play (4/27/2016 9:00:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: teentie if you did not masturbate so much your wrists would be stronger. Well, thanks for the information. I quoted this person because I don't believe in self-masturbation. So your comment is not relative or funny.

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