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Sense of calmness and security when on a leash - 4/19/2016 11:52:16 AM

blinkingblythe

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Ive been lead around on neck leashes many times before and I feel a real sense of security and calmness when I am on them. Maybe I am weird, I dont care, I never fit in any of the stupid molds society tries to shoehorn people into, but I wonder if other people get this feeling when they are in a leash.
For me, I think it's because I am giving control to
another person, that I am being relieved of having
to be the driver, and instead now, I have the chaufeur in controll of the proverbial car, and also it shows
that the person cares and loves me enough and is
open minded in order to do this in the first place. Once, I went to bed with my lover holding me on
the leash (yes, I know this is a bit hazardous), and when I woke up, I had about 6 inches of leash between him and me. We were both laying on our sided with me facing his back. I could not unfasten the collar or the leash, and he was a very heavy sleeper, so all I could do was just lay there and think. I was one of the best moments of my life. Something
about being restrained in this manner, being helpless, and unable to go anywhere, untill he decided to wake up just gave me a wondrful feeling, a feeling that went way beyond sexual. I kissed him on his back, and felt grateful to be his prisoner at the moment. Instead of running wild, I had to stay right there, and just get my thoughts together, and behave like a good girl. I was protected from getting into any kind of trouble, and indeed, I felt an almost overwhelming feeling of protection right then and there. I love and feel comfortable in restraints. I love being strapped in,
and locked in and not having the key. To be able to
trust someone to lock me up and him (or her) knowing when to lock me in or let me roam a bit is a wonderful feeling that words can't describe. Most people are revolted at such a thing, but I am not most
people, and the feeling of the lock on my neck I can't open is one of the best feelings I have.

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RE: Sense of calmness and security when on a leash - 4/19/2016 1:38:19 PM

Kaliko

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Oh, I bet there are a number of us here who find comfort and security in acts that others might find "revolting."

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RE: Sense of calmness and security when on a leash - 4/19/2016 1:45:26 PM

littleclip

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i agree when my owner has me on a leash i am much calmer and focused the sense of relinquishing of all control and worry's is so fulfilling it helps me get in a better mindset for pain play

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RE: Sense of calmness and security when on a leash - 4/19/2016 2:21:58 PM

LilJuly76

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funny with me Dominants love to use chains not leashes, I have even had a collar chained to an object at night, long enough to reach the bathroom.

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RE: Sense of calmness and security when on a leash - 4/19/2016 3:22:35 PM

ThatDizzyChick