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LadyConstanze -> RE: the findoms? (4/27/2016 4:27:01 AM)


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ORIGINAL: matlock222

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I've never known a "findom" relationship in the real world, and I've known people in many different types of relationships, many of them bizarre. Findom seems to be an internet thing. It's not anywhere near the other fetishes. I've also noticed a strong relationship between findom advocates and the females who do it -- and it often sounds like they're trying to justify it to themselves.


Try to get out more, I know a few people who happily engage in it in the real world, it's not my cup of tea but I hope that I got better things to do with my time than getting my panties into a twist over a consensual fetish that just isn't mine.



WickedsDesire -> RE: the findoms? (4/27/2016 5:20:02 AM)

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I've never known a "findom" relationship in the real world I used to date one a long time ago...or was it a pro-mistress. I find it hard to give a definite label and who should fit in what label.

But there are a lot of give me your cash ones around everywhere. parasites I call this lot Do these ones differ from gold diggers? or have the just adapted to mans changing whims.



exoticdemon -> RE: the findoms? (5/1/2016 9:14:02 AM)

Definitely not. Why would that be so?
There are many aspects to findom and many ways to perform it. It might take a while before you find someone who can cater to your needs and the other way around.
Cash rules everything around us :)



crumpets -> RE: the findoms? (5/2/2016 3:50:52 PM)

FR...

While it's impossible to add value to yet another findomme thread, I attempt the infeasible by pointing the OP to
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    etc.

    Which brings us back to this thread:
  • Can we get a sticky post for FinDom?
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    • whitedragonX -> RE: the findoms? (5/7/2016 7:11:06 PM)

    quote:

    ORIGINAL: LilJuly76

    what in the heck is BSMD?

    OP: if you don't want to pay a Dominatrix then start off slow and maybe you might be able to hook up with a real relationship.


    1. Here is the thing about fin Domme's, most of them lack experience and just want easy money. If you really want waste your money see a pro domme who has experience. If you don't want to waste money, then find a REAL Domme. That means get off your computer and check out your local BDSM scene. Go to a munch, real people there. I recommend fetlife.com. Way better than collarspace.



    Missharpsichord -> RE: the findoms? (5/18/2016 8:17:09 AM)

    Can I just put in a request to everyone discussing this topic to not using the terms FINDOM(ME) and PRODOM(ME) interchangeably...? They are different things.

    Prodom(me)s (realtime or online professional dominants) can also be Findom(me)s and Findom(me)s are not necessarily Prodom(me)s.

    Not all findom(me)s are scammers, not all prodom(me)s are findom(me)s....

    That was difficult to write but hopefully not difficult to understand!



    Lucylastic -> RE: the findoms? (5/18/2016 9:04:56 AM)

    most whingers dont care about the difference.



    Awareness -> RE: the findoms? (5/18/2016 11:36:21 AM)


    quote:

    ORIGINAL: naruto205

    are all of them on here pretty much scammers?
    Here and everywhere else.



    verbatimguy -> RE: the findoms? (5/19/2016 10:39:14 AM)

    Findommes exist because men exist.



    LilJuly76 -> RE: the findoms? (5/19/2016 1:45:23 PM)

    I already knew that I don't think the OP did though



    AtUrCervix -> RE: the findoms? (5/19/2016 3:51:55 PM)


    quote:

    ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

    Yes. Did you really need to have us tell you that?


    (Apparently he did).



    AtUrCervix -> RE: the findoms? (5/19/2016 3:52:59 PM)


    quote:

    ORIGINAL: naruto205

    yes I'm new to BSMD. I could see them just being gold diggers.



    22.

    Says it all.



    AtUrCervix -> RE: the findoms? (5/19/2016 3:54:28 PM)


    quote:

    ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

    There is a huge difference between a pro-domme and a findomme


    Likewise...a Pro male Sub.....which....of course....I lay my claim to.



    MistressAubreee -> RE: the findoms? (9/13/2016 10:33:44 PM)

    As a FinDom myself, yes, we exist. *throws sparkles*
    On a serious note though, for us who ARE genuine, it's a pain in the butt to shift throw fake finsubs (who talk big shit and then run the moment they hear the word "tribute"), and it's hard on us genuine Doms cause there's so many Doms screaming every humiliating thing they can call a sub (and somehow expect money to be forked over?) and the Doms that are obviously just doing it for a quick buck (or desperately trying to pay bills).



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