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blinkingblythe -> sub to dom ettiquite? (4/23/2016 3:20:30 PM)
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I've been though friendships and a couple of relationships with people who are dominant, or have a more dominant personality, and the way I show respect is through some of the following (I'll use she in this post for simplicity sake, but
I mean both men and women)
If we are eating together, and she breaks off a peice of food reaches up to put it in my mouth, I don't heasitate or refuse. I don't put anything in her mouth unless she tells me that I can do that.
If she thinks my blouse needs to be adjusted, or if she wants to button the collar, whatever, I let her do it and not even say a word
When we kiss, she is the one who puts her tounge in my mouth, and I accept it, and let her lick the inside of my mouth. I don't stick my tounge in hers unless she tells me I am allowed to do it, or we are doing "tounge fencing".
If she tells me to do something, I can give input but the final decision is hers and I obey. If she punishes me for an infraction, I accept my punishment.
Also, I don't talk back to her, instead, I say "yes mam".
This is far more out of love and respect than sexual, as a true loving dom/sub relationship is more parental than anything else, and I was wondering if this ettiquite is correct. This is how I do things with a person who has a dominant role in the relationship, but I imagine there is no rigid "rules" laid out and it varies between couples/relationships. Personaly, I perfer to be the "obedient daughter", but there are relationships that are much looser as well as stricter. How do you view ettiquite and how is it like for you?
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