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Vancouver_cinful -> Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 2:29:26 PM)
In the recent post about sex slaves Archer and Caretakr made interesting points that female sex slavery is about more than just being there for sex-on-demand. They mention a courtesan-style training, as well as the ability to read, and adapt to, the dominant's sexual needs. This is exactly what I mean when I refer to an interest in sexual slavery. For me, it would never comprise the whole of my submission to a dominant, anymore than doing housework would comprise the whole of my submission. But it is definitely one aspect of my personality that I seek the courtesan/harem-girl mindset, and the hope is, that by doing so, it pleases the dominant, who has likely come across many women in his past who use sex as a weapon/reward. My belief is that sex slavery can be pleasing in more than just a sexual way. That's the dynamic that makes it submissive for me...that it puts sex back under the authority of my male partner. Many men are gun-shy about truly expressing themselves as sexually aggressive as they might wish, simply because of such issues with past women in their lives. I love the aspect of being an instrument to free-up that beast. How the sex-slave side of my mindset is linked to my submissive nature has puzzled me up to now, but I think their posts on this made it a lot clearer for me. I'd be interested to hear any thoughts about female sex-slavery...from all sides.

Caretakr -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 2:39:42 PM)
Let me put it this way. I like control, it is very useful and amusing. I also have basically zip inhibitions. The only thing I hard limit, is non consenting entities, and physical or mental damage. Sex by itself is very common, and common sex doesn't really turn me on. I like it to be odd, and I like to feel that the girl has the courage and outright wackiness that I enjoy. Playing tit for tat doesn't interest me either. Make me feel special, not commercial. Do things that I don't have to pay, pay, pay for. Crawl around on the floor in diapers, barking like a little doggie.....and you have just won my immediate affection and admiration. Wet them while doing it, and oh my, twinges of love! [:D] For being a pervert of MY caliber. Perform an impeccable tea ceremony with me, and I will be awed.............more than you will ever know. But blow jobs, fucks and licking? I can go pick up a bimbo in a BAR to do that crap. Be MORE.

peta -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 2:43:23 PM)
The temptation of it all. Crawling seductively on the floor for his amusement. barking for attention, begging for it, even purring and lapping at him just to get a single look. Climbing into his lap during some boring tv show and making sure his attention turns readily to me. all yummy

crouchingtigress -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 3:15:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL:Many men are gun-shy about truly expressing themselves as sexually aggressive as they might wish, simply because of such issues with past women in their lives. I love the aspect of being an instrument to free-up that beast. thats hot.[;)]

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 3:20:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Caretakr Crawl around on the floor in diapers, barking like a little doggie.....and you have just won my immediate affection and admiration. Wet them while doing it, and oh my, twinges of love! [:D] For being a pervert of MY caliber. Perform an impeccable tea ceremony with me, and I will be awed.............more than you will ever know. ::sigh:: Caretakr, I swear I am going to start blocking your posts!! How am I supposed to get through the rest of my day without obsessing about such things? Why is it so hard to find dominant males who realize that there is far more to submission, and to sex, than a blowjob? Don't get me wrong, oral worship can turn me into subbie-jello, but please, find me a dominant who can surprise me by challenging me to work harder, give more, BE MORE, and I swear I'll fall down and lick his feet. (And trust me, foot worship is not a pleasure for this girl...) So far, I feel I've had to practically cajole, and convince, every dominant I've played with that he can push me farther than a hard spanking, and a hand in the hair during a blow job. It seems they are all so damn frightened I'm going to turn on and them call them an abusive a$$hole. /rant

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 3:25:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress quote: ORIGINAL:Many men are gun-shy about truly expressing themselves as sexually aggressive as they might wish, simply because of such issues with past women in their lives. I love the aspect of being an instrument to free-up that beast. thats hot.[;)] Tell me about it! LOL But try finding a man who's willing and able to actually let the beast free. Either they don't trust you, or they don't trust themselves. Maybe I am asking to bite off more than I can chew, but I just can't live with not being challenged, with only giving as much as is comfortable for me. Ugh! ::sigh:: I need to go out for a walk, it's obvious my frustration level is far too high today. My posts could get messy at this rate. [&:]

popeye1250 -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 3:29:28 PM)
And it'd be nice for a sub to enjoy serving coffee and doing domestic chores while dressed as a maid, high heels, stockings, garterbelt, thongs, short black skirt, crisp white shirt. I like the "service" part of a slave as well as the sexual part for her to know that she is there for the sole purpose of serving her Master in any way that He sees fit. And it would surely be nice to have her on a leash while she sits at my feet watching t.v. with me for her to know that she is owned and my property.

missturbation -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 3:37:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: popeye1250 I like the "service" part of a slave as well as the sexual part for her to know that she is there for the sole purpose of serving her Master in any way that He sees fit. For me that is slavery. To serve your Master in any way he see's fit. Whether it be all about the sex - his choice, all about the serving - his choice or all about both. I'm happy to say that for my Sir it is all about both and thats how i like it. Oh and of course its gotta be about the beatings i crave so much too lol.

popeye1250 -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 3:46:30 PM)
Miss, that'd be the "fun" part for me if you screwed up something!

crouchingtigress -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 3:47:39 PM)
oh girl i feel for ya...i hope the walking helps[;)] quote: ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress quote: ORIGINAL:Many men are gun-shy about truly expressing themselves as sexually aggressive as they might wish, simply because of such issues with past women in their lives. I love the aspect of being an instrument to free-up that beast. thats hot.[;)] Tell me about it! LOL But try finding a man who's willing and able to actually let the beast free. Either they don't trust you, or they don't trust themselves. Maybe I am asking to bite off more than I can chew, but I just can't live with not being challenged, with only giving as much as is comfortable for me. Ugh! ::sigh:: I need to go out for a walk, it's obvious my frustration level is far too high today. My posts could get messy at this rate. [&:]

Caretakr -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 3:48:02 PM)
quote: So far, I feel I've had to practically cajole, and convince, every dominant I've played with that he can push me farther than a hard spanking, and a hand in the hair during a blow job. It seems they are all so damn frightened I'm going to turn on and them call them an abusive a$$hole. /rant That's because so many alleged princess "submissives " DO turn on them, and tell EVERYONE a guy is an abusive asshole, the first time a Dom DARES to stop making it all about the BOTTOM Cinn. Then they go around whining.......... Why can't I find a REAL man anywhere...boo hooo hooh HOOO poor me!!!!![:D]

missturbation -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 3:52:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: popeye1250 Miss, that'd be the "fun" part for me if you screwed up something! I presume ur talking about the beating? I rarely screw up though lol (i wish) so i like a good hard fun beating too.

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 3:55:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress oh girl i feel for ya...i hope the walking helps[;)] LOL Thanks. These deliciously dangerous doms on here keep stoking the damn fires...

crouchingtigress -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 4:00:26 PM)
well sounds like you need a magic wand my friend.......a hitachi magic wand[:)] quote: ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress oh girl i feel for ya...i hope the walking helps[;)] LOL Thanks. These deliciously dangerous doms on here keep stoking the damn fires...

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 4:03:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Caretakr That's because so many alleged princess "submissives " DO turn on them, and tell EVERYONE a guy is an abusive asshole, the first time a Dom DARES to stop making it all about the BOTTOM Cinn. Then they go around whining.......... Why can't I find a REAL man anywhere...boo hooo hooh HOOO poor me!!!!![:D] Yes, I know, and far too many vanilla ex-wives who called them perverts everytime they got frisky in the kitchen, or suggested doggy-style might be fun for a change. ::sigh:: The sad thing is, it really does hurt when I try to communicate to them that I actually mean what I am saying, and they give me that look of doubt. I know it's not personally directed at me, but as a human being who strives always to be as transparent as possible to my partners, it has the effect of making me feel completely invisible. The opposite of what I was hoping for. Okay, even I can hear the whiny-ness in my typing. LOL Out for a walk I go. ::sigh::

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 4:08:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress well sounds like you need a magic wand my friend.......a hitachi magic wand[:)] Oh hell, it's not that kind of frustration. That's an easy one to deal with. There's never a lack of toys, or friends, for that. LOL But the slave side...well, she rarely gets to see the light of day. Such is single life.

Caretakr -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 4:09:39 PM)
Yes I know. Ever see what Barbie did to Ken? That's how nice guys end up in this sick culture. You really want to give me the feeling of having some balls? let me come home to a yard you just totally manicured.......a spotless house, dinner on the table. And kneeling naked in the middle of the floor, hands holding those diapers outstretched..BEGGING me for it. Princeses turn me off, they want to treat me like Ken. A downtrodden, nutless wonder-an accesory. You girls want a REAL man? Don't be Barbie.

KnightofMists -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 4:11:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful Many men are gun-shy about truly expressing themselves as sexually aggressive as they might wish, ..... I just don't get this.... of course... I don't have to interact with males on a sexual basis. But, I do appreciate that many females struggle at being sexually uninhibited, even with their own intimate partners... and the reasons are many. As far as Female Sex Slavery! I don't particularly like the term. It is generally precieved by many in a very narrow context of "SEX" on Demand. For me the apart of slavery is a person's Sexuality. Sexuality is not narrowed to just sex on demand. But, is the mindset that ones is a sexual being that is available but also presents themself in pleasing manners, is uninhibited in expressing passions and desires. is unihibited in fulling my passions and desires. It's about going shopping, doing the household chores or a multitude of other things and not forgetting that one is a sexual being. So often we hear the joke of the best way to kill a sex life is get married. We also hear how people let themself mentally, emotional and physically go in a sexual context after they get in the relationship. Sexual Slavery is about keeping the candle of sexual power burning at least doing ones part in it. I don't believe that it is only a one way street. Being sexually appealing in a physical, emotional and mental way is to me much more important than being "Sexually Available". Without the Sexual Mindset of being appealing... being a sex slave is just a Duty and not a Passion. I crave the Passion... not the Duty!

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 4:13:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Caretakr You girls want a REAL man? Don't be Barbie. And yet so many men fall for her. I just don't get it. Even my ex., as dominant as he is, found himself a woman who pretends to be submissive to him, but screams like a psycho-bitch everytime she doesn't get her way. ::sigh:: I hate Barbie, the bitch has everything.

Caretakr -> RE: Female Sex Slavery (7/20/2006 4:33:36 PM)
I leave the barbies in the toy chest with ken. Not worth my time. KOM is correct, it's about the passion. But passion dies in chains...........you have to let it free, for it to live.

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