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WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/11/2016 9:03:57 AM)
I've known "genuine" Lesbians who had male slaves and "genuine " lesbians who were tops and topped men. If by play, you mean have sex, then I suppose not having sex with men and being sexually attracted only to women pretty much sums up the whole Lesbian label. I guess. Maybe I've just known a lot of disingenuous lesbians.

QualityFirst -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/11/2016 9:05:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: closetoyou IF they are genuine lesbians, they do not [play] with men. Why not?

PeonForHer -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/11/2016 9:07:47 AM)
quote: I've known "genuine" Lesbians who had male slaves and "genuine " lesbians who were tops and topped men. Really? Fun! [:)]

QualityFirst -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/11/2016 9:10:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance If by play, you mean have sex, then I suppose not having sex with men and being sexually attracted only to women pretty much sums up the whole Lesbian label. I'm afraid it's not just a preference about whom to have sex with. For example, I very much like to lick the feet of a lady (straight, lesbian or bisexual), but not to lick the feet of a man.

Nepthys61 -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/11/2016 9:15:02 AM)
Not YOU again!!

QualityFirst -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/11/2016 10:08:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Nepthys61 Not YOU again!! Lay down and keep quiet!

Nepthys61 -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/11/2016 10:12:30 AM)
LOL...make me.

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/11/2016 10:12:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: QualityFirst quote: ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance If by play, you mean have sex, then I suppose not having sex with men and being sexually attracted only to women pretty much sums up the whole Lesbian label. I'm afraid it's not just a preference about whom to have sex with. For example, I very much like to lick the feet of a lady (straight, lesbian or bisexual), but not to lick the feet of a man. Ok, at the risk of .... Well, so much ... I'll try to explain. Having your feet licked, for me at least, can be an arousing and intimate act. I teased one of my (now ex) lovers it was like having 10 extra clits. So, while it is something you enjoy doing as a service, for another it can be part of how they express sexual intimacy. Therefore, would exclude whichever gender the individul was not attracted to. For some, it's not something they necessarily like and consider it part of an objectification or humiliation or whatever the foot fetish ritual means to them. In this case, the gender might not be of issue. People have preferences, and individual desires that are either compatible with yours or not. Rather than bemoan the incompatible, search out that which compliments and is compatible with you.

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/11/2016 10:14:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: I've known "genuine" Lesbians who had male slaves and "genuine " lesbians who were tops and topped men. Really? Fun! [:)] Yes, yes they were lots of fun people. I miss them.

BitaTruble -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/11/2016 10:22:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: QualityFirst Most lesbian ladies on the site only want to interact with a lady. But some of them also or exclusively want to interact with a man. Why is it that, conversely and up until now, I saw no gay men on the site who want to interact with a lady? I get some email from gay men on the site who want to interact with me but I never claimed to be a lady so maybe that's why. I know of at least two guys on the site who are gay and looking for female dominants. The former co-president of APEX had a D/D relationship and her and her girlfriend jointly owned a male submissive but I can't think of a combination of gender/orientation which doesn't exist somewhere. Small pond for sure.. but there's a few fish swimming around. Bell curves.

QualityFirst -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/11/2016 10:24:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Nepthys61 LOL...make me. I don't dare, as you are a female dominant (and moreover an attractive one).

Andalusite -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/11/2016 11:06:52 PM)
Some bisexual women identify as lesbian or queer for political or social reasons. I haven't seen gay men actively seeking women here or on other bdsm personals sites, but I have done non-sexual bdsm play with a couple of gay men who I already knew. From what I understand, it happens fairly regularly, at least in my area.

Shandirra -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/12/2016 3:06:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: QualityFirst You don't need to address me with the French for "My God". "Dude" is enough honour. Don't give yourself airs. It's unbecoming. I used the expletive to illustrate exasperation with your ridiculous behavior. Seriously. You need to crawl back under your rock.

WickedsDesire -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/12/2016 5:41:50 AM)
99% of the lesbians on this site are infact men using stolen pictures. Therefore your observations are lacking and question invalid like all replies thus far save mine. closetoyou gets a passmark. Did you also know there are actually more fake lesbian profiles on this site than actual genuine women

QualityFirst -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/12/2016 8:14:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Shandirra quote: ORIGINAL: QualityFirst You don't need to address me with the French for "My God". "Dude" is enough honour. Don't give yourself airs. It's unbecoming. Not the least sense for some humor. Sad. quote: I used the expletive to illustrate exasperation with your ridiculous behavior. Seriously. You need to crawl back under your rock. I would prefer under your feet.

Shandirra -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/12/2016 8:34:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: QualityFirst Not the least sense for some humor. Sad. It's a text format. It's lost in translation when you're idiotic enough to insult women; including myself, prior to the 'joke'. So cram it, buttercups. quote: ORIGINAL: QualityFirst I would prefer under your feet. Not in a million years. Not for a million dollars. I don't reward piss poor behavior.

QualityFirst -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/12/2016 9:16:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Shandirra quote: ORIGINAL: QualityFirst Not the least sense for some humor. Sad. It's a text format. It's lost in translation when you're idiotic enough to insult women; including myself, prior to the 'joke'. So cram it, buttercups. quote: ORIGINAL: QualityFirst I would prefer under your feet. Not in a million years. Not for a million dollars. I don't reward piss poor behavior. Please, lady: you must already have read one of my messages in which I explained that it truly hurts me when a lady humiliates me in public.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/12/2016 10:51:18 AM)
quote: Please, lady: you must already have read one of my messages in which I explained that it truly hurts me when a lady humiliates me in public. Well then stop humiliating yourself.

QualityFirst -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/12/2016 11:31:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick quote: Please, lady: you must already have read one of my messages in which I explained that it truly hurts me when a lady humiliates me in public. Well then stop humiliating yourself. Me humiliating myself??? I'm not at all aware about it.

Shandirra -> RE: Lesbian vs Gay (5/12/2016 11:43:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: QualityFirst Please, lady: you must already have read one of my messages in which I explained that it truly hurts me when a lady humiliates me in public. I don't care what hurts you. Stop behaving like a whiny child. Man up. quote: ORIGINAL: QualityFirst Me humiliating myself??? I'm not at all aware about it. Three or four threads and numerous pages of people enumerating your many faults yet you're so clueless as to still be in denial over your short comings? You need to get out from behind the keyboard/monitor, go out in public and live your life. Seriously. Seek professional help. You have issues beyond anything here. I'm so done [sm=anger.gif] with this [sm=AttentionWhore.gif].

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