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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/20/2016 3:01:07 AM

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why are you replying to me? I don't fall for scammers? not only that the last post was in July so I don't even know what I said.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/20/2016 8:15:00 AM

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oops I didn't mean to click reply on your name. my bad. I meant to respond to the OP who made the thread. not sure how that happened. sorry.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/20/2016 9:13:01 AM

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If you hit the Post Reply button at the bottom of the forum, it replies to last poster.

It's no biggie everyone does it....it does cause confusion sometimes, though.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/20/2016 3:01:11 PM

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so true

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/20/2016 9:26:10 PM

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By the way, I did meet a Dominatrix. She requested 50% deposit before meeting her. I did this and she gave me her address. It was her apartment. Our first session was just her telling me what she expected of me. Wow, $300 for that. All the stuff she promised me that we would do was to be done at a later time. What a rip.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/20/2016 10:11:09 PM

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So when are you going back?

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/20/2016 10:16:31 PM

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By the way, I did meet a Dominatrix. She requested 50% deposit before meeting her. I did this and she gave me her address. It was her apartment. Our first session was just her telling me what she expected of me. Wow, $300 for that. All the stuff she promised me that we would do was to be done at a later time. What a rip.

Pat, I will buy a clue for $1000.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/20/2016 11:08:38 PM

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/21/2016 12:31:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

By the way, I did meet a Dominatrix. She requested 50% deposit before meeting her. I did this and she gave me her address. It was her apartment. Our first session was just her telling me what she expected of me. Wow, $300 for that. All the stuff she promised me that we would do was to be done at a later time. What a rip.

Didn't you just say in your original post, "So i've been around the block. I've learned my lessons the hard way. I've lost a lot of money by being scammed. But i'm wiser now." but you're still giving money to random women before you even meet them?

My advice is don't give any money until the session is over with if you really need to pay for a dominatrix and can't find one for free. Don't trust a strangers word so easily or you'll just keep getting yourself hurt and used by them.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/21/2016 4:40:27 AM

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My advice is don't give any money until the session is over with if you really need to pay for a dominatrix and can't find one for free.

You always pay a Professional Dominatrix at the start of the session, and you should expect to pay a deposit if you haven't seen her before. It's totally safe to do this as long as you have done your research, which is what it sounds as though the OP neglected to do as his story does not sound like one that involves a real professional at all. Always follow the contact instructions and protocol on a professional's website to the letter. No real professional will even speak to you if you haven't.

The OP (if he is still reading) definitely needs to start seeing a real professional right away.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/21/2016 8:08:52 AM

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By the way, I did meet a Dominatrix. She requested 50% deposit before meeting her. I did this and she gave me her address. It was her apartment. Our first session was just her telling me what she expected of me. Wow, $300 for that. All the stuff she promised me that we would do was to be done at a later time. What a rip.

You're an idiot. You never pay a whore until AFTER she's delivered.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/21/2016 9:02:37 AM

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My advice is don't give any money until the session is over with if you really need to pay for a dominatrix and can't find one for free.

You always pay a Professional Dominatrix at the start of the session, and you should expect to pay a deposit if you haven't seen her before. It's totally safe to do this as long as you have done your research, which is what it sounds as though the OP neglected to do as his story does not sound like one that involves a real professional at all. Always follow the contact instructions and protocol on a professional's website to the letter. No real professional will even speak to you if you haven't.

The OP (if he is still reading) definitely needs to start seeing a real professional right away.

No payment until services rendered.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/21/2016 9:10:01 AM

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By the way, I did meet a Dominatrix. She requested 50% deposit before meeting her. I did this and she gave me her address. It was her apartment. Our first session was just her telling me what she expected of me. Wow, $300 for that. All the stuff she promised me that we would do was to be done at a later time. What a rip.

Pat, I will buy a clue for $1000.

So, a male Dominant keeps visiting "Pro-Dommes", getting ripped of and keeps trying...at this point I'm convinced he's a troll because no-one can be that stupid and survive.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/21/2016 9:15:02 AM

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My advice is don't give any money until the session is over with if you really need to pay for a dominatrix and can't find one for free.

You always pay a Professional Dominatrix at the start of the session, and you should expect to pay a deposit if you haven't seen her before. It's totally safe to do this as long as you have done your research, which is what it sounds as though the OP neglected to do as his story does not sound like one that involves a real professional at all. Always follow the contact instructions and protocol on a professional's website to the letter. No real professional will even speak to you if you haven't.

The OP (if he is still reading) definitely needs to start seeing a real professional right away.

No payment until services rendered.

No services until payment rendered.

Unless it is very different in America, your advice would get the OP blacklisted by every reputable professional in his local area.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/21/2016 9:30:55 AM

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PaulWG tis fine - for my mad rambles I state I reply to the OP. If I do otherwise I quote there names. Browsing through a few pages or hundreds is effort

How does one define a pro dominate - that is difficult for even me to answer

I think if you are going to pay then someone on here, who was it? Said she would like a very small donation to a credible charity of her choosing...I think 5-10$ to be reasonable...no idea what she asked for. What is the typical rate these days anyhoos?

You should not be purchasing a gift card firstly, these are the obvious money vortexes I have seem a few profile on here of that ilk.......

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/21/2016 9:33:05 AM

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your advice would get the OP blacklisted by every reputable professional in his local area.

I would suggest that you do a search and read all of his previous posts - then you would realize that he 1) doesn't go to "reputable professionals" and 2) probably already has been blacklisted.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/21/2016 9:36:03 AM

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No services until payment rendered.

Unless it is very different in America, your advice would get the OP blacklisted by every reputable professional in his local area.

Unless you live in a different UK to me, it's no payment until services rendered.

I dated a street whore for almost 4 years (tried to get her off the drugs).
Her and all her street colleagues were service first, pay once delivered.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/21/2016 10:00:26 AM

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I would suggest that you do a search and read all of his previous posts - then you would realize that he 1) doesn't go to "reputable professionals" and 2) probably already has been blacklisted.

Yes. I was not getting a particularly favourable impression of the OP's current approach. He can change, or else spend his whole life not getting what he wants. His choice really. If he has already been blacklisted then that would be bad news for him.

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Unless you live in a different UK to me, it's no payment until services rendered.

I dated a street whore for almost 4 years (tried to get her off the drugs).
Her and all her street colleagues were service first, pay once delivered.

I know that you are trolling here, but I'll feed you anyway. What a "street whore" does has nothing to do with the way that a Pro-Domme conducts her business.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/21/2016 10:04:12 AM

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So, a male Dominant keeps visiting "Pro-Dommes", getting ripped of and keeps trying...at this point I'm convinced he's a troll because no-one can be that stupid and survive.

I wonder what Master Richard's Master Certification course taught about money protocol in hiring Pro-Dommes. I hope that certificate of completion came with some written documentation that OP can consult.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/21/2016 10:29:22 AM

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Unless you live in a different UK to me, it's no payment until services rendered.

I dated a street whore for almost 4 years (tried to get her off the drugs).
Her and all her street colleagues were service first, pay once delivered.

I know that you are trolling here, but I'll feed you anyway. What a "street whore" does has nothing to do with the way that a Pro-Domme conducts her business.

oh dont confuse the poor blokes....you can see by their attitudes they dont think there is a difference.

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