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WickedsDesire -> RE: Relationships (5/12/2016 6:27:34 AM)
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They should be equal as Snitch DesFIP DesFIP say/infer/allude to, or only darkness itself.
I can write this many ways I have been around a long long time, some would say too long ;)
Here is how I see the reality, in almost all cases, on these sites, clubs etc, call it what you wish. A warped interpretation of what the word lifestyle used to mean, if I was to be asked.
Creature of utter wretch’s hookup >90% of the time with only monsters and sophistry. Caught forever, within all moments, of utter malarkey, evermore, and not the good kind. Too many reasons to go into.
Fractured and damaged seek only liars, cheats and vagabonds and monstrosities...it would appear I am having problems wording my thoughts. No matter...but you have the gist, dear readers, of what I am trying to say.
I can cite a wealth of reality from many perspectives - let me see if i can.
I once dated a women and she was a nice women with phd. So initially I thought I had moderately sentient being on my hand.
Sex she would just open her legs and present her hole – never a good sign – nor the men who would stick it in all holes.
So after a couple of dates I started to ask her about her past dates and life and wants and needs. Then not long after that I had a conversation with her I said you are too vulberable for me to date. I am not entirely sure it registered, it certainly did not resonate through her mind.
Fast forward a few months I came across her by chance on a site
And her next date after me was a conman a notorious one at that
And her next date after that was a man (from fet) who drove her to the countryside (not doubt not his house as his wife would be miffed) blindfolded her fuked her hole (see earlier ref). Took off said blindfold and said that was not me who fuked you it ws someone else “nah” she said.
“Yes” he said and here is the video from proof.
she told the story openly on fb – so I have no qualms mentioning it here, fetlife they just delete me when I do.
Anyhow I said to the vulnerable one no matter how I look at that that is rape. And that was her next two choices after me. I hope she finds happiness, perhas she has, the chance of it occurring on these places are <1% due to the sophists monsters that make up the bulk of the userbase…ban me off fetlife when I mention that too
Example 2. Another creature, nice person within, but brokey. I thought we would try poly it was my idea and how many poly forums swinger forums have I be banned off now- all of fets. Why? I simply state these relationships almost never work and the only people who say so, with a handful of exceptions, are those cheating on everyone.
Now, I do not doubt for a minute she is hard work and all brokey for she is simply fragile person (and still owes me 5 vodkas to this date). So she went down the route of poly and her partner discovered he liked it and left her for another part of that couple.
To be clear both of these women are nice women – and its common knowledge here and there, both have wrote their story
Example 1 Never said to me you were correct and I apologize you tried to tell me in soo many ways.
Example 2 I should have kissed, what now 12 years ago, and perhaps she would not have set out on her path.
Unfortuately I believe both to be caught within cycle and they must burden 50% of the blame (or 100% of their own blame) for the choices that they make.
Did I answer this one OsideGirl
As for DesFIP you lack the capacity to answer Ops question and no surprise, to me ThatDizzyChick has chosen to concur with desfips words
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