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What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 7:24:00 PM

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Curious minds want to know...

What is a great kiss for you; what is a good kiss and what is a bad kiss? How does kissing tie into your D/s or M/s relationship and/or any other relationships?

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 7:31:44 PM

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hmmmmmm I just Loooooooove kissing. Oh now I'm all misty eyed and dreamy just thinking about all that wonderful kissing. I like a kiss to start out just barely touching, just testing, tasting and then get more and more hungry and greedy. I can only recall one really bad kiss. A guy who stuck his tongue in my mouth like he was sticking his hand in a clogged up drain. Just shoved it in and rooted around in there- Bleh!

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 7:36:37 PM

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I love being kissed and in D/s i want it to be kissed hard and sexy forget the pecks, leave that for vanilla. I want to know i have been soundly kissed passionately with ownership screaming at me! ooops getting carried away or wish i was lol.

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 7:37:02 PM

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If you really want to know if he loves you so, it's in his kiss.
Is it in his eyes...oh, no you'll be deceived.
If you want to know if he loves you so, it's in his kiss.

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 7:40:11 PM

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That is a great question!

To me, kissing is very important. In fact, if someone can not kiss and touch me properly I have a difficult time becoming aroused.

A bad kiss is sloppy, rough, smelling smoke or otherwise bad breath.

A good kiss is gentle and erotic.. so your lips and tongue are connected to your clit. It's a kiss combined with gentle caress.. touch is so very important.

From a bdsm standpoint I find that I trust easier when kissed. It makes me feel intimate and close. The perfect combination of powerful kiss mixed with just the right hair pull at the base of my head and I am toast.

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 7:41:29 PM

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A good kiss is passionate...so much so that its like electricity running thru you both, you can't pull yourself away...you know you should, if only just to breathe -- but you cant. When you do....you feel your knees go weak. ** LOL ** at least thats what kisses are like now. I still cant get enough of Daddy's kisses. Thank God the days of a boy ramming his tounge down my throat as far as possible and hard as he could are gone......there's just nothing sexy about someone trying to swallow you whole.

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 7:42:14 PM

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One more thing, if she closes her eyes when you are kissing her, take off all your clothes.

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 7:43:13 PM

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I love when it just kinda starts out slow..then the mouth starts coming open..the hands go in the hair...as each person gets turned on more..bodies start rubbing against each other...with a Sir when a slap or two is involved......mmmmmm..makes me all wet just thinking about it.

The worst kiss I ever had was my ex-fiance'....his tongue went down my throat..and into my stomach...so gross...not even passionate...yuck!!!

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 7:49:21 PM

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A long...hot......wet kiss that lasts a lifetime in a single breath. Mmmmmmm....

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 7:49:52 PM

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It's easier to discribe what one considers a bad kiss then a good one then again it might just be that my mind drifts *S*

i don't like the big overly wet drooly kisses, or the ones that feel like the other person is trying to lick the bottom of your stomach. to me it's just not sexy. IF you need a towel after a kiss then it wasn't a good kiss.

When kissing i like the firm purposeful directional kisses. They know what they want and how to acheive it kind of them. A masterful kiss can make me melt instantly. Kissing a man and kissing a woman is very different though i've found. Both are great just different.

Kissing is a big thing for me, in any intimate relationship. If i can't kiss you i probably can't do anything else either. I do have a couple friends i feel comfortable kissing but that's the nice closed mouth friendly kiss type thing *S*

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 7:53:36 PM

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One more thing, if she closes her eyes when you are kissing her, take off all your clothes.

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 9:28:47 PM

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Shoop shoop...

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 9:41:43 PM

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when He kisses me i can feel His love...when He grabs my bottom lip and sucks and bites it...i feel His passion deep down in my soul. To me, kissing is the most intimate part of love making.

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 9:44:53 PM

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One thing i have realized since my divorce, a kiss is where its at. The tight lipped no tongue kisses should be saved for family members. I want a full on lip locked, tonsil sucking, leave me weak in the knees kiss or forget it...i might as well be your Aunt Bea.

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 9:45:41 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kyraofMists
Curious minds want to know...

What is a great kiss for you; what is a good kiss and what is a bad kiss? How does kissing tie into your D/s or M/s relationship and/or any other relationships?

Knight's kyra

I don't know how well to describe it, but it's one where the other persons mouth does not go outside the bounds of my lips, a kiss that starts soft and grows, a kiss that's never predictable (I had an ex who kissed exactly the same way every single freakin time), a kiss that's active on all sides and a kiss that's wanted.

I've only met one woman who kissed me well- women tend to be far too passive and soft kissers for my liking.

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 9:49:42 PM

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when he wraps his fist in my hair and controls me with his strength... it's raw and primal and savage...

when he's playful and teases me a bit and shares his breath with me...

when he pulls me gently but firmly towards him and kisses me tenderly on the forehead...

do I have a favorite one of these... no. And I hope I never have to choose for I love all his types of kisses as much as I love all the aspects of him that there are...

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 10:00:57 PM

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A good kiss, one that starts as a tiny peck and grows into something that leaves you both gasping for breath afterwards.

A bad kiss... one that starts off in high gear and leaves you both looking for wet naps afterwards (I HATE sloppy kissers)

An OK kiss, little tongue contact, but enough feeling behind it that you can overlook that. Had that recently

A GREAT kiss... The first time I met my partner, after a few months of leadup... we never actualy SAID hello. He kissed me in the doorway, held that kiss as he backed up to the bed, wrapped his arms around me and pulled me down next to him, and we came up for air a few minutes later. After we pulled back, looked at each other, he smiled and said "Hi."

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 10:04:27 PM

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i can only remember my worst kissers so...i will talk about them. the first, i suppose in his attempt to seem passionate and wild or whatever, was a little too overzealous and shoved his tongue down my throat. when i pulled away and said in a happy, laughing voice as to not hurt his feelings, "hey, slow down" he would look at me, nod or say 'okay' and then go right back to what he was doing. the second kept flicking the tip of his tongue against mine. thats the part that stands out the most for me.

for a while, i seriously thought that i was wrong for wanting something different...until my friends told me otherwise lol

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 10:21:22 PM

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Some of the best kisses were not the sexiest kisses. Sometimes if they were "too good" I figured there was some sort of problem, like trying to be too technical or something.. a surgical kiss...

Kissing in Ds hmmmmm.. Daddy's kisses are simply the sweetest that there are. It is a contrast frankly, being spanked until my butt feels like it is on fire and then he grabs my hair and pulls my head towards his lips, hovers, and then softly kisses me...

Or my favorite, dips me back and puts wine in my mouth as he covers my lips with his...yummmmmmmmmmm

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RE: What's in a kiss? - 7/20/2006 10:43:22 PM

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I really like kissing.
I start by gently kissing the lips, putting my tongue into her mouth ever so slightly teasing her, then gently biting her lips and then lashing her tongue with mine. Then progressing along to very aggressive kissing putting my tongue as far into her mouth as possible and running my hands through her hair and pulling her closer.
Twenty minutes of that and she's putty.

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