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any advice - 5/17/2016 5:03:01 AM

cody25

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so im 25 easy going i cant find a girl to play or even a relationship i thought i would come to this site but noone is returning messages i am nice i am not rude or sexual why am i struggling.

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RE: any advice - 5/17/2016 5:31:34 AM

DaddySatyr

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I don't know if you're up on your Dante. In case you're not:

"Abandon all hope, ye who enter here."

On the list of top ten places to find a viable partner, neither "Collarme" nor "Collarspace" appear.

Before I offer real advice, I'd like to point out that your wording belies your contention:

"i cant find a girl to play or even a relationship" This particular wording makes it sound as if you "rank" a relationship as either less desirable or less important (choose a word) than a play partner.

Just ask yourself: Am I looking for a relationship? That's what most ladies seem to want. Once you've answered that, do your actions truly match your desires? Are you focusing on play?

The best advice I have for you is to look into TNG groups. You can look them up on Fetlife.

Michael

< Message edited by DaddySatyr -- 5/17/2016 5:32:14 AM >

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RE: any advice - 5/17/2016 5:39:12 AM

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You joined yesterday. The internet is not known for instant girlfriends.

First, redo the profile. Add things you enjoy doing such as movies or type of music or hiking, vanilla type stuff. Then use capital letters to start sentences. How you write reflects on how people will perceive you online. Use spell check and proper grammar.

Second, get to your nearest TNG meeting. Those meetings are for the younger crowd. If you don't have a TNG near you then go to your nearest munch. Meet people. Make friends. Network.

You have to realize that the women your age might get 100+ messages a day. Even if you write the greatest message the odds of her reading it and replying are very tiny. That is one reason why you should be attending munches and events. Finding those munches and events may be as easy as doing a Google search for munches in your town or state.

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