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vaensongralfrdis -> Married BBW hedonist seeking friends and romantic Daddy Dom (5/23/2016 1:51:48 PM)
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I'm creative, love animals, talented, and have a big, warm heart. Make me swoon and I will likely fall for you. I aspire for a lot of things, including my business and as a songwriter.
I have a husband, but we have found in the end we seek different things when it comes to BDSM. While he is Gorean and desires a slave, I am a hedonist and cannot give him what he desires as I need to retain too much control in my relationships to truly submit.
I blame life. Perhaps, once, I could have been a slave. But now, while I retain that heart, submitting because the other person wants me to terrifies me. That is not to say it may not manifest naturally as part of a relationship. In fact, it likely will. It's how we would know if we're a match, I'm sure.
The one thing I really don't have that I want is romance. I need someone who will make me feel special, take the time to get to know me without jumping into the sexual stuff. Go on dates, open doors for me, that sort of thing. Maybe even vacation.
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