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How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat on ... - 5/23/2016 11:08:56 PM   
highdroponics


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Status: offline 		I really would love to some day come home to my girl already pre-filled with cum. But Im just not sure how to go about getting her to fuck other men. I mean, it's really not such an easy task to just talk to her about it, she's very set on monogamy. She has cheated in the past and Im pretty sure she cheats on me even now, but I can't get her to admit to it, even though I tell her it's perfectly okay if she does have sex as long as she will be straight-forward, honest about it. Either she's too shy/embarassed to tell me, or she just isn't cheating. But I really want her to tell me about it and be more open about having sex with others. We have talked about the idea in the past because she heard from my ex that I really like it, but she told me not to ever ask her to do it; now, Im not quite sure if she meant that or if she actually got with me, in part, for the reason that she can actually cheat and get away with it. She is the kind of person that likes to act like she doesn't like something when she really actually does. She has cheated A LOT on her exes, and even me a few times, but I REALLY want to know if I could get her into cuckolding. I want her to be more into the idea of me going down on her right after she had sex and getting my cock all lubed up with the last man's cum.

Even right now as I write this, she just got all dolled upand pretty to "go on a walk" with her ex. It's raining outside and its dark...something doesn't add up right there, lol. And back when she first got with me, she was still with this very same ex, her and I had sex, I came in her and she didn't bother to clean up afterwards. I asked her why and she just said "because I want him to have a little surprise when he plans to touch me down there later tonight". So all of this just leads me to believe that she loves the idea of cheating, she just wants to keep it a secret...but I really want to KNOW, without any doubt, that Im getting sloppy seconds out of her.

I was thinking of trying to get someone to get close with her to talk to her about it, find out whether she does cheat or not, and if not maybe plant the idea of cuckolding in her mind, maybe show her a few videos that would turn her on and get her wanting to do it. She already has the idea that Im ok with her cheating, I wouldn't necessarily admit that I WANT her to just for the sake of her telling me that she wont do what she heard from others that I liked my ex doing. Im just not sure how to go about getting her to flat-out admit it that she cheats. I would love some advice if anyone could really help with it.
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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 5/23/2016 11:16:50 PM   
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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 5/23/2016 11:18:41 PM   
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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 5/23/2016 11:52:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		Why don't you simply tell her straight that you have a cuckold fetish and it would turn you on to know that she sleeps with other guys.

Of course sleeping with other guys is her choice but it would totally turn you on that if she chose to do it, she'll be trust you and tell you all about it and you'll love to hear about her experiences.


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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 5/23/2016 11:58:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		Could be that she has her own ideas as to what is a turn on. Maybe she gets turned on by cheating. You giving her permission to cheat if she tells you about it might just ruin it for her. Life is not just about you and your fetishes.


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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 5/24/2016 12:21:03 AM   
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Could be that she has her own ideas as to what is a turn on. Maybe she gets turned on by cheating. You giving her permission to cheat if she tells you about it might just ruin it for her. Life is not just about you and your fetishes.


Huh? But life is also not about her and her fetishes either! In a relationship, how can make this type of statement?

Both have to negotiate a compromise to find a way to make both happy.

She could cheat on him with some men and not tell him, to satisfy her own fetish. While tell him maybe about one guy. She doesn't have to be totally honest about how many guys. That's a win win to me IF she indeed have this fetish.


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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 5/24/2016 3:21:41 AM   
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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 5/24/2016 3:32:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Greta75

Why don't you simply tell her straight that you have a cuckold fetish and it would turn you on to know that she sleeps with other guys.

Of course sleeping with other guys is her choice but it would totally turn you on that if she chose to do it, she'll be trust you and tell you all about it and you'll love to hear about her experiences.




From his post it sounds like he already has talked to her.

"We have talked about the idea in the past because she heard from my ex that I really like it, but she told me not to ever ask her to do it;"

but then he goes on to say he is not sure if she means that or is lying. In fact most of his post seems to imply that he doesn't really trust a word she says. Makes me kinda wonder what he sees in her that he is willing to be with someone he can't trust.

On the flip side if I told my partner that I wasn't into something and he kept pushing to the point he came to a website and pissed and moaned, he would never have to worry about who I was sleeping with again. Because it certainly wouldn't be him.

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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 5/24/2016 6:39:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		So your ex told her about your fetish and she told you that she won't ever do it and doesn't want to be nagged about it.

Yet you don't believe her. You think she lies and cheats and you disregard her is he's.

Why don't you end the relationship and let her find someone who does accept that she means what she says.

And in future, discuss your fetish upfront so this doesn't happen again.
But unless you want her to risk catching diseases, forget her being filled with cum.

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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 5/24/2016 7:02:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		It sounds like you have her answer already,that being no.You cannot force the issue or you could drive her away.Apparently loyalty means something to her whether it does to you or not.

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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 5/24/2016 9:38:33 AM   
highdroponics


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Status: offline 		Did I forget to mention the fact that she actually HAS already cheated on me in the past, and that she actually did this very thing to her ex with me? We had sex before we were actually together and mentioned that she was going home with my cum in her. She claimed that she hoped her ex touched her down there that night to get the "surprise" of my cum in her.

I think the point has been missed entirely. She has done this in the past, frequently. And yes, she is the type to not admit to something she necessarily likes out of fear of being judged.

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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 5/24/2016 9:54:24 AM   
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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 5/25/2016 8:25:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		If you like her to cheat, don't ask her to do so. Just tell her that if she would cheat, you would remain faithful to her.

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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 5/26/2016 9:55:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

So talk to her openly and honestly like an adult.

Yup,so much of this whole thing is "back door politics" If you can't discuss it and come to an agreeent, then the relationship wasn't meant to be.

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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 5/30/2016 6:33:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		communication is the key here, talk to her about what you just told us and see how she reacts ....maybe cheating is what turns her on

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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 5/30/2016 4:51:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: highdroponics

I really would love to some day come home to my girl already pre-filled with cum... Either she's too shy/embarassed to tell me, or she just isn't cheating. But I really want her to tell me about it and be more open about having sex with others.

We have talked about the idea in the past because she heard from my ex that I really like it, but she told me not to ever ask her to do it; now, Im not quite sure if she meant that or if she actually got with me, in part, for the reason that she can actually cheat and get away with it.

She is the kind of person that likes to act like she doesn't like something when she really actually does. She has cheated A LOT on her exes, and even me a few times, but I REALLY want to know if I could get her into cuckolding. I want her to be more into the idea of me going down on her right after she had sex and getting my cock all lubed up with the last man's cum.

...So all of this just leads me to believe that she loves the idea of cheating, she just wants to keep it a secret...but I really want to KNOW, without any doubt, that Im getting sloppy seconds out of her.


She seems to be cheating on you, and you seem to like it.

If that's what you want, then I guess you have it.

If you really want something more, I suspect you will have to look elsewhere.







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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 7/22/2016 3:35:41 AM   
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ORIGINAL: highdroponics

Did I forget to mention the fact that she actually HAS already cheated on me in the past, and that she actually did this very thing to her ex with me? We had sex before we were actually together and mentioned that she was going home with my cum in her. She claimed that she hoped her ex touched her down there that night to get the "surprise" of my cum in her.

I think the point has been missed entirely. She has done this in the past, frequently. And yes, she is the type to not admit to something she necessarily likes out of fear of being judged.



one thing to consider, MAYBE she has done this in the past, tried it many times, and found that she really did not like it. Decided to never do it again. and now here you are asking her to go backwards in her relationship.

another thought, there is the madonna/whore psychology, where she HAS TO look like a pristine chaste madonna to you, but can be a whore to other men.

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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 7/22/2016 5:22:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		Seems to me that the OP wants something he can't have - and his girlfriend isn't into that something.
You already know your girlfriend doesn't want to do this. For gods sake, don't marry her thinking you can change her, because it just doesn't happen that way. Love her for who she is right now, or leave her the hell alone.

my sweetie was married for twenty-something years to a woman who wasn't in the slightest interested in sex or kink, so he lived without both - a miserable existence for the most part. I wouldn't recommend that to anyone.

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RE: How to know/convince my girlfriend(fiance) to cheat... - 7/23/2016 1:12:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		Throw a party and invite every perverted guy you know which would screw a hole in mattress over and make certain she's the hostess? LOL Hell if I know... seems like there's some honesty issues going on with what you have going on right now.

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