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31 y/o Male, looking for a Goddess in Atl - 5/26/2016 8:22:52 PM   
DisciplineMeATL


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Status: offline 		Hello all, I am not exactly new to the site, but am just becoming active. After a quick look through the ladies in my area, seems like they are all "Pro Dommes," which is laughable and disappointing. Has anyone had any success in any geographic area finding partners? Or is this just a space for pro Dominatrixes to advertise?
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RE: 31 y/o Male, looking for a Goddess in Atl - 5/27/2016 7:28:19 AM   
DesFIP


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Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline 		The problem is that you have no space in your life for a dominant life partner.

She had to do what you want, even if she isn't interested in that. It's all about how she has to do you, all about what turns you on. There's no recognition that she's a person in her own right who will want her wishes to come first.

And since no one wants to fulfill your fantasies while getting nothing out of it, the only ones who would do this for you need to get something out of it to compensate them for their time. And that's money. That's all you can offer since you don't offer a relationship.

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RE: 31 y/o Male, looking for a Goddess in Atl - 5/27/2016 11:32:08 AM   
peppermint


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Joined: 10/18/2005
From: Montana
Status: offline 		Let me get this straight. You want a woman to do all the stuff you want done to you. I'll bet you want her to dress the part and wear sexy clothing. I'll even bet you want her to host and provide any toys that are needed. Then as her reward she gets to let you lick her pussy whether she wants it or not.

Nowhere do you mention that you want a relationship with this woman other than to itch your kink. Do you want to date her? Do you want to take her to the movies or out to dinner with friends? Do you want to have quiet evenings on the couch watching a video?

At the moment you have a "do me" profile which makes you a "do me" submissive. "Do me" submissives are a dime a dozen. If you really want to find a special Dominant women then realize you are going to have to court her and do something to make yourself attractive to her. Saying that she is allowed to slap you is NOT going to do it. If you are unwilling to have a real relationship then perhaps you should reconsider finding a ProDomme.

Welcome to the forums. If you have any questions feel free to ask them. Read through the forums. There is a lot of information on how to attract that special lady if that is really what you want.

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RE: 31 y/o Male, looking for a Goddess in Atl - 5/27/2016 12:42:38 PM   
WickedsDesire


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Status: offline 		No, and I have explained to you before many times (and all you identities) the hows and whys and the maths.

I have stated many times before there are more women fake profiles than genuine profiles - yet you over look the fact that it is men who create the bulk pof them. i cannot speak for genuine men profiles
You I have afforded way too much of my time....yes you have an excellent point...I have said that before. But blootering the forums all the time where it is mainly just the regulars no one hears your or particularly cares yes we all know I did that on fetlife (yes ive ran the numbers on that lace it is a wee bit better than this place - but not by much) but I never once hid who I was I have come to accept all the regulars on here; the genuine souls, the attached souls, the cheating souls...took me a long time; but i still will not accept bad stereotypes, sophistry anywhere.

I am a fan of a site improvement thread - many regulars are on here -
my last gf came halfway around the world to see me - sure it would be great if they all lived next door

I will further clarify matters further.
collarspace.com 0 Since the sites existence I have met no-one from it ever - Actually i almost once did and she American
fetlife.com 0 sure I know people on it and they know exactly what I am and what i stand (the site and many of them do not like this) for i probably had about 695 mailed me who were all married and the few fakes from 700 before I lost it on there >99% there is something wrong with that number( i get better odd on a swinging site) well i did before it became like this site

For those of you know what IC is/was 2
bondage.com before alt wasted it and it got like here and there 2

Now, as for the next one of yours i stumble across you better add in the demographics before you make the same claim over and over again x many identities

Alt.com zero (never pay ever)

Look at me read me - i never claim perfection I feel sorry for most genuine people looking on these places.

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RE: 31 y/o Male, looking for a Goddess in Atl - 5/27/2016 1:44:29 PM   
littleladybug


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DisciplineMeATL
Has anyone had any success in any geographic area finding partners?


Yup.

Thing is though, like anywhere else, you need to have something to actually offer a prospective partner that they want.

Hint: Your list of "wants" is not a good place to start.

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RE: 31 y/o Male, looking for a Goddess in Atl - 5/27/2016 1:57:26 PM   
WickedsDesire


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Status: offline 		littleladybug takes off his right sandal and invites thee to a smoting session....you may huff only one of the slippers and i often break the sound barrier when i swish them through the air

What did I say about sophistry offer a prospective partner that they want. he has no prospective genuine partners on here, at all...or fetlife either for the record..... perhaps you would care to point out ten genuine souls from his geographical area ...it is not a big ask of me now is it.

logically one can conclude he can write any olde shite and it will make no difference at all and exactly how many good womens profiles do you think I have read on here, or there, x all of time = zero

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RE: 31 y/o Male, looking for a Goddess in Atl - 5/27/2016 2:16:02 PM   
littleladybug


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Joined: 5/30/2013
Status: offline 		WickedsDesire-

I am speaking from personal experience when I say that there absolutely are genuine people on here. Thing is, generally speaking, one has no idea who is "genuine" or not until they get to know them. Further, "genuine" people have a tendency not to want to engage with someone who does not offer them anything- unless, as has been stated above, they are paid for their time.

It is certainly not up to me to point out to the OP who might or might not be genuine in his geographical area.

Thanks for playing though.

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