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WickedsDesire -> RE: Men vs women who can't support their kids (5/29/2016 9:36:11 AM)
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Alas, house husbands are still rare over here. Not that I am sure why that matters. Whoever gets custody of the kids keeps the house is how it works pretty much anywhere greta75
But it is not uncommon for the house to be sold and the bulk of the equity to be awarded to whoever has the kids, often the women.......always struck me as unfair that, it should be a 50/50 split in my mind regarding custody and in a fair percentage of cases (>10%) none of the two should have custody.
But as I have already said, greta75 and forum, his thread is based on sophistry, like pretty much all his others and contributions - The tally is completely unacceptable.....If he wishes to to contribute decency most of the time and have it out with a feminist, or fake profile, I am fine with that...he is not stupid either, but I am beginning to question this, or his purpose he has the capacity to word the thread a lot better..try doing so >50% of the time it is not a big ask
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I do not speak to many men privately, or couples, they lack the capacity to have decent conversation so almost all my examples cite women.
A few years ago I was talking to one in Ayr, she was a nice person. She tried to explain to me he is selling the house, forcing us to sell it, and she was clearly upset and angry at times. I asked why should you keep the house.... never got one answer to my liking.
Wickeds Divorce 12 years ago- no kids...short version or a longer version. due the sophistry of the thread.
Wicked to lawyers her to have and keep everything with one condition she pay my fees for the divorce and outrageous £2000 for that…This irked my lawyer on account of it kept billable to an absolute minimum and that disgusted me
But 18 months later I got an email asking if I wanted the two cats, as she had to move back in with mum (who has dogs) on account of her not being able to afford the house – which is contrary to what she told me not that I actually believed anything she had said to me for a number of years. But fuk 18 months and all that euquity.
My absolute advice is everything must be split 50/50 with the bias going to the one who has custody. My personal belief is every one has a right to social housing most Americans will not understand that much as they exist in a backwards society. But with the greater share awarded to those who have custody, ironically usually the women…for reasons that escape me a childless man with 3 cats (different cats now)
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